One fan replied: "Because you're not sure whether you lost control of your emotions and said hurtful words without sincerity, or whether you lost control of your anger and stopped hiding it and blurted out the truth."

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Someone asked: "Why is it always difficult for people to forgive each other easily?"

had a high like reply. : "Because you are not sure whether you lost control of your emotions and said hurtful words that were insincere, or whether you lost your temper and stopped hiding it and blurted out the truth."

Whether it is intentional or unintentional, what you say when you are emotional is cruel. If you say anything, it will cause great harm to the other party.

Really powerful people will never be carried away by their own negative emotions and will not say harsh words in anger.

Sometimes a casual word may hurt others.

was upset all day because of a small thing that didn't go well, which led to a series of messed up things;

and his lover kept arguing over trivial matters, and started to open up old scores after talking too much;

The child did not study well, I also play games all day long, feeling angry and anxious, and say hurtful words as soon as I open my mouth...

We will all be affected by sudden emotions due to some things in our lives.

Many regrets and regrets in life often stem from this. The cruel words

said will leave shocking scars no matter how you make up for them afterwards.

At any time, don’t say hurtful words and don’t do impulsive things.

Life in this world is a process of continuous practice.

Those uncontrollable negative emotions are a burden to us.

The old saying goes well: "A turbulent mind will lead to wisdom. The calmer the mind, the deeper the blessing."

We are always in a hurry in life, and when our emotions get high, we will forget all the good things about the other person.

Only by cultivating your own mind can you manage your words and deeds well.

I hope you can cultivate a calm and calm heart, be neither impatient nor impatient for the rest of your life, and be able to guard your heart and your emotions.

- END -

Author: Yichan little monk. The article comes from the little monk Yichan (ID: yichan6666), who uses simple Zen principles to solve the problems of life. For reprinting, please contact the little monk Yichan.

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