It is useless to focus on making friends when you are young. You must seize your limited youth to complete your studies and accumulate the conditions and abilities to seize opportunities for the future. Classmates in elementary school, junior high school, and high school will be

It is useless to focus on making friends when you are young. You must seize your limited youth to complete your studies and accumulate the conditions and abilities to seize opportunities for the future. Classmates in elementary school, junior high school, and high school will be stratified in the future depending on the schools they are admitted to. Because of the gap between them, it will be difficult to stay together, or because the gap will widen, the outstanding one will eventually stop talking to you. Therefore, in the end, due to disparities and differences in grades, studies, abilities, and levels, those who fall in love prematurely will be completely separated, eliminated, and differentiated.

The plan for a day lies in morning, the plan for a year lies in spring, the plan for long-term lies in perseverance, the plan for life lies in youth, and the plan for youth lies in diligence and studiousness. When you are young, you must have a clear mind and know how to distinguish and filter out the most valuable things from the massive amount of information, so that you can gain more ability to survive and get more information that will make your life less embarrassing.

What is destiny? The inability to change the past and the inability to control the future is called destiny. But as young people, we must never leave it to fate, and we must never give up hard work and hard work. Work hard, work hard, cherish it, and have a clear conscience, and then leave the rest to fate. Only in this way can you not wait until you grow old to sigh or even regret it.

As for what it means to be promising, I didn’t quite understand it when I was a child. After I gained some experience and heard and witnessed some real-life examples, I vaguely felt that leaving my hometown when I was a child and returning home in glory when I was old is called promising. This is not because I have a narrow mind, but because I have just left my hometown and have a completely different rebellious attitude towards marriage. How could my thinking not keep up with the changes in the environment? Pursuing my identity as a woman will obviously be very different from before...it will make me believe more in the so-called destiny, and I just can't let go of any opportunity. The so-called destiny and future are to seize every opportunity to change oneself. Don't fall in love prematurely, don't be distracted, and don't belittle yourself. If you have potential and strength, you will have Yan Ruyu, and you will have a matching confidante.

My experience makes me believe even more: destiny is determined by God, and destiny depends on man-made efforts. Destiny is in your own hands, not in the mouths of others. Man's destiny is predestined, and gains and losses are arranged by oneself. Seek your own blessings, and your destiny is created by your heart. What you want has to be achieved by yourself. Your heart is your destiny, struggle to change your destiny, and contribute to realize your value!