Text | Ancient History Famous Book
Editor | Ancient History Famous Book
What is a father?
He is a great responsibility, an omnipresent care, and a silent but clear benchmark. He is not omnipotent. But it will always give us a sense of security when we need it.
But to Xiao Jia, father is just two cold and even disgusting words . She still can't figure out what sins she did in her previous life to be able to have such a good father.
Xiao Jia has never been I thought about the so-called father who had abandoned me and my mother for more than 20 years, and actually appeared in front of me again, and shamelessly asked me to support him in his old age.
In Xiao Jia's memory, when he was still more than ten years old, his father had an affair during marriage, took the family's property of more than 100,000 yuan and a third party and fled away. There has been no news for more than 20 years , and his mother was alone. People raised Xiao Jia, and now Xiao Jia is already in his thirties, already married and has children. Although he is not rich, his life is getting better and better.
But I didn’t expect that this old immortal would come back again. even said without shame that Xiao Jia would support him in his old age. Xiao Jia went crazy when he heard these words. This old guy was in his forties when he ran away from home, which was the age when he was making money, but he abandoned himself and his mother and chose to live a casual life with a third party. Now that he is old and planning to come back for retirement, is this home like a hotel to him? Come and leave as you please.
When talking about the real reason why Lao Jia ran away from home, Xiao Jia was even more angry.
At that time, Lao Jia himself did not have much ability and could not make much money. Then he borrowed 7,000 yuan from his brother-in-law. After a few years, Lao Jia gradually accumulated some savings by going out to work. After knowing the situation, his brother-in-law wanted Lao Jia to pay back the 7,000 yuan. After urging him repeatedly, his brother-in-law finally understood that Lao Jia wanted to refuse to pay back the money . In order to force Lao Jia to pay back the money,
his brother-in-law threatened to find someone to beat him. Lao Jiang would not stop doing anything, and he simply took his family's savings of more than 100,000 yuan and ran away with the person he cheated on at the time. The mess at home was left to Xiao Jia's mother.
Lao Jia even felt that the reason why he ran away was because his wife’s natal family looked down upon him. "They are still asking people to beat me, can't I run away?"
Lao Jia and the woman outside have already been married and have children . Lao Jia is not ashamed at all about this, and even thinks that I ran outside alone. , it is not normal to get married and have children, how about you tell me how to behave.
There is a conflict between the son-in-law and his natal family, and life is really unsustainable. You can choose to divorce. The two of you can wave your sleeves and live their own lives without disturbing each other. But Lao Jia did not divorce Xiao Jia's mother, and started a new life outside. Getting married and having children is not committing the crime of bigamy.
In the past twenty years, Lao Jia has never come back to see mother and son. If Lao Jia and his wife have no relationship because of Xiao Jia’s mother’s natal family, he also has no feelings for his biological daughter Xiao Jia. Also indifferent. On the first day after returning home, because Xiao Jia and his mother refused to open the door, Lao Jia smashed the door lock to pieces, and drove Xiao Jia and his mother out, occupying the entire home. Who can stand facing such a villain?
Xiao Jia really can’t understand why Lao Jia, who has been away from home for more than 20 years, has a wife and children. Logically speaking, it should be the time to take care of himself now. Why does he have to leave home for more than 20 years? Will it suddenly come back again? He even shamelessly asked himself to support him in his old age.
It turns out that Lao Jia, who is over 60 years old this year, was despised by a third party for being old and senile.
Lao Jia, who had no ability to make money, no job and no income, became a burden to them, so they simply kicked the old man. open. once abandoned his wife and children for a third party, and now he is kicked out by a third party. It is true that evil people will be punished by evil people.
Lao Jia, who was kicked out of the house, was penniless and could not find a job at the age of 60. He had no choice but to return to his daughter Xiao Jia's home and ask her to support him in his old age.
"If you don't let me in, I will jump into the water and drown today. I'm old and I really don't want to leave."
Old Jia once again issued an ultimatum to Xiao Jia and her mother. I'm not going to have a good time, and you two will naturally be too. It's not easy, if I jump into the river and drown, then you won't live in peace either.
For Lao Jia, Xiao Jia is an attitude that Xiao Jia does not want to accept, but he is already married and has children and has established his own family. If Lao Jia enters the house, it will be his mother who gets along with him day and night every day, so Xiao Jia decided Total respect for mother's attitude.
And Xiao Jia's mother is also very sober. She once had hope for Lao Jia. Maybe one day he will understand it, regret it, and come back.
Relying on this belief, Xiao Jia's mother struggled alone for several years. Later, she finally understood that this man would never look back.
