When returning home after a tiring day, everyone hopes that home will be a warm place.
There are warm greetings and delicious meals; you can wear comfortable clothes and do what you like. The family is in harmony and happy.
The warm home relaxes our body and soul, and gives us goals and confidence in our efforts.
However, not every family is warm. In some families, getting together means quarrels, and separation means indifference, which makes people lose the joy of life.
Mr. Ji Xianlin once said a sentence -
If you want a warm family, you must achieve two words: one is "truth" and the other is "tolerance".
The so-called truth means true love
Some people always think that after a long time between husband and wife, there will be no affection. In fact, it’s not that there is no emotion, it’s just that we don’t manage it so carefully.
When we were in love, the relationship was not necessarily deeper than it is now. It was just that at that time, we spent all our energy on pleasing each other, greeting each other every day, and showing utmost care.
If you can now treat your partner with the same enthusiasm as when you were in love, I believe he or she will also feel happy.
Deep love is not as good as long-term companionship. You can always be by each other's side and never leave. Isn't this the most sincere relationship?
I watched a video a few days ago. There was a couple on the shore of Daming Lake. The wife was allergic to injections when she gave birth to a child, and she was almost paralyzed. Her husband has been pushing her to the park in a wheelchair every day for 21 years.
My husband said, our life seems difficult, but we are all very happy, and we have turned our irritable life into art.
My wife said, I want to live a good life, and I cannot let down my husband’s sincerity to me.
What a wonderful couple who will never leave each other and whose true love lasts forever.
They are going through hardships in life, but they still cherish each other and live optimistically and happily. We should cherish the blessings we have now and the happiness we already have.
The so-called tolerance is tolerance
has such a little story.
Boys like spicy food, but girls don’t. After the two got together, the girl followed the boy in eating spicy food at first. However, as time went by, the girl felt it was unfair and stopped adding chili pepper when cooking. As a result, the two had conflicts.
After the girl's mother found out, she asked the girl to put a bowl of water in front of her when eating. If she found it spicy, rinse it before eating.
After the boy saw the girl doing this, he also silently bought a can of chili sauce and added some when he wanted something spicy.
The two of them are reconciled again.
No one has the same temperament and living habits, and there are always some bumps in the road. Only by knowing how to tolerate and give in to each other can we live a smooth life.
I have disliked eating porridge since I was a child and prefer to eat harder rice. However, my husband has a bad spleen and stomach and can only drink porridge. I have been drinking porridge with him for more than ten years. To live together, someone has to give in.
once saw the news. During the Chinese New Year, a couple and their two children were driving on the highway, but they got into an argument over whose home they were going to during the Chinese New Year. The wife fainted from anger, and the traffic police finally helped send her to the hospital.
Although it is traditional to return to the groom’s family during the Chinese New Year, many of our generation are only children, with only one girl in the family. If they don’t go back to the woman’s house during the New Year, the woman’s parents will have to celebrate the New Year alone.
My husband does this very well. When we first got married, we rotated every year. This year we would go to his house, and next year we would go to my house.
Later I felt that it would be a bad idea not to go to his house to celebrate the New Year, so I took the initiative to spend my 30th at his house. He also asks for leave in advance every Chinese New Year. He drives to my house first, has a reunion dinner at my house, and then drives to his house. Every time he arrives at his house, it is already time to watch the gala on the 30th night.
is written at the end.
A warm family is not that there are no difficulties, but that they can never leave each other and stay with each other sincerely when there are difficulties.
A warm family is not that there are no conflicts, but that they can tolerate each other and give in when there are conflicts.
Because of love, we have a home;
Because of home, we should love even more.
wishes my friends family harmony and eternal happiness.
