first got married, the room was relatively small. A 1.5-meter bed was placed against the wall, two sets of cabinets, and a small dressing table. The bedroom space was very small.
There is a custom in our rural areas that the person who sleeps outside is the master of the family. In order to protect him, my mother specifically asked me to sleep outside when I got married.
At that time, my hair was more than two feet long. It was spread out on the pillow when I slept at night. I slept outside and he slept inside.
Every time he gets up at night, he always pulls my hair until it hurts, or touches my arms or legs. In short, I have to wake up every time he gets up, and then I sleep inside while he sleeps. Outside.
After I had a child, I took the child to sleep outside for convenience. But every time he was worried that he would bump into the children and take the opportunity to sleep in separate beds.
Later, we moved to a bigger house. The big bed was placed in the middle, with gaps on both sides. Each person had a quilt, so there was no inside or outside, and the other person would not be disturbed when they got up at night.
is now middle-aged, and no longer separates beds, but directly separates rooms.
The main reason is that he likes to stay up late. Sometimes when he comes back in the middle of the night, the smell of cigarette smoke on his body and the smell of alcohol in his mouth are really unpleasant.
My sleep pattern is that from the moment I wake up until dawn, I am most afraid of being disturbed, especially when he turns on the light every time he comes back late, which always wakes me up, and I feel unenergetic at work the next day.
As I grow older, men tend to snore when sleeping. I often kick him awake, and the two of us often quarrel over this matter.
With the arrival of menopause , tempers will inevitably become hot. Later, they all agreed to sleep in separate rooms so that they would not disturb each other, the quality of sleep also improved, and the conflicts between husband and wife were reduced a lot.
My girlfriend suffers from neurasthenia and sleeps very poorly. She was very envious when she heard that we had split rooms. When she got home, she made a request to her husband to sleep on separate quilts. As a result, my husband suspected that she was having an affair. I laughed at her for this. long time.
The reason why they can't be separated is that her husband is more dependent on her.
Many people do not understand the benefits of sharing quilts, beds or even sleeping in separate rooms between husband and wife. Some people say that it will affect the relationship between husband and wife. If you think about it carefully, we in middle age still have a lot of affection.
Everyone’s living habits are different, especially when work pressure is high during the day, and sleeping at night without a quiet environment is also very painful.
Whether you sleep inside or outside, separate quilts, beds, or rooms is completely a personal habit.
friends, please do not make demands on your partner just because you read this article. I will not be responsible if you fight!
