Hefei Love Couple's Marriage and Love Class - May you pick more: Eighteen short and quick strategies for boys to have a good marriage. Which young man is not good at falling in love, and which young woman is not good at cherishing youth? These are the most holy gods in the world

Hefei Love Couple Marriage and Love Class - May you pick more: Eighteen short and simple strategies for boys to have a good marriage

Young men are not good at falling in love, and young women are not good at cherishing youth. These are the most holy gods in the world - Goethe

Nowadays, many boys are not in poor condition, but have very good conditions in all aspects, but they cannot find the girl they like. The main reason is that they are not very good at approaching girls. In fact, it is not difficult to get to know girls. The key is to find feasible ways and means. Here, the matchmaker teacher has summarized the following 18 points for you, which I believe will be of great benefit to you who are single -

1. Abandon the mentality of seeking perfection:

Some boys have a "rather less than too much" mentality when meeting girls. However, "no gold is pure, and no man is perfect." He is not perfect either. Therefore, you should abandon the mentality of being too perfectionistic and don't become demanding in choosing a mate.

2. Be confident in yourself:

Don’t be afraid to date because of introversion, timidity, face, etc. Instead, you should think more about your own advantages so that you can be confident and approach the girl you want boldly.

3. Correct your own shortcomings:

When others criticize you for your long-winded speech, lack of confidence, introversion and shyness, being too aloof, not being punctual... and other shortcomings, you must humbly accept them and correct them, because they may be exactly these shortcomings. It makes it difficult for you to meet the girl you like.

4. Actively participate in social activities :

Abandon the reserved and reserved mentality, take the initiative to participate in some social activities that can interact with girls, and create opportunities for yourself.

5. Go to shopping malls, gyms and other places more often:

Many single aristocrats will go to shopping malls, buy clothes, or go to libraries, gyms... These places are good places to meet girls.

6. Carry a beautiful card with you:

When you meet a girl you like, you can write what you want to say on the card and attach your WeChat ID, such as "You have a certain quality that attracts me", "I can talk to you" Are you making friends?" etc., and then hand it over to her in person, or ask a child to help. If you are in a restaurant, ask the waiter to help.

7. Cultivate new hobbies:

If you are active, you can cultivate some quiet hobbies, such as photography and cooking. If you are so quiet, try to participate in some physical activities, such as mountain climbing, swimming, playing ball, etc. This way you can expand your life circle and get to know more people.

8. Travel:

Travel alone or join a tour group. You may meet the girl you love during the trip or in a foreign land.

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9. Ask relatives and friends to help introduce :

In addition to going directly to the dating agency to be introduced by the matchmaker, you can also express to your relatives and friends that you want to meet girls. If you ask them to keep an eye on suitable candidates for you, your chances will increase a lot. When faced with other people's proactive and enthusiastic introductions to you, you should put away your worries, remove your baggage, accept it naturally and frankly, and express your gratitude.

10. Make good use of smiles:

Smiling can increase a girl’s liking for you, but laughter must come from the heart to have real charm. At the same time, remember that your smile should last for more than three seconds, and you can count "one thousand and one", "one thousand and two" and "one thousand and three" in your mind. If you don't do this, your goal may not be understood. to your willingness to be close to her.

11. Overcome fear:

To expand the topic, you must speak first. Because of fear and fear of being rejected by girls, you dare not speak freely, and you will miss many opportunities.You can first try to practice your courage by saying hello and talking to various people around you.

12. Randomly expand the topic:

You can talk to girls about harmless topics, such as topics about time, direction or weather, etc. If you are shy about talking, try sitting next to the target girl and sighing softly. This will easily trigger the girl's reaction and start a conversation.

13. Praise her boldly:

When you meet a girl you like, you can praise her bravely, such as "your voice is beautiful", "your dance is very beautiful", etc., which will not only attract her attention, but also You can win her favor in the first time.

14. Attend more weddings of other people:

Attend more weddings of other people and you can get to know many single girls. Infected by the joyful atmosphere, everyone can quickly open up their hearts, eliminate worries, get to know each other, and become one with each other.

15. Identify yourself as soon as possible:

Let the girl you meet for the first time know that you are single, so that she has the opportunity to consider you. The most unwise thing is that you pretend to be mysterious, keep your identity unknown, or even wear wedding rings indiscriminately. If a girl mistakenly thinks you are a man with a family, she will naturally back off.

16. Confess your love at the right time:

When you ask a girl for a date and she is hesitant, don’t give in too early, because she may not be interested in you, but may be considering it. At this time, you should wait patiently and try again.

17. Give girls one more chance:

When two people go on a first date, they may be too nervous and leave a bad impression on each other. In this case, don't categorically terminate the relationship with her. It is best to give her and yourself a chance to date again, and then consider whether to continue the relationship or terminate the relationship.

18. Attend more class reunions:

At the gathering, you may meet classmates from elementary school, middle school, or university who have been separated for several years or more and are still alone. Perhaps the relationship between you may quickly develop from an old classmate to a The relationship between lovers is a story of great success.