Daniel Busy Marriage and Emotion Case Series Keywords: marriage, lover, woman Article length: 4500 words original article, plagiarism must be investigated When one day, you find that the relationship between husband and wife no longer needs love, is it a good thing or a bad thing

Daniel Busy Marriage Emotional Case Series

Keywords: marriage, lover, woman

Article length: 4500 words

Original article, plagiarism must be investigated

When one day, you find that the relationship between husband and wife no longer needs love, is it a good thing or a bad thing? Son? In an ordinary marriage, can you refuse the approach of another person of the opposite sex?

In many marriages and families, there are many simple emotional problems, but the answers are often not simple.

From a large perspective in life, this is not only a common marital relationship issue, but also a question about the pursuit of life.

It is said that life is short. In the world of emotions, short-term love can also bring endless sadness.

In the impression of many people who have experienced it, marriage is not perfect. The more you desire perfection, the more imperfect the result is. The logic behind this is very profound.

Due to time reasons, this article starts with a woman’s narration, as follows.

A few years ago, he asked me: Please answer me seriously, who is good to you, me or your husband? You and I have been together for more than a year, and I have never forced you. I just want to ask you, have you made up your mind?

I blurted out without thinking: I have thought about it a long time ago, please don't doubt my sincerity. You are better than my husband, and I want to be with you forever.

He cried, hugged me tightly, and told me to wait for him. He would find a way to divorce me and then marry me.

He said: No matter how much time I spent in the first half of my life, I will be a happy man if I can meet you in this life. Over 40 is not considered old, there is still a wonderful future, and we must all work hard to strive for that happiness.

I cried too, and lay on his shoulder to answer him: I promise no regrets, I will always wait for you, and when you finish handling all the things, I will stand by your side without hesitation. Even if everyone is against us then, I will still be with you and never leave you for the rest of my life.

I know that some things can only be hidden in my heart, but I still have the courage to speak out. If my husband helps us, I hope to divorce peacefully and marry the man in front of me...

1. The most common confusion in marriage is love

The above statement comes from the memories of a woman in a certain marriage case. Her story is very simple, But the content is very heartbreaking.

She talked about an objective reality of marriage, which is also a real emotional dilemma hidden in the lives of many married people. When a woman has another man in her heart, the word "husband" becomes a symbol that has nothing to do with love.

Objectively speaking, this kind of thing is very common in marriages, but many people don’t have the courage to speak out. Those who are brave enough to speak out are either heartbroken by their marriage, or they have truly fallen in love with their lover and do not think they are at fault.

From the perspective of pursuing advancement in life, everyone wants to have the "best" life, but the so-called "best" always lies in the future. Therefore, what many people call marriage is actually just a choice after weighing the pros and cons. Many times love is just an excuse and its essence is selfishness.

Only when I got to that point did I realize that love cannot be explained. Even if it is a disgraceful love, it will make people willing to do it without knowing why.

According to this woman’s account, after years of marriage, her ordinary life has not changed her dedication to marriage. Plainness is the truth, and she thinks she lives a happy life.

But at the age of 43, something unexpected happened. Because of a man, she once again fell in love with that man...

During a group tour, she met a man who "understood her" very well and was very charming.

Two people live in the same city and on the same street. Because they are similar in age and have similar family situations, they have a common language.

In just 5 days of travel, the two of them turned from strangers into friends. After returning from the trip, they became "chatting friends" and then developed into "confidantes", talking about everything through the mobile phone screen.

One day, the two met and talked about life while drinking. With the help of some mysterious power, they couldn't help but break through the last shackles of friendship.

He was 46 years old and she was 43 years old. After that date, they fell in love with each other, and then developed into a regular lover, which lasted on and off for a year and a half.

The two parties quietly interacted and slowly developed a "sincere" love. By the time they both realized that this relationship was immoral, they were already so in love that they were willing to go all the way.

She originally thought that it didn’t matter if there was love or not in marriage, that’s how life was. But since she fell in love with that man, she found that there was still room for improvement in love marriage, so marriage became an obstacle to love.

As she said, the cruel truth in marriage is unbearable to look at. Once someone becomes intoxicated by this, a happy marriage will gradually become no longer happy.

2. Gradually I feel that I used to be stupid

Next, I will tell you about this woman’s marriage case. The emotional logic in it can be understood by the readers themselves.

tells it in her tone. I only tell it truthfully, and I have slightly organized it to improve readability, so it is unbiased.

