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No one does not want their pension to be high in their later years, because only when the pension is high, life will be happier. For the elderly, having a pension does not have to worry about anything in their later years, but really Is that so?
A 70-year-old uncle Zhang cried and cried: "My wife and I have a total monthly pension of 15,000, but now we can't even afford 20 yuan of cold medicine." What is going on? Next, let’s take a look at Uncle Zhang’s story.
Narrator: Uncle Zhang is 70 years old
I am 70 years old this year. Since I retired, my father and I have a total pension of 15,000 a month. According to others, our pensions are so high that we will have to live in old age. We will live a very happy life, and they are very envious of the fact that we both have such high pensions in our later years, but what they don’t know is that our life in our later years is simply worse than death. In the end, we can’t even get 20 yuan out of our pockets. You said you lived happily.
Many people here may not believe why the two of us have such high pensions. It shouldn’t be so miserable. No matter how bad it is, we should have some savings. But the two of us really didn’t deceive anyone, because we I really don’t have any money anymore, and I regret it very much. I don’t know how I will live my life in the future.
The reason why the two of us ended up like this is because of my two prodigal sons. If it weren't for them, the life between my wife and I wouldn't be so miserable.
When my two sons were young, my wife and I loved them very much and didn't let them do anything. What did they want to eat? My wife and I will try our best to satisfy them both. Because we satisfy them unconditionally, the two of them have become Qianlao clan themselves. Even after they get married, they still go home and become Qianlao clan.
After the two of them got married and started a business, they often spent three days fishing and two days working on the Internet. They basically didn't work a job for two months before leaving. However, when they ran out of money, they wouldn't worry. Because when they run out of money, they will go home and ask my wife and me for living expenses.
I really regretted it at the time. I had never thought that my two sons were so worthless. I had loved them so much since they were young, thinking that they would be promising when they grew up and come back to be filial to us. But who knew that not only were they hopeless? , but it turned into a gnawing old man, which really disappointed me.
But they are our only sons. It makes my wife and I sad to see them living in a bad life, so every time they come back to us and ask for money, we will not refuse, and we also think in our hearts, as long as I My wife and I are good enough to our children, and they will provide for the two of us in our old age, but in fact I am overthinking it.
We need them to take care of us after we retire, but not only do they not have the ability to take care of us, but they also ask us to use money to take care of them. According to their way of taking care of old age, even if my wife and I have a fortune, it is not enough for them to take care of us. It soon bottomed out, and every month our pension was spent. We were so disappointed, especially my wife, who doted on us so much when we were young, but turned out to be two white-eyed wolves who tried to trick us into everything. , nor for our consideration.
Even though we can get a pension of 15,000 every month, but the money has arrived, the two brothers immediately divided it without leaving a penny for either of us. We really don’t want to see them like this We don't want to give them a pension, but they can't tolerate it. We won't give it because they already have the pension card and are waiting to share it as soon as it arrives every month.
In the eyes of my two sons, we two old people don’t need to spend money. After all, we don’t need to buy anything at our age. What we have at home is enough to eat. To be honest, I really regret it, and I also feel sorry for them. I’m very disappointed. If we had educated them on three concepts when they were young, they wouldn’t have become like this today, and they might have been more filial to us. But everything is in the past and there is no going back. It's over, it's too late to say anything now.
As the two of us get older, our health gradually deteriorates. It is normal to get sick every three days. Even if has a high fever, my wife and I dare not go to the hospital because we have a There was no money, so I just endured it.
Since they took our pension, they haven’t come back once a year. They used our money to squander it. When my wife was sick, I called them and asked them to come back and take care of my mother, but they were cruel. He said, let me take care of an old man, saying that they are busy and have no time.
If I hadn’t seen that they were our sons, I would have just slapped them. Why did we give birth to such two heartless brats? It’s so cruel. After all, we are also their parents and we have paid for them. With so much, shouldn’t they buy me a pension?
My wife once told me that my two sons would definitely be successful in the future, and they would even be filial children. She asked me to wait and enjoy the blessings. But now I have not enjoyed the blessings. I almost made myself angry to death in the hospital. Filial piety is something I can’t even imagine.
I regret everything I have given to them. If I had known they were like this, I would rather donate the money instead of giving it to them. Now they are so cruel to the two of us. They even want our old house. Selling mine, regardless of whether I agreed or not, they had no money, so they tried to take it from me and the boss.
Now my wife and I don’t have a house where we can sleep peacefully, and they drove us back to our hometown. There are only two shabby houses in our hometown that look like huts. Before they left, they said to us: "From now on, you two can be self-reliant here. Anyway, you two are old, so don't go out and cause trouble for us." "If you go out, you will only drag us down. Just stay here and don't think about those who have it. Don't expect us to take care of you in old age. We have no time and no obligation."
They finished speaking and left without waiting for us to speak. Now I really don’t know who I can rely on, and I don’t know what to do in the future. No one will take care of the funeral affairs after death. When people are buried, I feel uncomfortable and tears flow down involuntarily. How can I live a good life like this?
It’s okay for them to leave and they won’t leave any money for us. We don’t have a penny now. If we want to eat, we have to pick up rags and use the money we get from selling the rags to buy food. .
The neighbors couldn’t bear it when they saw how miserable the two of us were. Sometimes, they would also give us some rice or food, which moved us very much. We didn’t have much ability, so we had to live our lives. One day at a time.
However, until one time, I caught a cold and broke out in cold sweats. It was almost 30 degrees at home, but I still felt very cold. I even covered myself with two quilts but they still weren’t enough, so I asked my wife to go to the drugstore to buy me some cold medicine. I take medicine, but my wife told me that a box of cold medicine costs 20 yuan. Where do we get the money to buy cold medicine?
At that moment, I didn’t know what I was thinking. After a while, I motioned to my wife not to go, but to pick up some firewood and come back to burn it. If the house is hot, I won’t get cold. I thought about the process, and my nose I feel sour for a while, what kind of life is this? I obviously have a pension of 15,000 yuan a month, but I can't even get 20 yuan out of my pocket. Is this a human life? Why are we living in such pain? What have we done wrong? God wants to torture us like this. I'm really fed up.
Conclusion
After reading this case, I hope that all parents will educate their children to establish three views when they are young, and not spoil them. Let them exercise when they should exercise, and don’t feel bad. Once you feel distressed, you will be hurt in your later years. I regret it endlessly, life will be as miserable as it is now, and I want to leave quickly, so no matter who you are, you must educate your children well.
