Girls' likes and loves are different. When a girl likes a boy, she acts a little curious, a little proactive, but in the end she is still shy. But when a girl falls in love with this boy, her behavior will become particularly proactive. Don't doubt a girl's love. Although a girl'

Girls’ likes and loves are different.

When a girl likes a boy, her behavior is a little curious, a little proactive, but in the end she is still shy.

But when a girl falls in love with this boy, her behavior will become particularly proactive.

Don’t doubt girls’ love. Although girls’ love is not as strong and direct as boys’ love, girls’ love is equally passionate.

Whether a girl has fallen in love with you or not, you can find out through the process of your chatting.

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Girls are more proactive when chatting

If there is a "chatty" girl around you, she will take the initiative to chat with you every time.

No matter what she did, what she ate, what happened, or what fun things she encountered at work, she would take the initiative to chat with you and confide in you.

Girls’ initiative is different from boys’ initiative.

In the beginning, girls will be tentative, cautious, and wary.

When a girl realizes that you are not disgusted with her and are even willing to interact with her, then the girl will increase the time she invests in you.

It takes 21 days to form a habit. This is called the "21-day rule."

However, in an intimate relationship, if a girl treats you as a habit, it does not need 21 days at all, only a short period of 1 week is enough.

Girls like you, this is a process.

When she likes you, she will take the initiative to chat with you; and in the process of chatting with you, she will gradually rely on you and regard you as a habit that she cannot give up in her life. What does

feel like?

If she doesn't chat with you for a while, she will feel empty in her heart, as if she has lost something.

At this time, the girl has already fallen in love, which is enough to show her love for you.

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She has a strong "desire to share" with you

There is a saying:

"When I see a flower or a stray cat and want to share it with you as soon as possible, it means that I already like it. Fuck you.”

What is the desire to share?

In psychology, it is called "inner desire and emotional catharsis".

For example:

You have a strong desire to chat with the other party. When you are eating, you will share it with the other party immediately; when you see interesting things or interesting things happen, you will immediately share them with the other party. Tell the other person.

At this stage, you want the other party to feel your emotions and your initiative.

A girl believes that when she can continuously share her positive emotions with boys, she can quickly bring the relationship between the two people closer. There is nothing wrong with

.

People like positive emotions and hate negative emotions.

The desire to share can easily determine the feelings of two people.

For example:

When you stand with strangers, you will deliberately keep some distance. This is the safe distance in your heart.

When you chat with ordinary friends, you only talk about work and life, not too much.

When you chat with friends who are close to you, you feel more relaxed and can talk about anything.

And when you face the person you love deeply, you can't wait to pour out all your emotions and love to the other person.

So, the desire for sharing shown by girls in front of you can explain a lot of problems.

When a girl loves you, chatting with you will rarely be "cold".

You will find that girls are willing to find various topics and are willing to keep chatting with you.

The most common chat mode among girls is: follow your topic + ask questions + share.

The boy said: I ate in a restaurant recently and it tasted pretty good.

The girl said: "Really? Where is it? If you have a chance, you have to take me to eat."

Then, the girl will ask: "Can you cook? What do you usually like to eat? In fact, my cooking skills are very good. Not bad, I’ll cook for you when I get the chance.”

At this point, the girl has done enough.

When getting along with the opposite sex, boys must cherish the girl who is willing to "take the initiative" with you.

Because you have missed a girl who loves you like this and is willing to take the initiative to get close to you, it will be difficult to meet her.

Today’s topic:

When you meet someone you like, are you willing to take the initiative?

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