There is a kind of man who will prove how bad his wife is to people around him who may or may not know him on various occasions.
When I was shopping in a shopping mall, he said with a sullen face in front of the saleslady that my temperament was not worthy of wearing clothes from the shopping mall counters, and that street stall clothes were more comfortable to wear.
When I meet a female colleague, she will laugh at how fat I am and praise her for her good temperament.
would bully me in front of his family. I have a brain problem. If I forget this or that, I don’t understand the ways of the world.
yelled at me in front of his classmates to show his status in the family.
After being married for decades, I suffered from his verbal violence from time to time. I couldn't fit into my husband's family, and I didn't dare attend any gatherings in his circle. I even avoided going out with him, because you don’t know where he is, who he meets, or what earth-shattering words he will say, which will make you feel as cold as frost.
For example, today, I got up early and took my child out first. I said I was going out to get a pair of glasses, and he was still in bed enjoying his weekend time.
After the optometry , he accurately found the optical shop we were in, and came exactly when I was choosing frames and lenses, and negotiating prices. At that time, two shop assistants helped me choose frames. We chose a very unique frame that cost more than 700 yuan. This itself is not expensive, it is just a little better than ordinary ones. When I tried it on, he finally said, "This is not suitable for you. This frame has a noble temperament and doesn't suit you." "Staff, please get the cheapest one in the store." I guess the clerk rarely sees this. All types of men were shocked.
I have become accustomed to it. I am financially independent and independent-minded. I have been able to survive his verbal violence over the years because I have a stable job and even a higher income than him. I chose whatever I should and ignored him completely.
After we got married, I was sure from his countless verbal abuses that he had absolutely no love for me. But as for why he wanted to marry me for nothing, this reason has always been a mystery, and he refused to agree to my divorce countless times, and seemed to enjoy his own poisonous tongue.
Happy marriages are all the same, and unhappy marriages are all different. Like my husband, the house and car can be in my name, and I can keep the money he earns, but he will never give me a good look or a kind word.
Even now, this mediocre me, looking at the noble him, has repeatedly failed in filing for divorce.
So, I looked forward to his perverted job transfer. As long as there are days when we don’t meet each other, it’s a good day.
