Writer Feng Jicai said: "A nation is not afraid of making mistakes, but it is afraid that it will not remember the lessons. If it cannot remember the lessons, those things that are lost are truly lost. Only by remembering the lessons can we not Only by repeating the same mistakes can a nation truly mature. Writers, artists, and scholars can have a certain corrective function on society, and the premise is independence and forward-looking judgment."
The same is true for individuals.
Some women on the Internet often say why they are always deceived by scumbag men. It is because she made mistakes but did not remember the lessons. Essentially, it is because she likes scumbag men and is always attracted to scumbag men. , she doesn’t like honest people, she just likes the feeling of “understanding me”, “coaxing me” and “valuing me”. Basically, these needs can only be satisfied by liars.
Why do some people fail at everything they do? It's also because they don't know how to draw lessons. They always do things the same way and hope to achieve different results. How is this possible? Only by changing your thoughts, your way of thinking, and your way of doing things can you change the results of your actions. Don't think about changing your thoughts and cognition, just keep doing things and working hard, which is just low-level repetition and can only get the same failed results. This is like a person who doesn't change the learning method of and , doesn't sum up the lessons of failure, and just keeps taking the college entrance examination, fantasizing about winning with the number of times, hoping to be lucky enough to get good results once, which is tantamount to whimsical.
When Edison invented the light bulb, he failed more than a thousand times. Every time he failed, he changed the material of filament until he finally tried the most suitable material. He just kept making mistakes, and any constant summary Learn lessons and keep trying new methods. If Edison did more than a thousand experiments, using the same material each time, would he succeed in the end? Of course it's impossible. Success comes from constant trial and error, constant learning of lessons, and constant progress, rather than from constantly repeating mistakes and trying to get different results.
Life is like walking in a maze. No one knows what the road ahead will look like, and no one knows what will happen in the future. The correct path can only be found out. Making mistakes is the ladder of progress. To face your own mistakes and reflect on them is to regard your mistakes as a ladder upward, making yourself smarter, more mature, and closer to success. To cover up one's mistakes is to be ill and to deceive oneself and others, to refuse to reflect and to grow, to put face more important than growth, and to put vanity more important than progress.
Making mistakes is not terrible. What is terrible is not knowing how to repent after making mistakes, not being able to remember lessons, and not being able to grow. Confucius said: To make mistakes without correcting them is to make mistakes. What this means is that making a mistake is not a fault, but not knowing how to repent after making a mistake is the real fault.
A person who does not dare to face up to his mistakes after making a mistake, does not know how to reflect, does not know how to draw lessons, and does not know how to repent, has no future.
Throw away your vanity and tell yourself that I am just an ordinary person, so it is normal for me to make mistakes. I don’t want to try my best to hide it, face my mistakes openly, and sum up my experience to avoid them next time.
No one is perfect without making mistakes. It is impossible not to make mistakes. You will definitely make them, but you will never make them a second time.
Errors are an opportunity for a person to learn and the only way for a person to grow.
