Introduction: When a woman was about to get married, she went on a business trip with a department leader for her career. When she came back, her boyfriend proposed to break off the engagement. Let’s listen to her story about what happened.

Introduction:

When a woman was about to get married, she went on a business trip with a department leader for her career. When she came back, her boyfriend proposed to break off the engagement. Let’s listen to her story about what happened.

Ms. Zhou:

I am twenty-eight years old, unmarried, and have a boyfriend. I am a real estate agent and I have to travel a lot because of my job. For real estate agents like us, business trips are commonplace. When the company needs you, you have to go on business trips. You have to go for money. I believe that everyone will choose to go on a business trip for their career. After all, you get more money from business trips.

I am a very career-minded girl. Whether before or after I have a boyfriend, I will focus on my work, because work is the most important thing to me. But of course, when I reach the age suitable for marriage, I will also find a suitable person to marry. I had a boyfriend when I was in college, but we separated after graduating from college.

I have been dating my current boyfriend for two or three years, and we are about to get married. However, when I was preparing to get married, I went on a business trip with my department leader. After returning from the business trip, my boyfriend proposed to break off the engagement. I was confused at the time.

I don’t know why he chose to break off the engagement, and I don’t know why he treated me like that. Am I wrong because I went on a business trip with the department leader? Where did I go wrong. I can't even figure out why he treated me like that.

My boyfriend and I met through work. At that time, I was not working as a real estate agent and I was working as a waiter in a restaurant. We met while working in the restaurant.

At that time, he was very motivated and worked very hard. He was also very handsome and spoke very humorously. He completely matched my aesthetics and was my ideal boyfriend, so we ended up getting together. .

We were together at that time, and many colleagues said that we were a talented and beautiful couple. I felt quite insecure when I was dating my boyfriend because he was handsome, humorous, and motivated. Many girls around him liked him and wanted his contact information. At that time, I felt quite insecure because I was not very pretty.

At that time, I was really afraid that others would snatch him away, but fortunately, he gave me all the sense of security. He would decisively reject the pursuit of the opposite sex and tell them that he had a girlfriend.

I believe every girl will feel like this when she is in love. She is not confident and is afraid that her boyfriend will be snatched away by another woman, so she will feel insecure in her heart.

When I was in love with my boyfriend, he was very kind to me. He was a very considerate man. He could do all the housework, and he also helped me wash my personal clothes. He never let me do housework. And on the days when I was on my period every month, he would take special care of me and wouldn't even let me go to class.

To be honest, when we were in love, I really felt that my boyfriend was the best boyfriend in the world. Because I have never seen a man treat a woman so well. Although the girls around me also live a happy life, their boyfriends are never so kind to them. They all envy me. .

My boyfriend’s family background is quite good. His parents are both primary school teachers. My boyfriend has lived a life without worries about food and clothing since he was a child. At that time, he was working in a restaurant and only had a summer job.

Because there is a big gap between my boyfriend's and my family conditions, his mother doesn't like me very much. I feel that our family is too poor. If we get married in the future, their family will definitely help our family.

So my boyfriend’s mother doesn’t want him to work so hard to support such a poor family after marriage. Although our relationship was opposed by his mother, my boyfriend never compromised and never wavered in his firm choice of me.

Later I became a real estate agent, although the job didn’t sound that good, and it wasn’t an easy job either.I run up and down every day, but the salary is quite high. If I can sell the house, the commission is also quite high. A monthly income of 10,000 yuan is not a dream. After I became a real estate agent, his mother slowly began to accept me, because I have a monthly salary of seven to eight thousand.

Later, his mother slowly began to accept me, and my boyfriend took me to their house for dinner. We have been dating for more than three years, and now their family has accepted me, and we are about to get married. Everything was basically done, we went to take wedding photos in advance, and the hotel clothes were all ordered. Everything has been done, just waiting for the wedding day.

But just three days before the wedding, the leader of our department notified me that I was going on a business trip for a few days. Originally, I didn't want to go, but my department leader said that I could get three days' salary after returning from a one-day business trip. I thought at that time that we still had three days to get married anyway, so I agreed.

I originally wanted to tell my boyfriend before I went there, but I was afraid that he would disagree, so I didn't tell him later. I only called back to tell him after I got there. He was very angry at the time, and then he hung up the phone on me before I even finished speaking. When I told him that I was on a business trip, he was very angry and said to me, "How short of money are you? It's time for us to get married in three days, and you still go on a business trip. They can call other colleagues to handle the business trip. Why?" Do you have to do it? And you can’t distinguish the priorities of things. You didn’t tell me before you went, otherwise I wouldn’t let you go.”

At that time, I kept trying to explain to him, but he didn’t listen. Later, After hanging up the phone on me, when I called him again, he had turned off his phone. I felt very uncomfortable during those few days on the business trip because I was afraid that my boyfriend would be angry. After I came back, I immediately went to his house to look for him.

But when I found him, the first thing he said to me was, "Let's break off the engagement. I don't want to marry you anymore. I don't believe you. I think you did something sorry for me during this business trip, so I I can't accept it. I can understand it normally, but why did you go on a business trip three days before our wedding? This makes me very suspicious and I feel very uncomfortable, so let's break off the engagement and not get married."

heard at the time When he said this, my heart broke. Wasn't I just on a business trip? What did i do wrong? At that time, I kept begging him hard not to break off the engagement with me. After all, many things had already been taken care of. Wedding photos have been taken, hotels have been booked, and relatives and friends have been notified. It would definitely be embarrassing to break off the engagement now.

But he didn’t listen to me at that time and insisted on breaking off the engagement with me. I was helpless and could only agree that I have broken up with him now. But I still don’t know what I did wrong. Wasn’t it just a business trip before getting married? Why doesn't he believe me so much?

Conclusion:

What would you do if something happened to you? And will you choose to go on a business trip three days before your wedding?