There is an article on Zhihu , which probably says that China’s divorce rate reached 63% in 2019, ranking first in the world.
Did seeing this set of data make many people’s jaws drop? What does the data
indicate?
In other words, in 2019, 63 out of every 100 couples in China were divorced.
Noise, noisy as much as you want, if it doesn't suit you, just leave.
But by 2020, China's divorce rate has dropped to 40%.
It seems that many people here must maintain an optimistic attitude.
In fact, there is a detail in this that most people may not know, that is, our newborn population is decreasing year by year.
Why does the number of new students decrease year by year?
Because many people cannot get married now. Naturally, the marriage rate becomes lower. When the marriage rate becomes lower, the divorce rate will naturally become lower.
Congratulations, another new couple is getting married.
In 2022, the divorce rate in China is still 40%. Of course, there is a prerequisite for this. Our marriage rate is also declining year by year.
But our divorce rate remains sky-high.
If we put aside the marriage rate and look at the divorce rate alone, I don’t think we can get an objective result.
The population is decreasing year by year, and the aging situation is becoming increasingly serious.
Originally, it is our traditional Chinese culture that men should marry when they are older, and women should marry when they are older.
How come with the advancement of science and technology and the growing strength of the country, the matter of getting married has become the most troublesome thing for people across the country.
What are they worried about?
Some people get married, some get divorced
And some things are happening in this world that subvert other people's perceptions.
When a person becomes poorer and poorer, he likes having children. When a person becomes richer and richer, he dislikes having children.
When a poor person feels that giving birth to a child can bring her hope, he will keep having children. He thinks that there will always be a child who will be successful. There is always a child who can make a difference in the family.
When a rich man gets richer and richer, he is very repulsive about having children in his heart. Only he knows how difficult it is for him along the way.
He doesn't want his children to have such a difficult time in the future.
He cannot guarantee that his children will have their own achievements in the future.
Just worry, that’s right.
For all the above reasons, no matter whether you are rich or poor, you don’t dare to have children or get married easily.
But some people are forced by external pressure, some pressure comes from parents, some pressure comes from comparison with peers, and some pressure comes from the oppression of traditional ideas.
Whether they want to get married or not? They all chose to get married.
It’s just that such a marriage cannot last long.
If you love someone, but that person doesn't love you at all from the bottom of his heart. If that person loves you, but you despise him from the bottom of your heart.
Will you be with him forever?
If you are a college student, have a fixed career, and your income is quite optimistic, but your appearance is average.
You have also fallen in love with a college student. His income is also optimistic, but his parents are very beautiful.
Through your parents, or through the arrangement of your parents, you got together.
Slowly, the woman felt that as long as I looked good-looking, even if I didn’t have such a high degree of education, there would still be a bunch of handsome guys surrounding her every day.
Is it possible that she will be with you forever?
How many people can control such a beauty?
If I still say now that marriage is just a matter of two people, the comment area below will definitely explode.
If I still say that marriage must be based on love, I guess not many people will believe it.
I am sure many people think that I am a loser, so do you know what love is, but how do you know what marriage is?
I think the so-called marriage is based on love. A marriage without love is just two people living together.
I guess not many people will believe it.
So, this article ends here.
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