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Introduction:
A 48-year-old aunt remarried a 32-year-old man for half a year. The aunt said: I am too old to serve others. Why is it like this and what happened? Let's take a look.
Aunt Huo, 48 years old
I married my husband when I was 28 years old. We were in love at that time, and our parents were both businessmen, so after we got married, our family had a very good relationship, and my husband and I were very loving. I am a traditional woman. As long as I identify with a man, I will always follow him whether he has money or not.
When I was 35 years old, my husband’s family went bankrupt due to business failure. At that time, my husband’s father could not accept the fact that the business failed. He had serious mental problems. Half a year after the business failed, my husband’s father died unexpectedly. Misfortunes never come singly, and not long after, her husband's mother also died of a sudden illness.
At that time, I always comforted my husband and asked him to grieve and accept his change. I never disliked him, and my parents also always helped my husband. But because of too many changes in her husband's family, he fell seriously ill. When I was 43 years old, my husband's condition became more and more serious. Although I actively cooperated with the hospital's treatment, my husband left me forever.
I lived with my son for the next two years. Not long after my son had a second child, I helped take care of him and later sent the child to kindergarten. I didn’t want to live in my son’s house, so I moved back to my old house. In order to kill time, I went to a nearby gym to exercise. During the exercise, I met 32-year-old Li Hua. We are 16 years apart in age.
Li Hua is a person who loves life. He likes to exercise very much. He maintains a good figure and has obvious abdominal muscles. Although there is a big age gap between Li Hua and I, we have so many topics in common that we usually can’t finish them. Four months after we met, Li Hua and I developed feelings for each other and we got together.
But after remarrying, Li Hua revealed his true nature. It turned out that he was a lazy person who didn't do housework or hygiene. I had no choice but to do it all myself. After getting married, I felt very tired. I tried to communicate with Li Hua, thinking that he could understand my difficulties and that he should also take responsibility.
But Li Hua was like a child, unable to listen to what I said, and instead kept making me angry. The thing he talked to me about the most was asking for money. I felt that we couldn't tolerate and understand each other, and I was miserable after remarrying for half a year. I said to Li Hua: "I am too old to serve others. I am not your free nanny. I don't want to continue living this life."
I used to think that love has no age distinction. As long as two people truly love each other, Even if there is an age difference, it is not a problem, but now I understand that if two people live together and want to get along harmoniously, age still plays a very important role. I think Li Hua is very immature. After remarrying, we are not like husband and wife, but more like mother and son. There is really no need to continue such a marriage.
