My cousin is from the city and works as a teacher in a middle school. Her husband is from the countryside. He has a high school education and opened an auto repair shop in the city. He can support the family but not make a lot of money, but he has no problem with daily food and clothing. My cousin and her husband were classmates in high school, and they fell in love at that time. Later, my cousin went to normal school and became a middle school teacher after graduation. Later, they got married. Many of our relatives said that her husband was from a rural area or a car repairman and was unworthy of her and unworthy of her job. She and I are similar in age and have a good relationship. She often complains to me. Her friends, colleagues and acquaintances often ask her why she married a rural person and is still a repairman? Many teachers' spouses are either doctors, nurses, or teachers and civil servants. She is special. The other half is from rural areas or a car repairman. Her colleagues often make jokes or compare her to each other in weird ways, meaning that my cousin is not good. I just found a man from the countryside who was a car repairman, and he said that teachers usually match teachers, teachers match doctors, teachers match civil servants... The world's vision is so vulgar and unreasonable, and if you don't choose a spouse according to their vision, you will be criticized.
The couple's little life was still nourishing, more than less than before. Now I have a 2-year-old daughter. Although my cousin-in-law has a high school degree, he has a very good personality and is family-oriented. He treats his cousin very well and is very good at dealing with people. There is no problem with his character.
I think if someone is married, shouldn’t they respect others? Telling a married person that your husband is not good enough for you is rude and disrespectful. Just like when someone tells a child's parents that their child is not cute or good-looking, doesn't it mean the same thing?
