When they are young, women always yearn for romantic love and feel that with love, they can be full even if they drink water; only after middle age do they realize that love is important, but it is not the only one. Compared with young women, middle-aged women are more rational.

When they are young, women always yearn for romantic love and feel that with love, they can be full even if they drink water; only after middle age do they realize that love is important, but it is not the only one.

Compared with young women, middle-aged women are more rational. They have experienced more ups and downs in life, are used to more human relationships, and have seen through the truth of life.

In the days to come, in addition to feelings, they will value these two things more.

Empathy and understanding

How many women have tried their best for their families but the results are not satisfactory. They cannot get understanding when they are in pain, and all they get is cynicism, as if everything is taken for granted.

What chills middle-aged women is never the pressure of life, but the inconsideration of their partners.

Yang Lan once said:

"When you are most helpless and weak, he will hold up your chin, straighten your spine, make you strong, and accompany you to bear the fate together."

In fact This is true. If the other party can understand her grievances and see her efforts, then even if the days ahead are difficult, she will insist on staying with her until the end. Because this is the happiness she wants most.

Careful companionship

When I was young, I didn’t think companionship was important. I thought they had strong feelings for each other and often got tired of being together. After middle age, I realized that companionship has become a luxury.

Although they are sheltered from the wind and rain under the same roof, they have become strangers to each other, which is really sad.

Men always think that women want a lot, but they don’t know that they just want a shoulder to lean on when they are lonely, and someone to share with when they are happy.

Companionship is the tenderness that every woman yearns for. , as someone said:

"Every woman will fall into the bowl of hot soup that a man brings back when he comes home from get off work. In fact, it is not that the soup tastes good, but that you still have it. Don't worry about me."

Having said that, not every woman can meet this person. If the other person can understand you and accompany you in a relationship, you must cherish it and work with him for the rest of your life.