Some people think that possessive people are less likely to have extramarital affairs. In fact, they are wrong. With moderate possessiveness, extramarital affairs may be less likely to occur. But if it goes too far, it violates the mutual trust in love and marriage, and can easil

Some people think that possessive people are less likely to have extramarital affairs. In fact, they are wrong. With moderate possessiveness, extramarital affairs may be less likely to occur. But if it goes too far, it violates the mutual trust in love and marriage, and can easily cause the other party to lose their sense of security, which can lead to the other party having an extramarital affair.

Some people say that what you can’t get is always the best. In fact, it doesn’t necessarily mean that what you can’t get is really good, but that humans have a curiosity mentality, and they feel that what they can’t get must be good. So try every means to possess, obtain, and conquer. A person with such a mentality is very easy to cheat. When he finds someone who is better than him, he will use his possessiveness and desire to conquer.

Some people do not want to have extramarital affairs, but there are too many temptations in this world. Many people have extramarital affairs because there is no novelty at home and they have extramarital affairs in order to find excitement. This freshness is a kind of possessiveness, and good things cannot be given to others. In fact, when facing temptation, you might as well think about the person you love, whether you are worthy of the person who once gave love to you. Only those who can endure loneliness can deserve a better destination; only those who can keep their heart can see more beautiful scenery.

People who are very possessive like to impose their own morals on others. It is unknown whether their own morals are still there. Possessiveness is actually a manifestation of selfishness and self. The purpose of pursuing others is to possess and satisfy your own vanity and desires. The so-called getting along with others and having feelings is just an excuse. When you find something better, you will still cheat! Possessiveness and control are directed toward others rather than toward oneself, so possessiveness will lead to extramarital affairs!

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