Only when you learn to look away and let go can you move forward better. When getting along with relatives and friends, the most important thing is to remember the value of reciprocity. It is better to suffer a little loss than to take advantage. Why do people still accomplish nothing when they reach middle age? The reason why I accomplish nothing is because I am always looking for shortcuts. But I have just forgotten that the most powerful thing in the world is the seemingly stupid efforts day after day.
The lack of contact between men and women explains the answer. There is no need to find any reason for each other, they just don’t like each other that much. Love has a shelf life. Some are long and some are short. Marriage is not just a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families. Drinking is not an excuse for you to speak ill of others or gossip.
You can go to the wine shop or not, you don’t have to go. You don’t have to go to the wine shop that called you halfway. Either they ask you to pay the bill, or they ask you to help send someone home. Keep an appropriate distance, give your lover some space, and give yourself space to be alone. Keeping a certain distance is more attractive and can keep love fresh and sweet. Keep your mouth shut, keep your mouth shut that loves to eat and talk. A well-educated person does not gossip or talk nonsense.
When we are saving others, we are also saving ourselves. When we give others a way out, we are also leaving a way out for ourselves. Once you block someone else's way out, you will actually block your own way out. Once you go too far and kill everything, you end up putting yourself in danger. Don’t always help for free. Once you help a lot, you will feel that this job should be done by you! Don’t always dislike this or that. When you are not capable enough, no one will take your words seriously, and they will think that you are full of negative energy!
There will always be people who look down on you and keep imitating you. As long as there is no personal gain involved, everyone is a good person. Between character and human nature, smart people generally believe in human nature. Remember the ugly side of the other person and don’t soften your heart just because of a few nice words. People who make trouble around leaders generally don't understand business. Because the business was so poor, I felt that I had nothing to rely on, nothing to be proud of, and the future was not good, so I put down my arrogance, found a new way, and worked hard, and finally a bright future emerged in the village. This is the antecedent. And because I am good at getting things done, I win the trust of the leaders, please the leaders, and get more benefits. I find that my talents are bound to be useful and I don’t care about other people’s opinions. So I no longer want to learn or engage in business, and I don’t understand business anymore. This is the consequence.
