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My husband and I have been married for five years and have been a full-time housewife for four years. We used to be classmates in college. I was the cheerleader of our school. I was very prominent in school and had many friends. My husband was on the school basketball team. The two of us got to know each other as we communicated frequently. After graduating from college, we successfully got married at the urging of our families.

Not long after I got married, I became pregnant and was unable to find a job. After that, I gave up thinking about going out to work and stayed at home to wait for the birth and take care of the child. Hey, we were very much in love before, but now, we are increasingly speechless. Without communication and the flow of love, we are like NPCs in the game, living the same life step by step. During this, I was in pain and wanted to escape. Should I get a divorce?

Weiqing marriage consultation reply:

Hello, thank you very much for your trust.

I can understand the grievance and sadness you feel.

The lack of communication in a marriage is not one person’s fault, your husband is at fault and so are you. The two people fell in love before because they had similar visions and experiences when they were in college.

But now, your husband works outside and you take care of the children at home. The two people's understanding of society and life gradually deviates, which naturally leads to nothing to say.

suggests you:

First of all, communicate with your husband about your current predicament, let him understand your grievances and helplessness, and try to solve the problem together.

Secondly, two people should strengthen communication, try to reconnect each other's "signals" in common hobbies, and change the status quo of marriage.

Finally, marriage needs management. Don't give up just because of some conflicts and grievances. Solve them in time. If necessary, you should seek help from professionals to adjust your marriage and rebuild happiness.

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