1. The interaction between things
When a person first enters the society and is too shallow, his naivety is reflected in his inability to understand the interaction between things. He cannot see the interaction between psychology. He is just a simple Judging by a kind of logic, this person is relatively immature and immature. He does not understand that the functional relationships between things are very complex, it can be said to be intricate, and even many of them have no origin, but they have functional relationships.
2. The source of social power is human nature
The most profound existence of the society we live in is the interaction between various elements in the society. The interaction creates regularity between things, and they naturally Operation, just like what we call the earth's gravity, has such a regular existence. The relationship between things is relatively complex, and the underlying driving force behind its regular core is human nature.
All social topics come from human nature, and the underlying human nature plays various interactions. One day a girl came to her best friend and said, "Lend your husband to me for a few months. I'm going to get a house here. Only people with families who have registered for marriage can get more points, and there are subsidies. I hope to get it." I got this thing, but I don’t have a partner. You know, after we get married, I’ll get it and we can get divorced. But I’m not begging you in vain. I’ll give you 100,000. You and your husband can get a divorce now. After the divorce, I’ll follow you. After getting married, I will borrow him for 8 months. I will give you 50,000 now, and I will give you another 50,000 in two days. I will give you 100,000. We have grown up together. Do you believe me?”
It was a bit hard to accept at first, but later it seemed like it was nothing. It was just an economic transaction, so I agreed! After we got married, as expected, they cashed in 100,000, and both parties got what they wanted. After half a year, my best friend said, "I'm pregnant. I got pregnant with my boyfriend. I can't let this happen now." The child has no father, can you wait until the child is born before I divorce your husband?" She made such a plan, which seemed to make sense. In the end, they got married and gave birth to the child, and the child became her husband. of.
3. Past friendship is the starting point of the relationship
What does the girl get? Demolition subsidies, real estate, using someone's husband to give birth to a child, and then leaving her, this is a big game, this is not a conspiracy, this is already a game, this is no longer as simple as a conspiracy, this is A big chess game, this chess game is done in this way.
How did this game happen and what is the relationship between the game and the game? There is a sweet relationship between you and your best friend. It is the basis of mutual interaction between you. In fact, we all know that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as honey. Honey is sweeter than sugar cane and sweeter than sugar, so the first level of relationship is between best friends. If you have a good relationship, you will push forward. Past friendships are the starting point of the relationship, and best friends are the core of the guarantee of the relationship that makes this situation today.
What does it mean? She has been eyeing your husband for a long time, and the two of them said that she fell in love with his husband and this man when they were in college. Later, this man fell into her hands, and she has been thinking about it, so this The seeds of their functional relationship were planted when they were in college, and then the two of them gradually became best friends. In fact, the seeds of the game had already been left in college. They had not yet started the game in college, but the seeds were planted. functional relationship.
4. Those who achieve great things have situation thinking
This situation has been created at this time, after he divorced and she got married, so sometimes we will complain that this girl has no vision and doesn’t know who your best friend is. person? Don't know, no way to know.She has been with her best friend for 15 years and has never shown any intention to harm her. This is not greed or lack of foresight. In fact, it is because she has too little understanding of the relationship between people and people and things. Relationships are deep and can change the world. She is not a bad person, her best friend is not a bad person, and her husband is not a bad person, but she got into a huge and outrageous situation, and in the end she felt that she had suffered a huge loss.
Everything has an interaction with each other. If you understand the interaction between things thoroughly, this thing is very scary. Enter the game step by step, strengthen the game step by step, and realize the game step by step. Falling into the abyss cannot extricate oneself, so those who achieve great things must think in a situation, and masters in making situations must understand the relationship between things.
