In our daily work and life, we all often encounter people like this, who make excuses no matter what, and speak without hesitation, regardless of the occasion. Be indignant about things that are unsatisfactory, and be complacent about things that are beneficial! He talks hard and refuses to accept soft words. Even if he knows that what he said is wrong, he still refuses to admit it!
likes and criticizes because of his limited knowledge. Because of limited cognition, one looks at problems from a single perspective, resulting in differences between one's own and others' perspectives.
There is a doctor who studies seriously. Through his studies, he learned that arterial blood is bright red, while venous blood is dark red. His colleagues thought otherwise, believing that arterial blood was dark red and venous blood was bright red. The doctor pointed out that his colleague's point of view was wrong and explained some reasoning. From then on, the two people parted ways!
likes to argue because of his stubborn personality. Ding is Ding and Mao is Mao. Accept death and be stubborn!
A fellow electrician likes to argue! Everyone you meet has to debate for three minutes! Sometimes what he says is right, and sometimes what he says is wrong. This is determined by his limited cognition, not because he deliberately debates. He offended many people, but later he realized something and said: I will never argue with others in the future. Even if someone says that snow is black and coal is white, I will always obey.
Although what he said is quite extreme and overcorrected, this shows that his cognitive scope is expanding!
likes to argue because he takes himself too seriously. Among all living beings, everyone is insignificant, but from their own standpoint, everyone is their own master. Therefore, when encountering different opinions, they hope to prove that they are superior to others or that their opinions are correct through debate, so as to gain recognition from others. and respect!
Of course, these behaviors can only backfire! Because others also have face!
Therefore, there is no winner or loser in arguing, because when the argument starts, the person who is arguing loses!
Later I discovered that it is difficult to change other opinions, and arguing is the most irrational behavior.
There is a famous saying: People,
takes three years to learn to speak, but it takes a lifetime to learn to shut up
