Everyone has the right to pursue love, regardless of social status, gender, age, etc. But two people being together is not only a matter between the two parties, but also a matter between two families, involving many people. The heroine in this incident is over 50 years old. In order to pursue love with her handsome boyfriend who is ten years younger than her, she abandons her family and children and wants to divorce her original wife.
A woman openly lives with others during her marriage and pursues love regardless of her moral bottom line.
The heroine, Sister Li, is over 50 this year. She accidentally met her boyfriend who was ten years younger than her while playing cards. Sister Li fell in love with him at first sight and believed that this was the true love of her life. The two fell in love instantly, and Sister Li also became a hands-off shopkeeper at home. She didn't care about her husband, Brother Niu, and the second son and daughter she had with Brother Niu, and she was only immersed in the world of herself and her boyfriend.
At first, Brother Niu didn't notice what happened between the two of them. As time went by, Brother Niu felt that something was wrong. Sister Li is usually very considerate of her family. She always takes care of the housework. She is also attentive to the children and asks them about their welfare. When I go out to play cards, I always come home no matter how late it is. But now I fall asleep when I get home, ignoring the children, and even don't come home at all for a few days.
Brother Niu asked Sister Li, and as soon as he asked, something happened. Sister Li was honest and told Brother Niu everything about herself and her boyfriend, and told Brother Niu that she had had enough of this kind of life and wanted to Divorced Brother Niu. He also requested that he own half of the family's house and fields.
Brother Niu earnestly advised Sister Li not to divorce for the sake of the children, and was willing to forgive Sister Li's ridiculous behavior, and the family would always be together. Sister Li was determined to leave, but Brother Niu couldn't stop her, so he had to find a civilian mediator to help mediate the conflict between the two.
Husband and wife turn against each other, and the cheating party can only clean up and leave the house.
After the people's mediator arrived, Sister Li and Brother Niu each held their own opinions. Sister Li said that she was forced by her parents to marry into the Niu family when she was 14 years old. For 40 years, she worked hard without complaint and had to do all the dirty work. Please give birth to two sons and a daughter for the Niu family, and you have fulfilled your responsibilities as a wife, daughter-in-law, and mother. Now that he is over fifty, he has finally met a true love and naturally wants to live with him.
Brother Niu said that he has been sick all the time in the past few years, which has indeed caused a great burden on the family. There is no way to give your wife enough love. So when he found out that his wife was living with his mistress, he turned a blind eye. But Sister Li did not repent and actually filed for divorce and divided the property equally. Brother Niu believes that the old couple has experienced everything in the past 40 years and there is no need to divorce.
The people's mediator persuaded Sister Li that living with others during marriage not only broke the moral bottom line, but may also constitute the crime of bigamy. Turning back early can also save a broken family. And the mediator learned that the man who cheated on Sister Li also had his own family. The two lived together for more than a month while hiding their families. This is an indelible shame for both families.
But Sister Li only wants to get divorced and live the love life she wants with her boyfriend. Brother Niu said that if he wanted to get divorced, Sister Li, as the cheating party, would have to clean up and leave the house.
Editor's opinion:
There is nothing wrong with pursuing love, but pursuing love regardless of worldliness, morality, and the law is mainly a trampling on the dignity of this society. Nowadays, in a society governed by the rule of law, having an affair within marriage and living with another person, and making outsiders think that the two are husband and wife, constitutes the crime of bigamy.
Love is not everything in life, no one can become love brain . Sister Li's behavior not only hurt her husband, who had been with her for more than 40 years, but also hurt her three adult children. After spending some time with her boyfriend, she will probably get tired of it, but when she looks back, she will find that she has nothing left.
