Preface:
A married daughter is a spilled water. Although today's society does not have such strict requirements, you must also be aware that in the future you will marry someone else and have your own small family to run. There will always be many realities in life. Under pressure, any man hopes to marry a wife who will be of the same mind as him and live a prosperous life. A virtuous wife and filial son should be a man's greatest achievement.
Some women are reluctant to leave their natal family, and they boldly say that since they are married, they are all a family, and it is only natural to help. Let's take a look at Mr. Zhong's experience.
Mr. Zhong’s self-report:
I met my wife when we were playing games. At that time, I liked playing online games very much. After get off work, I would stay at home and play games. Because of playing games, I met my wife. My wife is eight years younger than me. She also likes to play games, and she is very beautiful. When I saw her for the first time, I was very excited because she was much prettier than the photo, so I My wife was moved, and I imagined in my heart that if I could be with my wife, it would definitely be a very happy thing.
At the beginning, I didn’t dare to confess to my wife. I kept my love in my heart. At that time, I got along with my wife like friends. Once, my wife and I were drinking outside. After I got drunk, I became like I became bold, and then I told my wife that I liked her and wanted her to be with me. My wife said that she had known that I liked her for a long time, and she had been waiting for me to confess. When I heard my wife say this, I really I'm so happy that the person I like also likes me. It's such a wonderful feeling.
Later I got married to my wife. When I got married, my wife asked me for a gift of 300,000 yuan. My wife said that my family is so rich that giving 300,000 yuan should not be a problem. I was a little unhappy at the time. , my family is rich. But the amount of the bride price proposed by my wife was really unreasonable. But at that time, because I still loved my wife and wanted to marry her, I gritted my teeth and gave her 300,000.
After I got married to my wife, my wife often asked me for money. My wife also works and earns more than 5,000 yuan a month. Normally, 5,000 yuan is enough for her, but she always tells me that she has no money. , later I found out that all her money had been given to her natal family, and then she asked me for money for living expenses. When I found out this, I felt very angry. I feel like my wife has absolutely no regard for our lives.
One day, when I came back from get off work, my wife suddenly said to me: "Husband, look, my brother has also graduated. He has no place to live now. Please make a house for him to live in!" My wife heard that Saying this made me angry. I felt too wronged over the years, so I said to my wife: "No need to worry about it, you can spend time with your brother! I feel tired already, and I don't want to spend time with you. You You don’t consider our lives at all. In the years since you and I have been married, all your money has been given to your mother’s family. You have never used it to support your family. When you have no money, you ask me for it. My salary is not high. I feel that our marriage It has no meaning at all. "
My wife cried after hearing what I said. She said that she still loves me and wants to continue living with me, but I feel tired. I have been too miserable these years. Well, freezing three feet is not a day's cold. The reason why I am like this is because my wife forced me to do so.
Author's point of view:
Mr. Zhong's wife is indeed a bit too much. She considers her natal family in everything and does not consider Mr. Zhong at all. No man would find it unacceptable. Divorce is a matter of time. In the beginning, men Able to tolerate. After a long time, men will find it unacceptable.