Only when I was in my 40s did I slowly understand some truths. Women and men are different, really not the same at all. It is impossible to say who is good and who is bad, or there is no distinction between good and bad. After all, men and women work hard for life and dreams in this life.

Over the years, I have discovered that nothing can withstand the test of time, not even a marriage that I once thought was very happy. In the world that I can see, more and more people are getting divorced. They once fell in love, but then they got divorced.

Do you think marriage is still eternal? Everyone has the right to pursue happiness.

Speaking from my personal experience, there are many incredible things in love. The happiness of life is to find a satisfactory direction in the "unbelievable" time and time again. When I am gray-haired in the future, I will accidentally recall the past, and this life will be considered a life worth living...

It is hard to imagine that I will fall in love with another man in my 40s, and love so willingly!

This is my fault. In the days when my marriage was peaceful, I actually did something that hurt my marriage. But there are many things in life that we have no control over, just like when I got married in a hurry, I didn't think about it at all.

Once upon a time when I was at the age when I longed for love the most, my parents arranged to marry me to a husband who had no feelings for me. I was very sad at that time and didn’t want to marry my husband.

I cried and escaped, but in the end I had no other choice but to accept it. After I got married, I slowly accepted my fate. I didn't dare to have extra thoughts anymore, so I had no choice but to live with my husband, and I was willing to give birth to children for him.

Regarding love, I have too many grievances hidden in my heart. But as I get older, my grievances become less and less.

After more than ten years of marriage, the marriage has been ordinary, without too many worries and not too much passion. I once thought that this might be what my parents meant by happiness.

If I can manage my marriage in an ordinary way, I can live a stable life even without love.

However, fate had other plans. At the age of 43, God gave me another chance to choose, which made me believe in love again. That relationship changed my view on marriage...

I have never traveled, I don’t know what the outside world is like. That time my husband signed me up for a tour and asked me to go out and relax. Unexpectedly, I fell in love with a man during the trip.

Later we became friends and underground lovers. Our two families are not far apart, so we can meet whenever we want.

Originally I had no idea about love, but since I met him, my longing for love has been resurrected. In more than a year of dating, I fell hopelessly in love and felt like I was getting younger.

Looking back at the time when I was forced to marry my husband, I felt stupid again. Now the opportunity to change my destiny is right in front of me, and I really don’t want to let it go...

3. Housewives are easily moved by love

It was he (the lover) who brought me the feeling of happiness and love, and made me believe in love again of beauty. It was he who gave me the most romantic memories, better than my 19-year marriage.

He is a loving and righteous man, at least in my eyes, he is better than my husband in every aspect. He has a wish to marry me as his wife in the future and stay with me forever.

He spoke his words to my heart and moved me deeply. In fact, I also have such a wish. Since we truly love each other, I have always dreamed of being with him for the rest of my life. I have been waiting for his words for a long time and have thought about our future many times.

But we gradually discovered that the resistance of this relationship was too great. Apart from being moved, it is difficult to develop further. He has a wife and children, and I also have a husband and children. We are both in our 40s and it is difficult to completely withdraw from our marriage.

Although love can make people desperate for life, if we are really desperate for life, we will have no idea when facing the confusing future. Because we are no longer young and have no capital to take risks for love...

Thinking of these difficulties, I feel very sad. The more I think about it, the more I feel that fate is unfair to me.

There is a kind of regret called regret of meeting each other late, and there is a kind of regret called looking back on the past. We both wanted to calm down and tried to break up, but we couldn't.

If my husband is willing to help us, I will be grateful to him for the rest of my life. If his wife is willing to help us, I will be grateful forever.

Unfortunately, my husband beat me after he found out, and his wife even came to my house and scolded me...

As a woman who yearns for a better life, I feel endless grievances in my heart. After 19 years of marriage, my circle has become smaller and smaller. I am too tired from spending all day around the kitchen, around the children, and around the elderly.

After the incident broke out, everyone said that my marriage was very happy and advised me to cherish it, but no one said that I was just a housewife. Everyone says that I am in charge of all things in the family, and that I am the woman in charge, but no one says that I live like a nanny!

People around me always say nice things selectively, and no one knows how I got here all these years.

In other words, they know how I came here, but they chose to pretend to be kind and use lies of benevolence, justice and morality to trick me into accepting my fate...