It took me more than 20 years to forget your existence . Now you come back to make a big fuss and ask us to support you in your old age. This is not pure torture. The immoral things this old guy has done are all... I'm going to be so angry with myself. When I left, I robbed my family of 100,000 yuan. Now I'm back with a lot of debt, and I want our mother and daughter to pay it back to you. Listen to this, it's ridiculous It’s just a fool’s dream!
A person lives for one skin, and a tree lives for one skin. Lao Jia, who is in his sixties, can be said to be shameless. The stubborn old Jia reversed a sentence back and forth, I am your father and you are my daughter, you have to choose to forgive me . While talking, he stood up and apologized to his wife and daughter.
How can an apology make up for twenty years of pain and suffering? Xiao Jia's mother insisted that would never let this man step into her home again.
Faced with such a wicked man, it is natural to hide as far away as possible, but I never expected that my relatives would actually persuade Xiao Jia. Lao Jia is not young anymore. Although he has abandoned you for more than 20 years, But after all, you still have his blood in your body, and he is also your biological father. This is really in line with the old saying: It is not a big deal to watch the excitement..
Anyway, they don’t have to be responsible for picking it up, so naturally I don’t have back pain when I stand and talk. Whenever this matter happens to them, I'm afraid they will be yelled at when they hear someone advising them to take this kind of man back.
If a man with a family can commit an affair, he already lacks a sense of responsibility.
It’s okay not to look back, but he just walked away and left his wife and daughter alone. It’s rare for to be so heartless and cruel.
People who are selfish by nature will always have two sets of standards for themselves and others.
Just like the father who once threw his newborn Mao Xiaotong into the trash can, after his daughter became famous , he shamelessly made a scene on a family talk show, trying to use public opinion to pressure to Mao Xiaotong. Asking for tens of millions in alimony.
What happened to Xiao Jia and Mao Xiaotong is not an isolated case, it is even happening all over the world.
15-year-old Mi Yaqin found out that her father had cheated on . Between his lover and his wife and daughter, Mi Yaqin's father chose the former. Faced with this situation, her mother often cried alone, but she did not cry loudly. In the end, the two An amicable divorce. After the divorce, Mi Yaqin's mother discovered that 's so-called peaceful divorce was just her imagination.
Before the divorce, the other party had already planned to transfer most of the property of the two of them . Even the house they lived in now, he secretly asked an agent to sell it. After the divorce, Mi Yaqin's mother had nothing. , she only Neng and his daughter rented a small apartment outside.
Mi Yaqin was in the third grade of junior high school that year, which was a critical moment for her junior high school. But as her biological father, these were not within the scope of this man's consideration. He just wanted to be happy with his lover.
After the divorce, the man left nothing to the wife and daughter, not even the money to ensure their normal survival. The mother, who had never endured hardship, bent down in order to survive the family.
As a man who has no sense of family responsibility and has flaws in his moral character, it is already criticized. But after the divorce, he still forced his ex-wife to a dead end. Mi Yaqin's father did an incredible job. He did not give Mi Yaqin mother and daughter A little way out, and at the same time, he pushed himself into a dead end.
20 years later, this man suddenly ran back. When he was older, he was seriously ill. His lover was unwilling to spend all the family money on him or take care of him, so he kicked him away. Helpless, he ran back to find his only daughter and asked Mi Yaqin to take care of him. To provide for herself in old age, she kept saying that this was her responsibility and obligation as a daughter.
For the past 20 years, Mi Yaqin and her daughter have always regarded this man as dead, and will naturally not care about him anymore. What's more, when his mother divorced him, she gave Mi Yaqin's custody to her mother. Legally, the man no longer has any father-daughter relationship with himself, and naturally has no so-called responsibilities and obligations.
The situation encountered in Xiao Jia's family is the same. Mi Yaqin's father's relatives, as well as some unrelated people, all regard themselves as moral judges. advised the two of them to be generous . He had already received the punishment he deserved, and he knew he was wrong. Even if it was out of humanitarianism, he should help.
Mi Yaqin directly slapped the table and replied:
"Is he the only one suffering among the three of us? He exchanged the pain of our mothers for most of his life . Who is willing to give us justice? Why should we let him die? My mother and I are here to pay the bill."
"He and my mother have divorced. Now the person in charge of is also his lover and wife . His life, old age, illness and death are all that woman's business, and no one else is willing to bear the responsibility. We, my mother and I, still have to bear the responsibility. Do you want to rush to take over? "
Whether it is Xiao Jia's father or Mi Yaqin's father, as a husband, as a father, not only cheated, but also robbed all the family's property.
In order to ensure the happiness and unrestrainedness of his own life, he does not care about the life and death of his wife and daughter . No one can make a rational evaluation of this kind of man. Just like Mao Xiaotong's shameless, weird and shameless father, these people are completely unworthy of our sympathy.
