Netizens shared that love does not equal marriage, and marriage does not equal love. It depends on whether it is true love or whether you have to put aside the secular world. The secular world can protect your marriage, but it cannot protect that person. He must love you forever.

It is understood that extramarital affairs: love that does not bear the fruit of marriage is all fake and staged.

netizens shared that love is not equal to marriage, and marriage is not equal to love. It depends on whether it is true love or whether it is secular. The secular world can protect marriage, but it cannot protect that person who must love you forever. There is nothing wrong with love, and there is nothing wrong with secular morality. What's wrong is that people always want to have too much. Everyone's experience is different, but they all want other people's opinions to be consistent with their own, so they have arguments. Of course, if a couple has a good relationship, it's best to be on the same page, but it's too rare.

Extramarital affairs should be correctly understood as meeting two people in a dream after legal marriage to fill the gap in the relationship. If you want it to last long, you must give up possessing and asking for it. Later, the extramarital affair was submerged by mistresses, mistresses and other distortions, and it also changed its flavor.

All love that does not bear the fruit of marriage is all fake and just for fun. The abandoned party is too involved in the drama. The only way is to wake up quickly and let go.

People still need a little concentration. If you can't stand the temptation, you will lose the best people. You have to recognize your mistakes, otherwise, no matter how many times you get married, you may get divorced in the end, because the path of marriage is really important, and your self-discipline is also very important.

I hate my wife, I think I have met someone I love more than me.

It is absolutely impossible to bring back this kind of extramarital affair, because they despise their wives in their bones and think that extramarital affairs are true love. This is the case for Chen Junsheng in

" My First Half of Life ". He liked Luo Zijun very much from the beginning and regarded Luo Zijun as a housewife. However, as the distance between the two grew wider, Chen Junsheng began to hate Luo Zijun as just a vase.

Middle-aged Chen Junsheng became pragmatic. He actually fell in love with Lingling, an ugly divorced woman. He appreciates Lingling's independence, seriousness, motivation, hard work, carefulness and gentleness. These are advantages that Luo Zijun does not have. Therefore, after Chen Junsheng cheated, he wanted to find someone else. He felt that he had met someone he loved more.

But Chen Junsheng ignored that he also made mistakes in his marriage to Luo Zijun. Do you think there is a problem in your marriage, do you think your partner is not worthy of you, have you ever cheated on your partner? Since you are a partner, you should not confess it, let alone dislike it behind your back, and suddenly want to change someone.

Marriage is not a child's play, if you love it, please love it deeply.

Chen Junsheng married Lingling after all, but seeing Luo Zijun become so good, he began to miss the past again. Marriage is not what you want to be. Do you want to change people if you want to change? Why don't you think about what you did wrong? It's you who loves the new and dislikes the old, betraying the original intention of marriage, not your partner who is holding you back.

When people reach middle age, they are simply tired of marriage and just want to seek excitement.

Many men who cheat on their wives after marriage originally loved their wives, but as the marriage period lengthened, they began to get tired of the marriage. He feels that there is no love in marriage, so he wants to seek some excitement outside of marriage. He overestimated himself and thought he could control extramarital affairs and maintain the balance between wife and lover. As everyone knows, in the end, the scales were still out of balance.

Men, don't forget your original intention.

The essence of marriage is a contract. When a man and a woman become husband and wife and enter into marriage, they actually sign a contract of mutual love and fidelity. The contract is that no matter how long you leave, you will always be the same, but if you just want to have fun, you will often cheat after marriage.

Teacher Kan in " settles down to " is like this. After reaching middle age, he often cheated on his wife. He not only has a young lady, but also a forty-five-sixth one. Mr. Kan has no plans to divorce, but whenever an extramarital affair threatens his marriage, all he thinks about is quickly solving the problem with money. Mr. Kan was finally divorced by his wife because she could no longer bear his betrayal.

Men are always too confident, thinking that they have just cheated once, but they don’t know that once they cheat, they may never come back.

The above contents are all shared by netizens. If you stay away from extramarital affairs, your life will be more loving.