This love has been developing for more than a year. I am almost 45 years old, and the youth of the rest of my life has already passed. There are very few, and I don’t want to accept my fate.

There is a saying that touches me very much. Who has not recalled his youth in the dead of night? Looking back at the stupid things you have done?

There are some feelings. Only when you are my age and experience things like mine, can you slowly understand my troubles. They say this love is disgraceful, but we are indeed willing to do it.

I understand more and more that my marriage is the biggest stupid thing in my life.

Since I have a new choice in life, why should I not fight for it? I want to get out of the cage of marriage, find the happiness I desire most, and spend the rest of my life letting my mood fly...

4. What does a woman want to do in her life?

I know that this kind of relationship is immoral, but I am willing to accept another arrangement of love. Although we both have families and children, I want to continue with him.

I filed for divorce from my husband half a year ago, but my husband never agreed.

Although his attitude is no longer so strong now, and he no longer hits me. But after all, he had beaten me, and my heart was already dead. I just want a divorce, even if the hope is slim, I want to fight for it once.

Yes, I do feel a little guilty about my husband, but I have to tell the truth. I don't love my husband, I never have.

Nowadays, the children have gone to college, the task of marriage has been completed, and divorce is not a big deal. Why can't my husband help us, and why does he keep torturing me?

What do women want to do in this life? There are too many emotional distresses that only she can understand. A woman's happiness is nothing more than meeting a good man and spending the rest of her life with him.

My husband refused to agree to such a simple request.

He (lover) is also working hard these days and has had many arguments with his wife.

Although the road ahead is very bumpy, we are all working hard. Meeting love at this age is fate. If we miss it, this life will fail...

This marriage case comes to an end here. This is the story of a woman in the middle of last year. At that time, she was lost in the world of love, desperately wanted to divorce her husband, and dared to risk her own life for love.

This marriage case has a follow-up. Let’s briefly summarize it below.

After quarreling with her husband for half a year, she still failed to get a divorce, but the relationship between the couple was only in name only.

Although the wish is beautiful, life finally chose reality. The man broke up with her for the sake of his family and refused to see her again due to pressure. The pain in her heart suddenly doubled, and she hated him for not taking responsibility.

4 months ago, she went to find that man. Even if you break up with me, you must speak clearly. But the other party chose to avoid it. He resigned from his job and moved with his wife, never wanting to see her.

She called his number over and over again, and the response she got was "the other party is on the phone." She suddenly realized that he had blocked her and the relationship was over...

During those days, she was completely despondent and in a bad mood. She felt that it was all because of her husband's failure to fulfill her in time. One night she had an argument with her husband. After the argument, she drove away in anger and accidentally hit a young mother with her child.

She didn't wake up until then. Because she couldn't control her emotions, she hurt innocent people. At this time, the only person willing to face it with her was her husband.

Fortunately, the young mother and child were not seriously injured, but the battery car was damaged by her, otherwise she would never be able to forgive herself in her life.

What do women want in this life? From then on, she seemed to understand again...

5. Don’t plan your marriage too perfectly.

She once said: In fact, I am also very happy. I have no shortage of food and clothing, but I was once dissatisfied. That incident made me see through people's hearts, and I thanked my husband for never leaving me. I no longer fantasize, I want to be worthy of my husband's love and spend the rest of my life with him...

Let's end the marriage case above. Now her marriage has returned to its former peace.But regarding emotional issues, she still has a lot of troubles in her heart. She always feels that her husband has begun to dislike her.

Regarding this marriage case, I will not express unnecessary opinions. Just tell it truthfully, the content of the article is my opinion.

She told the past very simply, but her selfishness was obvious. She has hurt her husband too deeply, and this hurt may become the trigger for the next marital crisis.

When one day her husband also has a lover, she will understand the cost of falling in love with someone else. I hope that day doesn't happen. If it does, she can only accept it with tears.

This marriage case has a profound meaning: As a housewife, when a woman cannot get the love from her husband, it is indeed easier to be moved by extra love and lose herself easily.

When couples get along, they should avoid this situation from happening.

In marriage, some emotional problems are unsolvable. The reason why it makes people embarrassed, helpless, and regretful may be because they once thought there was a solution.

In many marriages, there will always be some unavoidable practical emotional problems. It’s not so much that you married the wrong person, but that you couldn’t control your own heart, thereby ruining your expectations for the rest of your life. Even if you want to return to your original peaceful life, it will be very difficult. One day you will understand the price of being stupid.