What He Xingfu couldn't figure out was that five men committed hooliganism in the name of marriage, and it happened under the noses of his brother-in-law Wang Qinglai and his brother. Although the door was blocked from the inside, He Xingfu, a weak woman, , could break into the d

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He Xingxun fell victim to the vulgar "marriage trouble" at his sister's wedding.

If my sister hadn't arrived in time and smashed down a bench to stop the crime, the consequences would have been disastrous.

What He Xuxing couldn't figure out was that five men committed hooliganism in the name of a marriage, and it happened under the noses of his brother-in-law Wang Qinglai and his brother. Although the door was blocked from the inside, He Xuxing, a weak man, Women can break into the house, but Wang Qinglai and his brother, two grown men, stand helpless outside the door.

What made He Xuxun even more desperate was that his boyfriend "overheard" the entire incident on the cell phone that was not hung up. He heard the gangster's unscrupulous laughter and He Xuxun's cry at the top of his lungs. I imagined the scene at that time and asked my girlfriend what he had done to her. Where did you touch it?

When He Xingxun needed comfort from her boyfriend, what he gave him was pressing questions one after another.

And what about his mother? When He Xuxun felt that she was soiled, she washed her skin over and over again until her skin was bruised, and when she refused to eat or drink, washed her face with tears, and had no love left, what should Mother He do? He also complained about her endlessly, causing harm to his sister's family.

’s anger towards the perpetrator, resentment towards her brother-in-law, despair towards her boyfriend, and disappointment towards her mother. After the “marriage trouble” incident, He Xingxun felt the cruelty of the world, the reality of family love, and the intertwining collision of several emotions. , which made her disheartened and miserable.

He Xuxun was humiliated by the "marriage trouble"

When his sister got married, He Xuxun accompanied his sister to the door of marriage. He did not expect that his beauty would arouse evil thoughts in the Wan Chuan family. He and five people, wearing " The cloak of "marriage trouble" stretches out the hand of evil.

He Xingfu ran over upon hearing the sound, kicked open the door, picked up a bench, and threw it at Wan Chuanjia, who was pressing his sister. As he fell to the ground with a muffled sound, the whole wedding was in chaos.

Secretary Wan angrily reprimanded the Wang family and his wife:

"What are you making a fuss about? Don't you Wang family want the whole village to come and make a fuss? I was having a meeting in the county, so I rushed over in a hurry to join in the fun for you. , This will cause a lot of trouble, and this banquet in your house is going to kill you.”

Secretary Wan’s implication is that you want me to support you, so I took time out of my busy schedule to come and give you enough face, but you don’t know what to do. I opened my son's mouth.

Secretary Wan left angrily. The Wang family had sinned against Wan Shu, so who would dare to support his family? The villagers all cheered and all of them left. The farce was caught off guard. The wedding came to an abrupt end and the guests dispersed. Let’s take a look at the scenes behind this incident:

The scenes after the wedding

: Let’s talk about the groom Wang Qinglai first. Bar

My sister-in-law was humiliated and listened to He Lucky cry outside the door. Wang Qinglai knew better than anyone that this was beyond the scope of marriage trouble.

But he was standing outside the door at a loss. If the person inside the door was not Wan Chuanjia, or if it was his own sister who was being humiliated, Wang Qinglai might have broken in long ago. If He Xingfu hadn't come, He Xingfu would have been with his brother-in-law. Defiled before his eyes.

When this man was hit on the head by his wife at Wan Chuan's house, his first reaction was not to do it well, nor to care about the trembling He Lucky, but to knock off the photographer's camera and stop him from continuing to shoot. Then he looked at the chaotic wedding, grabbed his hair and squatted down, knowing that a disaster was coming.

At this moment, we deeply realized what He Xuxun said to his sister in the new house: "Brother-in-law is too honest, and he is a coward."

This man is a coward. When toasting, Wan Chuanjia stood in front of his When we humiliated him in front of him, we saw:

"I never thought that the famous Qinglai brother in our village who could not be beaten with three slaps could marry such a beautiful wife."

