Marriage can never be a matter of two people. Even if you want to handle it alone, your parents may not allow it. Whether it is marriage or divorce, parents may be involved consciously or unconsciously.
shares with you today a story about divorce. Originally, the young couple had already agreed to divorce. But after the mother-in-law found out, she felt that her daughter had suffered a great loss and went to her son-in-law's family to ask for various compensations.
What is going on? Let me tell you slowly. For the sake of convenience, let’s divide them into those in the story. The young couple are Xiao Wang and Xiao Li.
Xiao Wang and Xiao Li have been married for many years and have a son and a daughter. Xiao Wang's parents are doing business locally. The young couple also helped in their parents' factory. Their family has always had no worries about food and clothing.
Logically speaking, such a family would be happy everywhere. But every family has sutras that are difficult to recite. Their family is no exception.
A few years ago, the couple agreed to divorce. However, in order to take care of their two children, the two agreed not to leave home after divorce. The couple still lives under the same roof.
Nowadays, the divorce of the two people can no longer be concealed. I had to make it clear to both parents. This made Xiaoli's parents instantly explode. Especially after seeing the divorce agreement, Xiaoli only received half of the property.
In all her life, Xiaoli has never seen her father so angry. His eyes were wide open, as if he could see angry flames. His lips were white, and his sparse beard trembled as if dancing.
Xiaoli's father bared his teeth and panted rapidly, like a train climbing a steep hill. From time to time, resentment towards Xiao Wang emerged. His whole face seemed to be filled with extreme anger and pain, and became ferocious.
Looking at such a father, Xiaoli was really frightened. My mother is always by my side. However, because of Xiaoli's incident, the mother's half-eaten banana suddenly became tasteless and was put back on the table.
Xiaoli was also very sad about this marriage. After putting the two children to sleep every day, I lie alone in the bedroom. The tears I had held back during the day seemed to open a floodgate and let out a flood, soaking the pillow towel.
Although he was lying on the bed, he felt as if he had just woken up from a coma. Without the distractions of trivial matters during the day, all kinds of grievances came to his mind. I started to feel heartache constantly.
The limbs, as if numb from curling up, suddenly straightened out. Although the blood vessels were smooth and flowing, the pain was still unbearable. Every night, without Xiaoli's knowledge, she was stretched a lot.
Since marrying Xiao Wang, the young couple has been helping in the factory run by their parents-in-law. Although they say they are helping, they actually do not do much work. After Xiaoli gave birth to her child, she rarely went to the factory.
Despite this, the pocket money given by my parents-in-law has not decreased but increased. Although her father-in-law and mother-in-law did not limit Xiaoli's pocket money, they still had to report bills every month.
This made Xiaoli feel like she was under someone else's roof. So I advised my husband not to idle around all day and go out and make some money. But Xiao Wang didn't take it seriously.
Indeed, the monthly expenses of the young couple are tens of thousands. Every time Xiaoli goes back to her parents' home, there are a lot of things in big and small bags. Seeing Xiaoli return to her parents' home with many things that they had never seen before made the neighbors extremely envious.
The conflicts between the couple began to emerge slowly. Faced with his wife's persecution every day, Xiao Wang began to get tired of going home, and sometimes even began to stay out at night.
Shortly after giving birth to her second child, Xiaoli unexpectedly discovered that Xiao Wang had an online friend of the opposite sex who she had a close relationship with, and the two even met in private. Faced with Xiaoli's questioning, Xiao Wang didn't hide anything.
Xiao Wang said frankly that being with the other person is not as depressing as facing Xiaoli. He can feel more relaxed and relieved than ever before, as if the past has passed by without leaving any trace in his heart.
In front of Xiaoli, deep down in Xiao Wang's heart, he still didn't feel the slightest sense of guilt. In the end, Xiaoli decided to let go, allowing Xiaowang to live the life he wanted easily and comfortably.
After talking about the reasons for the couple's divorce, he returned to Xiaoli's parents' home.After Xiaoli's family members learned about it, they all took the initiative to give Xiaoli advice. Xiaoli's mother secretly went to Xiao Wang's house and asked for the redistribution of property.
Xiao Wang’s parents believed that the young couple’s house and car were purchased with money from their elders and had nothing to do with Xiao Li. However, because Xiao Li had given birth to two children, they agreed to give half of the house to Xiao Wang. Xiaoli.
This statement is obviously difficult to talk about Xiaoli’s mother. The daughter gave birth to children for their family, and now the son-in-law threw Xiaoli away for another woman. Whatever happens to the son-in-law, he must make some compensation.
Xiaoli’s mother not only demanded that the house and car that the couple had before their marriage should be given to Xiaoli, but also asked Xiaowang’s family to compensate for her daughter’s mental loss.
Faced with the unreasonable request of his ex-mother-in-law, Xiao Wang jumped up, pointed at his nose, and scolded the other party for being shameless. There was also a physical conflict between the two parties.
Xiaoli’s mother was probably old and lost her balance, staggered and fell to the ground. Although the injury was not serious, it still worried the two families for a while.
The next day, Xiao Wang was sued by his ex-mother-in-law, demanding that Xiao Wang compensate for his various losses. In the end, there was no choice but to leave the conflict between the two families to the relevant departments for mediation.
(The plot of the story is fictitious, any similarity is purely coincidental!)
The story ends here. After reading this story, what do you think?
As a husband, Xiao Wang cheated during marriage. This is definitely Xiao Wang’s fault. As the father of two children, Xiao Wang should have established a good image for his children.
The wife didn’t want to be dependent on anyone else, so she forced herself to go out to work. In this matter, the way the couple solved the problem was incorrect.
The ultimate goal of the wife is not to feel like she is dependent on others, and the husband does not want to be burdened outside. There is no conflict between these two things at all. It can be solved properly.
As a result, the wife chose to coerce her husband, and the husband chose to escape. This also brought their marriage to an end.
However, some people may say that Xiaoli is somewhat unsatisfied as a wife. The two families have reached this point not because of their own actions.
Actually, life is like this. If you want to live a better and more comfortable life, you must change. But if this change is wrong, it may lead to an abyss.
Even if Xiao Wang is, there is no request from Xiao Li. He already has two children. In order to set an example for your children, you shouldn't be lazy all day long.
Otherwise, when children don’t want to do homework or study when they go to school, can they be motivated by just a few empty slogans? Obviously, this is impossible.
