Su Mei and her husband met in the workplace. When they first met, Su Mei felt that he was the person she wanted to find, so she took the initiative to confess her love, and the two fell in love smoothly. After talking for half a year, both parents felt that the two were not too y

Su Mei and her husband met in the workplace. When they first met, Su Mei felt that he was the person she wanted to find, so she took the initiative to confess her love, and the two fell in love smoothly.

After talking for half a year, both parents felt that the two of them were not too young, so they let them get married.

's life after marriage went smoothly, and her husband was very good to her. If there was anyone she was dissatisfied with, it was her mother-in-law.

Su Mei's mother-in-law is a very powerful woman with a strong desire to control. Even if her son is married, she still wants to have a hand in everything, even the daily life of the young couple.

Su Mei is also a very independent person. Naturally, she doesn't like her mother-in-law's interference in everything, let alone her involvement in her small family.

The two people soon became incompatible. Due to their status, Su Mei could not really break up with her mother-in-law, but she had a lot of resentment towards her mother-in-law in her heart.

Gradually, this resentment also affected her relationship with her husband, because she would always vent her anger on her husband after being interfered by her mother-in-law, who was his biological mother.

In addition to liking to interfere in the affairs of the young couple, her mother-in-law always felt that Su Mei had taken advantage of her son and that all the money he earned through hard work had been spent by Su Mei, so she proposed to let them implement the AA system at home.

Su Mei does not object, because she earns a lot of money herself, and her monthly income is even higher than that of her husband. The AA system is not without benefits for her. From now on, she can justly ignore her husband's expenses. .

Su Mei’s husband, on the other hand, remained silent, or he felt that there was nothing wrong with the AA system.

A week after the implementation of the AA system, Su Mei bought a new car.

Her mother-in-law was very angry when she found out because Su Mei's husband had a younger brother who was not married and could not afford a wedding house. She was very unhappy when she saw that Su Mei still had money to buy a new car.

So the mother-in-law was furious at Su Mei and asked her why she changed cars so casually. Didn't she see that her brother-in-law couldn't even afford a wedding house? Was she blind?

Su Mei scolded her and said, "Didn't you ask us to implement the AA system? Now what's the problem if I spend my own money to buy a new car?" !

The mother-in-law was speechless. When she was about to say something, Su Mei's husband came forward.

This time, he no longer made a fuss, but told his mother directly that he had grown up and hoped that she would stop interfering in their family's affairs in the future. He had had enough of being so fucking strong and controlling, and he My brother’s purchase of a house has nothing to do with him.

When the mother-in-law heard this, she became very angry and left their house angrily.

After this incident, the relationship between Su Mei and her husband has improved. She has already decided that if this man continues to be at odds with her and is even so confused as to ask her to use money to buy a house for her brother, then she will definitely get divorced. Fortunately, she will get divorced. , the man can still carry it clearly.

Why does Su Mei’s mother-in-law always like to interfere in the affairs of the young couple?

In fact, mothers-in-law like this are not uncommon at all, especially mothers who dote on their sons and are used to taking care of their sons' daily necessities.

In many cases, it is the mother who cannot live without her children, not the children who cannot live without their mothers.

Especially a woman whose relationship between husband and wife is weak always unconsciously puts the focus of her entire life on her children, and even completely loses herself. Her children are everything to her. At this time, even if her son has grown up, she will still want her. Have him in the palm of your hand.

If a woman like this becomes a mother-in-law, she will naturally regard her daughter-in-law as her enemy because her daughter-in-law has taken away her son.

When I sent Shanbao to kindergarten, I met a mother like this. Even though the child was playing well with the other children, she had to wait at the door of the classroom and kept crying, causing the child to follow suit. cry.

When I asked later, I found out that her husband traveled on business all year round and she took care of the children alone. From birth to 3 years old, she never left him for a day, so she couldn't live without her children.

Such a mother-child relationship is abnormal and is not good for either the mother or the child.

The son of a mother who over-provides for everything has an unhealthy personality. He has no way of shouldering the responsibilities of a man.

The relationship between husband and wife is also unhealthy if the mother-in-law interferes too much. No woman can accept that her husband considers other women more important, even if that woman is his mother.

But when a man has an overly dominant mother, especially a very controlling mother, who has been controlled from childhood to adulthood, it is difficult for him to have the courage to resist.

When you meet such a man, you can only say that you are asking for blessings. No matter how good he is, you cannot marry him. Fortunately, the male protagonist in the article can still handle it clearly. At least he still has the courage to resist his mother.

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