"Three slaps can't make a fart out" is an insulting saying, usually said behind the scenes. Wan Chuan's family scolded Wang Qinglai directly in front of him, and he still had to smile. Why? Because he is a coward, Wan Chuanjia Heirloom didn't take him seriously. This kind of man wouldn't resist if you rode on his neck and shit. Just like He Xuxun said, Wang Qinglai is angry but not bloody. Otherwise, when he is bullied, he will She would not pretend to be deaf.

If He Xuxun knew that her brother-in-law Wang Qinglai was not pretending not to hear, but was standing outside the door but did not dare to rush in to save herself and fight against the evil people, then she would be even more desperate.

He would be even more desperate. Lucky asked my sister, what exactly do you want Wang Qing to do? He Xingfu said: "I want him to be honest and willing to work, not to smoke and not to gamble."

Yes, being honest and willing to work, not to smoke and not to gamble is indeed a man's advantage, and many women also have it. Take this as a condition for choosing a spouse, but if a man is honest and has no ability or courage to protect his family, do you think "honesty" is still his advantage?

When there is trouble at home, the woman has to take the initiative, and he shrinks back. Behind you, you are panicked and in a hurry. When you solve the problem, he jumps out and makes irresponsible remarks. Excuse me, what is the use of marrying such a man? Confident and unruly.

He Xingfu ruined Wan Chuan's family. Wang Qinglai's father was more nervous than his mother, scolding his daughter-in-law for causing trouble to him, but refused to give an explanation to He Xingfu. Her stubbornness to give up, and her insistence that she would not come back if Wang Qing came to pick her up, Qing Lai's mother admired this daughter-in-law very much.

Why? Because her daughter-in-law has the shadow and edge of her own youth. However, she married a useless man and could not support a family. She had to do everything by herself, and her edges were smoothed by the world.

No matter how powerful a woman is, she is not as good as a man, just like Lu Zilin in "白鹿plain". When he was imprisoned, his wife spent all her wealth to rescue him. Although there was a relationship between husband and wife, she knew better: In Bailuyuan, her face was not half as big as Lu Zilin's butt. If he died, the family would be gone.

Therefore, due to the pressure of life, Qinglai's mother has changed from being neither humble nor overbearing to being groveling now, but she hopes that her daughter-in-law can stick to her original intention, because no matter how low she bends or even kneels, she is not as capable as a man. .

The family was still a small family, looked down upon by others, and her husband could not be counted on in this life. She was willing to spend money to let her second son Wang Qingzhi go to college and take the postgraduate entrance examination, just in the hope that he would shine brightly and make the Wang family proud.

But now, the daughter-in-law is showing her talents. She hopes that her daughter-in-law will take charge of the family and change the appearance of the Wang family. From now on, she will no longer be looked down upon and looked down upon.

: Wang Qinglai’s parents are outsiders from a small family. Therefore, if they want to gain a firm foothold in Wanjia Village, they have to cling to the powerful and rely on big trees to enjoy the shade. The Wang family and his wife know how to survive.

Therefore, when Wang Qinglai gets married and Secretary Wan attends it, it is the supreme honor of the Wang family and will make the villagers look at him differently. If he does not come, he would rather miss the auspicious time than start the wedding celebration. When he comes, he will not only sit on the main seat, but also Before the couple kneels down to worship their parents, please go to the stage to be worshiped by the couple.

The servile and humble look of the couple makes us look down on them from the bottom of our hearts, but this is how little people look like in real life. Perhaps, you and I have all behaved like this when life is forced. face.

Therefore, after He Xingfu got into trouble, the couple was frightened. The relationship they had worked hard for so many years might fall apart. Then, the Wang family in Wanjia Village was like a house without a foundation, crumbling.

Therefore, their first reaction was to complain that He Xingfu had caused big trouble for the Wang family. He Xingfu wanted to ask for an explanation and asked Wan Chuanjia to apologize to his sister and admit his mistake. In order to calm the matter, her mother-in-law told He Xingfu that Wan Chuanjia was here. What a joy, as the old saying goes, nothing matters in the first three days of a wedding. He came here to give face to the Wang family. He bullied He Xuxing, and He Xingfu smashed his head. He didn't suffer any loss, and it was even. At the same time, he also threatened He Xingfu. If you smash it or make it stupid, it will cause big trouble.

She admired her daughter-in-law's character, and at the same time, for the sake of the peace of the Wang family, she also wanted to do everything possible to suppress this matter.

