Introduction
The 73-year-old Aunt Lu is living a very happy life now. What she often says is that the best decision she has ever made is to hire a male nanny. With a male nanny, she is very happy and her children no longer have to worry about her. Worry.
73-year-old Aunt Lu’s story
I am Aunt Lu, I am 73 this year, and my life is 70 years old. At this age, I am still very happy. If you ask me what my secret is, I will tell you that there is no other, just because I have been Made a right decision.
When I was young, my job was as an administrator in a company, which was just an ordinary job without any highlights. Even so, my pension after retirement is still good, more than 4,000 per month.
4000 is more than enough, which is more than enough for me. According to normal living conditions, it is enough for me. But in the face of disease, these are just drizzle. When
just retired, my wife was still there, and our combined pensions were almost 10,000, which made our life very good. You can walk around and enjoy the beauty of life.
During that time, we did a lot of things together that we didn’t have time to do when we were young, and we also made up for a lot of regrets.
Later, my wife left, and my happy days were reduced a lot. First of all, there is less pension in income, and secondly, there is no one around to accompany me.
Although a person's life is free, it can also be lonely. Compared with loneliness, I prefer excitement and company.
In order to make my life more exciting, I started to find hobbies for myself. Even if I am alone, I will go out every year to see different customs and people, and experience the fireworks of the world.
When I don’t go out, I will take my best friends with me to go shopping, walk in the garden, or drink coffee together, sit in a teahouse, and listen to cross talk.
In this way, my life gradually became far away from loneliness, and I gained some spiritual sustenance. Just when I thought I would continue like this in my later years, an accident happened.
A serious illness consumed most of my savings, and my life could no longer be as free and easy as before. When
first fell ill, my children and their wives took care of each other for a month. The children are considerate and take good care of me, which makes me very happy.
But I have always been worried about the so-called "there is no filial son in bed for a long time". I am afraid that over time it will affect the original harmonious relationship between us.
Even if a person is very patient at the beginning of doing something, over time he will become impatient, have his own temper, and conflicts will come quietly.
For the sake of family harmony, I decided to hire a nanny to take care of myself. They would come to see me occasionally and take care of me for a while.
Moreover, compared to nannies and caregivers, they are more professional and should be able to take better care of me.
Thinking like this, I told the children my thoughts and asked them to hire a nanny for me. The sons did not object to this. They said: We hired a nanny for you, so how could you ask for it yourself? Although we don’t have much ability, we can still afford a nanny fee of 1,500 per month.
Considering that I am getting older, have physical discomfort, and need real-time care, I hired a live-in nanny with a monthly salary of 6,000. The nanny's surname is Zhou. She is in her early 50s, not tall, and works very neatly.
My two-bedroom house was kept very clean by him, and I could notice it in every corner. The only thing that made me feel a little inappropriate was that she was weak and had difficulty holding me up. She struggled, and I felt uncomfortable. Comfortable.
Later, I chose to find a male nanny to take care of me, let Xiao Zhou go back, and gave her an extra half month's salary.
The new nanny’s surname is Ruan. He is very strong and does a good job. He keeps things very clean. The most important thing is that he is a man and has great strength. He can help me go to the bathroom or go downstairs without any problem.
I can finally settle down, I thought to myself. If he does a good job, I will give him a salary increase so that he can work with peace of mind and I don't have to change nannies frequently and adjust.
However, no matter how good I think, I can't stop the other party's greed.When Xiao Ruan worked here for half a year, I gave him a salary increase. Although it was only 300 yuan, it was still an increase. After all, he had only been working for half a year.
But he was not satisfied. Less than three months after I gave him a salary increase, he took the initiative to ask me to give him a salary increase. He said that I had too many things at home and the salary I gave him was too small. He hoped that I would give him a salary increase. Increase his salary to 7,000.
I was very angry at Xiao Ruan’s proposal. I thought Xiao Ruan was too greedy. After all, I had just given him a salary increase, and he asked me to increase his salary. He also told me that if I didn’t increase his salary, he would be If the number is required, he will resign.
His attitude made me feel particularly bad. It made me feel threatened. Besides, I was unwilling to give him another salary increase.
Therefore, I chose to reject his request for a salary increase. I told him that if he didn't want to do it, then he wouldn't do it. I wouldn't force it.
Later, the nanny named Ruan also left angrily. After he left, I hired another male nanny, Xiao Gong. This nanny worked in my house for more than 2 years and we got along very happily.
Xiao Gong is quite young and a nice person, the kind of person who has life in his eyes. On the first day he arrived at my house, he asked me what he usually needs to do, if I have any special needs, if I have any dietary restrictions, etc.
This way he gives me a really good feeling. The most important thing is that little Gong is very enthusiastic, and having him at home is particularly lively and energetic.
When people get older, they like to look youthful and energetic. When they are with young people, they feel much younger.
With him by my side, I live a happy life. Every time there is someone to talk to me and tell me new things, so that I will not be so bored. He is also willing to go out for a walk with me, and said that he also likes walking, and he will walk after meals every day until he is 99.
He is never unhappy that my children often visit me and increase his workload, and he often compliments me on my children's filial piety.
After we got acquainted, he knew that I used to like shopping and drinking tea. After my health failed and I went out well, he told me how to shop online, and he would make me tea early every day so that I could drink tea when I was thirsty. Can drink.
He is good to me, and I am willing to be good to him. Every time there is delicious food at home, I will give a portion to Xiao Gong and let him take it back to his children.
With his care, my children can feel at ease. During the Chinese New Year and holidays, the children will take the initiative to give red envelopes to Xiao Gong to thank him for taking care of me.
I am not stingy about salary. If he does well, I will give him a salary increase every six months. Although it is not a lot, it is not a lot. And his lack of greed also makes me very happy. I like this kind of dedicated person very much.
I hope that Xiao Gong can work in my house for a longer time, so that I don’t have to babysit frequently, my life can be more comfortable, and I can enjoy the happiness in my old age.
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People need to get along with each other, and they also need to know how to be grateful to each other, and always keep gratitude in their hearts. For a good nanny, even spending a little more money is worth it.
If you are good to me, I will be good to you. Of course, if you meet someone who doesn't know how to be grateful and always asks for things, you must also learn to stop losses in time, and you can't get used to it or make do with it.
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