We are all the people in the story, and we are all the people waiting for happiness in the story. No one knows that you are tossing and turning in the middle of the night, no one knows what you are suffering from. Those things that can't go back always have a reason why they can'

We are all the people in the story, and we are all the people waiting for happiness in the story.

No one knows that you are tossing and turning in the middle of the night, no one knows what you are suffering from. Those things that can't go back always have a reason why they can't go back.

We always long for too many "if I can...", but there is no way back in this world. You have a hard time, and so do others.

This is a true story that happened in October 2018. Maybe this day is just a meaningless day in your life, but for Li Xinyu, who is only 12 years old, it is a lifetime.

Too many things happened in that month, which caught the 12-year-old child off guard. The father who supports the family has been unable to find a job after suffering from a cerebral infarction for several months. The mother is bedridden with bone cancer and her condition shows no sign of improvement. The family only has the last 120 yuan left for their living expenses. Money...

Dad took Li Xinyu to have a meal of dumplings. Li Xinyu had not had such a sumptuous meal for a long time. He asked his father to eat too, but his father shook his head and bought a bottle of the cheapest beer.

After eating this meal, the family's total savings is only 100 yuan. Li Xinyu's father put the money under his wife's pillow and spent the last time of his life in his kitchen.

Life will always teach you and me that when we need someone to rely on most, we often don’t get it. In the end, you still need to get through it alone.

Li Xinyu, who was among the top three in the class every time he took the test, dropped out of school. The community provided Li Xinyu with minimum living allowance, and the community also spontaneously donated money to this crisis-ridden family.

However, these good intentions can last for a while, but they cannot last forever. What kind of life he will lead in the future depends entirely on himself.

We are not as strong as we imagined, but we cannot find a place for cowardice to rest. Your misfortune is just a story in the eyes of others, and can only be exchanged for a sigh.

Life always starts with your own crying and ends with the tears of others. What can be grasped is the intervening decades.

Whether you have been dealt a bad hand from the beginning of life, or you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth, there will always be unsatisfactory things. It depends on how you deal with it and choose.

Don’t worry about whether life is fair or not. Think over and over about the objective factors that cannot be changed. The only person who is in trouble is yourself.

Everyone’s time and energy are limited. We need to focus on where we need it, where we can make changes based on our own abilities, so that we can move forward.

The mountains are difficult to overcome, and those who have lost their way feel sad; meeting by chance is like a guest from a foreign land.

Don’t complain to others about the misfortunes in your life. Your misfortune is nothing in the eyes of others. Since ancient times, people have only cared about the snow in front of their own door. Who cares about the frost on other people's tiles?

We are all too busy and have no extra energy to share the sorrow of others. The best situation is just to provide comfort, and then give the extra part of yourself in a condescending manner. There is no such thing as empathy.

As you travel a lot, you will gradually understand: Adult compromise has always been about half understanding and half forgetting. The same goes for the hardships in life.

If you keep worrying about things for a long time, your life will be full of complaints; if you can relax appropriately, you will eventually wait for your own sunny day.

once saw a joke: People are tired from life, so they are called humans. Smiling and laughing, but feeling sad.

Yu Hua's "To Live" vividly describes the protagonist Fugui's miserable and tormented life in the story.

Fugui watched the people around him leave one by one. He said that he buried everyone. Life in wealth is so difficult, why do we still live?

What Yu Hua wants to tell readers is that the meaning of living itself is living. No matter what big thing happens, it is not as important as being alive.

People who listen to stories always look forward to thrills, but people in the story just look forward to peace.

The more exciting the story, the more excited the onlookers will be.

As a result, novels, Internet, and TV series have become more and more exaggerated, trying to attract attention. But these can never compare to the "wonderfulness" of real life.

Life is one person's chaos. Even parents, lovers, and children cannot truly empathize with it. There is no doubt about it.

Wang Xiaobo had this to say in "The Golden Age": "When people live in this world, happiness and pain cannot be distinguished. So, I just want it to be genuine."

Our life is not a story, but a This is a real and genuine fragment, and there is no reality that can be overturned by "if".

Everyone is the protagonist in his own life, and the people around him can only be spectators.

The viewer hopes that your story can stimulate his senses and bring some fun to his ordinary life. But in the story, we just hope to live a peaceful and peaceful life.

Of course, looking at it from another angle, who is not someone else’s spectator?

Therefore, grasp the key points in life and manage your own life well, otherwise you will end up being a sideshow in other people's lives.

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