So, when they saw Secretary Wan kneel down, he was as humble as dust on the ground. What they didn't know was that the more they knelt down, the more people looked down on him.

Three: Wang Chuanzhi and Wang Chuanyu

In the Wang family, Wang Chuanzhi's outlook on life is relatively upright, he is bookish, has a view of right and wrong, and is also a passionate young man.

At the very least, He Xingfu vowed to seek an explanation for his sister. When Wang Chuanzhi and Wang's parents tried to stop him, Wang Chuanzhi was able to stand up and say: "Mom, I think my sister-in-law is right. It was Brother Chuan who bullied others too much. How can this be a joke?" Marry? Isn’t this a crime of obscenity?”

But Wang Chuanyu was not so reasonable. She went to the hospital to inquire about Wan Chuanjia’s injuries and was slapped by Wan Chuanjia’s wife. At the same time, someone exaggerated Wan Chuanjia’s injuries. She returned home in fear and said to He Xuxing: "Sister-in-law, your bench has destroyed our family." Being cautious and humble allowed her to understand the ways of the world at a young age.

Unlike her second brother Wang Chuanzhi, she had the opportunity to further her studies in college. She still had her original intention and was not contaminated by the world. She entered the society early and made money to help the family. When her eldest brother got married, she contributed 30,000 yuan. She worked in Wanjia Group for 10,000 yuan. Working under the heirloom, taking care of people's jobs and looking up to them, she knows that society is complicated and the world is difficult. Her goodwill and justice have been worn away, replaced by reality and sophistication.

Mother He’s reaction to her daughter’s humiliation is thought-provoking.

In fact, whether it is Wang Chuan’s three brothers or the parents of the Wang family, their attitudes, whether they are selfish, timid, or peaceful, are understandable, because to them, He Luck is just He Xingfu's sister, a relative who can be said to be far or near.

It's not like their own daughter was bullied. They would not put the Wang family in danger for the honor and disgrace of this relative. Therefore, while suppressing He Xingfu's resistance, they knelt down and begged the powerful for forgiveness.

But after her daughter was humiliated, Mother He's reaction was shocking.

In life, when a mother learned that her daughter had been bullied by some gangsters in the name of "marriage trouble", and that it was at her other daughter's wedding, the family not only did not stop it, but also made the victim compromise and swallow his anger. , what’s the mother’s reaction? Even if you don’t have the courage to go find the perpetrator, you will still argue with your in-laws and ask for an explanation and justice, right?

But what is He’s mother’s reaction?

Three days later, when she returned home and faced her son-in-law, who was carrying large and small bags, He's mother did not ask any questions. Instead, she entertained her son-in-law calmly. When Wang Chuan asked how lucky she was, she said:

"What's good about it?" Yeah, she won't eat three meals a day unless she begs for it. Her boyfriend is also calling every day to ask where he touched her. Ah? If you are the same, why didn’t you, the brother-in-law, stop me?” The words passed.

Mother He named her two daughters Happiness and Lucky. As the name suggests, they placed good wishes on them. However, because of her words and deeds as a mother, the two daughters were either happy or not, lucky or not.

He Xingfu’s criteria for choosing a spouse are: being honest and willing to work hard, not smoking or gambling.

It can be said that parents are their children's first teachers. Their children's outlook, structure and vision are all imprinted by their parents. This is also the criterion for He's mother to choose her son-in-law. She gave her advice, and He Xingfu took it to heart, so, Married to Wang Qinglai, a man who looks honest but is actually a coward.

If this man hadn't been a coward, how lucky would he not have been to be humiliated. Wan Chuanjia wouldn't dare, even if he was immoral after drinking, he would apologize instead of arrogantly saying to Wang Qingzhi: "I came to make a fuss to give your Wang family face. "

He's mother is a widow, dragging her two eldest daughters along. Because she has no husband or son, she is not stiff-backed. She usually behaves according to the life principle of tolerating what she can tolerate, suffering losses is blessing, and accepting hardships.

So, my daughter, He Lucky, is a lawyer and knows how to use legal weapons to protect herself, but as everyone saw, when she was violated, she shed endless tears, took endless showers, and kept explaining to her boyfriend. I am helpless, desperate, have no opinion, no courage, no courage, and are not as happy as He, who is not well educated. Such legal workers cannot protect themselves. How will they seek justice for the victims in the future?

