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Are there any girls around you who got 640 points in the college entrance examination?
Is there a relative or friend whose daughter got 640 points in the college entrance examination?
Please help shout out to the girl who got 640 points in the college entrance examination.
Her boyfriend’s true identity cannot be hidden, which makes people think deeply.
Please stay awake and don’t fall into a boy’s trap just because you are confused, so as not to end up with bruises all over your body and regrets for the rest of your life.
Please be sure to read this article and try to help spread it.
A small move by you may be able to let the girl in question see the true face of her boyfriend and save the life of a young girl.
The thing is like this, a netizen asked for help in the qq group:
"The college entrance examination is over, my girlfriend scored 640, and she wants to go to Xiamen University . Is there any way to persuade her to go to the same undergraduate school as me (I am 475) ”
At first glance, I thought that this boy was very affectionate towards the girl and couldn’t let her go too far.
That’s why he wanted the girl to go to the same school as him, so that he could always be by his side, day and night, and be friends with each other.
saw this boy and said: "My girlfriend agreed, but her parents did not agree!"
was really worried that the girl would really compromise.
Netizens asked: "Why?"
The boy said: "Because she likes me, she said that she would accompany me to repeat the study for one year at most and take and together. But I am not willing to study."
After reading the beginning, I thought the boy was just too selfish and didn't consider his girlfriend's future.
looked at the back and found that this boy was a scumbag. He was simply a "fighter" among scumbags. I hope she can see her boyfriend's true face, wake up instantly, and break up with him decisively when it's time to break up.
Look at what time this boy scumbag is?
The first point: selfish, playing with girls' feelings, consuming girls
My girlfriend got 640 points in the exam, and her ideal university is Xiamen University.
I got 475 points in the exam, and I want my girlfriend to take the second book with me.
also proposed three options:
The best option is to go to the second school with him;
The middle option is to give it to him for the first time and then break up;
The worst option is to accompany him to repeat studies for a year.
does not consider the girl's feelings and future at all. He only thinks about himself, whether he has someone to accompany him, and whether he can take away the girl's most precious thing before breaking up.
Others thought that this boy’s background was not simple. They thought that his family had a mine or that he was the second generation of rich people. They asked him: "How much can the bride price be?"
He said: "I will not marry her"!
is not only selfish, he has no intention of being with the girl for a long time, but he has been consuming the girl's feelings, and now he wants to ruin the girl's bright future.
To put it bluntly, it may be just for fun, throw it away when you are tired of it, and throw it away after use.
The reason why he proposed these choices in such a loud voice is just because the girl likes him and believes that the boy will have her in his future plans. In time, he will transform into a prince charming riding a colorful cloud to marry her, give her a status, and give her Happiness, stay together for a lifetime.
I hope girls wake up!
The world is worth it. It is not worth giving up your ideals for such a boy.
The first point: I don’t want girls to be stronger, I want to control girls
Some people say, "Love is the romance between two strong people, not the bitter hatred between two weak people."
Love is perfection and encourages the other person to become a better person.
And I keep moving forward, aligning myself with each other, shoulder to shoulder, hand in hand to write a better future.
And this boy not only doesn’t want the girl to become a stronger person, he also tries his best to hold the girl back and drag her down.
The deeper reason turned out to be:
"I don't like girls to be stronger than me in relationships. I like to control girls and be dominant."
This reminds me of the hermit crab personality mentioned by some netizens before: "By manipulating the other party's psychology and emotions, it destroys the other party's self-confidence and self-esteem step by step, just like eating shellfish, eating the soul of the victim, and finally invading Occupying their shell (life) ”
is extremely scary!
I really hope that girl breaks up quickly.
This boy’s idea is terrifying!
When two people become unequal in a relationship, the one who occupies the dominant position will have the initiative in the relationship, and will easily despise the other party, suppress the other party, and even hurt the other party without fear.
first makes the other person fall into self-doubt, and then devours the other person's mind and soul bit by bit, making the other person feel overwhelmed by negative emotions such as self-blame, guilt, and anxiety, causing pain and bruises, which may eventually lead to the collapse of the other person's world view and outlook on life.
The third point: Treating women as accessories is a typical machismo and feudal thought
Young people living in 2022 can actually say this:
"Is it important what school a girl goes to?"
"Girls will spend their whole lives Isn’t my ultimate task to do laundry, cook and have children?”
I really want to reply to this boy: “Of course it is important to go to a good school, because it can filter out scumbags like you to the maximum extent and let you go with better people. "
This boy nakedly regards having children, doing laundry and cooking as the ultimate tasks of a woman's life.
not only disrespects women and believes that women are accessories to men, but also exposes typical machismo and feudal ideas, and even exposes the "pathology" of the original family.
is ridiculous.
I would venture to guess that this kind of ignorant thinking may also have a certain relationship with the original family.
Maybe his parents taught him by words and deeds like this. His father took it for granted that his mother’s vocation was to have children, do laundry and cooking, serve her husband, etc., which created his current understanding of women.
To sum up, I hope girls break up and stay away from such men.
Don't be carried away by love. Don't sacrifice your bright future or even your whole life for the so-called love.
The TV series "Know or Not" Minglan has a saying that is right: "It is a lie to say that reading is useless. It's just those men who hope that women will be ignorant all their lives, be obedient and easy to manipulate."
Yang Jiang said: "Studying is not to get a diploma or get rich, but to become a person who is warm, understanding and thoughtful. Although books cannot help you solve all your problems, they can give you a better and more comprehensive view. The perspective of the problem. "
is written at the end
. After this group of chat records was exposed, many netizens actively forwarded it and rushed to tell each other.
just wants the girl involved to see the true face of her boyfriend, and not to be dazzled by the so-called love and destroy her future.
Some people question the authenticity of the incident.
I also hope it is fake, and I hope there are no such girls.
But what if?
Welcome to spread the word, maybe your small move can save the life of one or more girls.
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