Borrowing a popular saying on the Internet: lick the dog until you have nothing left.
Whether it is love, family affection, or friendship, in a relationship, two people can only survive in this relationship if they maintain an equal attitude, are relaxed and relaxed, and are neither humble nor overbearing. Only by winning self-esteem and self-esteem can the relationship develop in a coordinated, good, and healthy direction.
Blindly groveling will only make your relationship farther and farther away.
Summer nights are always so hot. Many people like to take their loved ones for a walk after dinner, go shopping, eat some barbecue skewers, and drink a few bottles of beer. This is the most pleasant thing to do on a summer night. .
But someone took a picture like this on a busy summer night. I saw a girl dressed beautifully and exquisitely shouting at a man in black: "You need to take care of it! I am willing to go out." What's it got to do with you?"
The two people caused such a big fight, which caused a traffic jam in the originally well-coordinated traffic. The crowd nearby also stopped to watch when they saw this scene. The two people attracted a very high rate of return.
Some people are whispering, "This woman has a boyfriend, but she lives with her boyfriend but she still goes out and messes around. Not only does she stay up late, but she also hooks up with other men, which makes her boyfriend catch her. Current."
Then the girl raised her voice sharply and pointed at the man's nose and said, "If I want to go to the bar, I can go to the bar!" If I want to hug other men, I will hug other men! I can wear whatever I want! Are you my father or my mother? Who do you think you are when you control me so strictly?
Under the flickering of neon lights, I could see faint stars shining in the boy's eyes. I wonder if they were tears?
But he kept tolerating it and kept silent, letting the girl slap him without any complaints or intention of fighting back.
Whether it was because he thought his friend's clothes were too revealing or because he was worried that his girlfriend would catch a cold late at night, the boy even lent his black coat to the girl and put it on her body.
But the girl not only didn't appreciate it, she also angrily threw her arms at the boy's face again and again.
The boy was worried that his girlfriend would hit his hand to hurt, so he pulled his girlfriend's hand in front of him, stroked it for a while, and whispered, "Don't hit her again, your hand will hurt..." ā¦
The girl didnāt hesitate at all, she pulled her hand out and slapped the man twice.
Chengchengās point of view:
I heard that nine times out of ten love is sad. Is this true?
Then family and marriage do not exist in this world.
No matter what the relationship is, we can always get some nourishment from it, and we can also get some lessons and hurts.
If a relationship makes you unable to get away, causing internal friction and mental harm every day, then Chengcheng recommends that it is better to get out in time and escape completely, otherwise you will only be hurt again and again.
When some people see you groveling, not only will they not cherish you more, but they will do it even worse.
Chengcheng doesnāt know what exactly happened between the two, but in public, the woman hit someone with her arms raised. This is not only detrimental to social harmony, but also has an impact on other people. It is not worth advocating. the behavior of.
At the same time, Chengcheng advises boys here to have their own principles and bottom lines no matter who they get along with, and don't blindly treat others well, as that will only make themselves less and less cherished.