And He Xingxing's cowardly character comes from the influence of He's mother. When her own interests are violated, she chooses to swallow the bitter pill, digest it by herself, and endure the humiliation.

Although He Xingfu and He Xuxing were born to the same mother, she entered the society very early and helped her mother share the burden of life. Her experience in society taught her how to protect herself and fight bravely. As a woman, she had to wear armor to protect her mother and sister. Therefore, after her sister was humiliated, she insisted on an explanation before waiting for Secretary Wan's announcement to break up the marriage dispute. There is a detail in the TV series

: When Wang Qingzhi said that his sister had been fired from the Wanjia Group, Wang Chuanlan left without saying goodbye and rode a motorcycle back home. It was his sister's turn to be implicated. It was obvious that he was still a little bloody.

When eating, faced with her son-in-law who left without saying hello to her, Mother He was not angry. Instead, she reflected on herself for neglecting her son-in-law by only focusing on cooking. She was a perfect person to please.

He's mother said this: "I have been upset by your sister's affairs these past few days."

He Xuxun asked his mother, was she blaming herself? Mother He explained that she was not blamed, it was just about this.

Did Mother He really not blame her daughter? No, she was complaining that her daughter was making a fuss.

In fact, as He's mother said when she stopped He Xingfu from reporting the crime, in her opinion, the matter of getting married was not a big deal in the village. What's more, her daughter was just touched, and there was no real loss. It’s time to turn the page, who lives without being wronged? Why is it not over yet? I have made a big deal out of it, publicized it, and become the laughing stock of others. Where can I put my face? Moreover, if the eldest daughter continues to cause trouble and offends the powerful, she will not be able to stay in her husband's family. Because of this incident, one of the two daughters' reputation will be damaged and the other's marriage will be broken up. The gain outweighs the loss.

The next day, He Xingfu left her parents' home without a word and went to Wanjiazhuang to ask for an explanation. He's mother finally broke out. She vented her anger on He Xingfu that should have been directed to her son-in-law and those who hurt her daughter:

"Lucky, what are you thinking about this? Your sister is doing this all for you, don't you know? How come our family, including you, is today, you know best, in order to support you in school, Your sister stopped studying in junior high school, and she didn't get married until you graduated from college. She finally found a good in-law, but she made such a fuss as soon as she got married. You said you were going to mess up her marriage because of this. , what should I do? Lucky, are you feeling guilty?"

Mother He said angrily, every word and every sentence was full of complaints and blame for her daughter, blaming her for not being grateful. No more, because she was afraid that she would harm her eldest daughter and bring shame to the family.

Kan He Xuxun looked at himself with tears in his eyes and asked himself what he meant? He's mother cried and said: "Lucky, you and your sister are the flesh that fell from your mother's body!"

There is a detail here. Facing He's mother staggering and stretching out her hands to hug herself, He Xingfu instinctively stepped back. Taking a step forward, she wanted to hide away from her mother, because her mother's arms could no longer protect her from wind and rain, soothe her wounds, complain about her grievances, and seek justice. For the sake of her sister's happiness and the peace of her family, she ignored her grievances and let herself go. Knock out your teeth and swallow it in your stomach. Don't fight with your arms and thighs. Digest by yourself, heal by yourself, and accept your fate. He was so disappointed that he chose to go away.

At this moment, He’s mother gave He Luck and revealed a cruel truth to all of us: no matter when and where, only when you are strong can you protect yourself. No one can count on it, including your closest relatives. .

We can either make ourselves miserable or make ourselves strong. The amount of work required for both is the same. Only when we are strong enough can we protect ourselves. Therefore, strengthening ourselves is the way out in life.

Relying on yourself in everything is the posture of a strong person. Make yourself better, outstanding, powerful, stronger and braver, positive and optimistic, full of positive energy, and make yourself your own support.

Therefore, only by experiencing the world can we grow. When He Xingxun was harassed by her boss during a business trip, she cleverly recorded a video and, with evidence in hand, turned defeat into victory and became the first trainee lawyer to stay in the law firm. This is how she went through the pain The transformation is something that astonishes us.