文/花魔馆
Jimmy said this about love: "When you are passionately in love, you carve the mark of love on the big tree, and when you break up, you scrape off those faded vows."
Although the love of the older generation It's not that dramatic, but it reveals happiness in its plainness.
They spend the rest of their lives together, unwavering since their choice.
But today's love comes and goes quickly. It seems that they decided to part ways before they were sure whether this relationship still contained love.
Slowly, you realize that there are really unsolvable problems in the world. You love the other person, but the other person does not love you.
The most chilling thing is that because of love, you accept the other half who comes back after breaking off the relationship, but your relationship will never be the same again.
In fact, take women as an example. If a man comes to you after breaking off the relationship, you must know how to say no.
Because there is only one reason why they are looking for you: after going round and round, they can't find anyone better than you.
When a man leaves you cruelly, he must not love you.
There is an irreplaceable relationship between you, but he ruthlessly chose to let go and let you disappear into his world.
If he loves you, he will definitely not be able to help but understand your latest news and contact you. He will never go so heartless as to cut off contact with you.
One of the most obvious characteristics of love is missing. If two people don't even miss each other, then it's not love at all.
The outside world is colorful, and men are also ambitious.
I heard a saying: Cats can never resist fishy fish.
When facing the same people every day, they will feel that there is no novelty and will want to contact more people.
And for those new people, they are even willing to give up you who have always been by their side.
When they leave you, they may think that since they are so good, they will definitely find someone better.
But when they really leave you, they will find that the sense of superiority they once had was all an illusion.
They understand your efforts and understand that they will lose a lot of benefits if they lose you, so they choose to look back.
But in reality, there is a more cruel situation: he is in two different situations, abandoning you for the other person, and the other person abandons him, so he wants to come back to you, and keeps saying that he still loves you you.
In this case, you will find that even if you forgive him, he will still give up on you when he finds someone better.
Women are soft-hearted animals. Faced with a man’s tricks, many people will foolishly think that the other party really understands their feelings.
And your indulgence towards him is just letting him get close to your wound again, and he might stab you again one day.
In relationships, although both parties must be considerate, many principled things are absolutely unforgivable.
In life, many women even forgive principled things because they love so much. What is the result of
? Although the men please her everywhere, they are not happy at all and are even suspicious of her every day.
Even if men accompany them every day, they still feel insecure and their living conditions are getting worse and worse.
Instead of ruining your life like this, it would be better to let go and be more comfortable.
Interconnected love is very scary and the most heartbreaking.
"Once the seeds of doubt are planted, the crime has been established."
A life worrying about gains and losses is like living in a swamp every day, sinking deeper and deeper, struggling harder and harder to get out.
A woman’s youth is precious, and you should leave your youth to someone who deserves it.
In this world, there will always be a man who loves you to the core.
They will understand your emotions and will take care of the details to ensure a sense of security.
once had a friend who felt very insecure when getting along with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend told her that it was because she was not good enough.
The woman was convinced of this, but then she met a man again, and the man told her:
Not being good enough is an excuse for not loving. People who really love you will try their best to make you feel safe, instead of showing that you are not good enough. You know you won't be happy if you do something, but they still do it.
A man like this is a disaster for your life. If you don’t want to be tortured repeatedly, you might as well let it go.
There is an old saying: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
If a man thinks that others are better than you and prettier than you, then his heart is not open for you at all.
It is really not difficult to contact someone with whom you have had a good relationship.
Because you have many software to contact, and you even have many common friends to tell.
If he has not contacted you and has no intention of contacting you, then it is really obvious that he does not love you.
For him, you may be just a spare tire for him. When you are no longer valuable, he will replace you with the next one.
You must know that a man’s mouth is deceptive, and a man who can disconnect will not take you completely to heart.
If you have this time to struggle with them, it is better to improve yourself and wait until your real good match appears.
