When it comes to blind dates, my attitude has always been to follow the feeling at first sight. Only when I feel that the other person is compatible with me will I have the desire to get to know the person further. If appropriate, then go to the step of getting married. In this c

Regarding the matter of blind dates, my attitude has always been to follow the feeling at first sight. Only when you feel that the other person is compatible with you will you have the desire to get to know the person further. If appropriate, then go to the step of getting married. In this case, being beautiful does have an advantage, but the real charm of women is actually to make men unable to understand, so that they can attract him to constantly speculate about themselves. Therefore, it is actually more important for women to improve their inner self. By increasing their knowledge and enriching their core, marriage will last longer. Today let’s take a look at Wei Yuan’s two blind dates.

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When Wei Yuan was 28 years old, he was forced to get married by his parents' order, but he didn't want to obey his parents' arrangements even if it was a blind date, so he found a fairly reliable blind date website Registered information. Wei Yuan met two girls on the dating website. After chatting for a while, Wei Yuan felt that they were both pretty good, so he proposed to meet and chat with them, and then married one of them because he really didn’t want to marry them again. Being talked about by parents. In fact, before they met, Wei Yuan had a better impression of the girl named Xiaoyue because she was beautiful, tall, and in good shape. People are visual animals, and Wei Yuan was no exception, so he chose to make an appointment with Xiaoyue first. . She was a refined girl, even more beautiful in real life than in the photos, but Wei Yuan's first impression of Xiao Yue was not good, because according to the agreement, they should meet before dinner, but Xiao Yue made Wei Yue Yue wait for almost 3 seconds. Hours. When

met, Xiaoyue looked a little embarrassed: "Originally, I came here as soon as I got off work, but my best friend called me during the trip, so I went to have dinner with her." Although she looked embarrassed, Xiaoyue kept saying, " "I'm sorry" didn't even appear. Even after he finished talking about the matter casually, it seemed as if nothing had happened, and he didn't care what Wei Yuan's mood was. In fact, Wei Yuan's stomach was already growling with hunger when he had been waiting for more than half an hour, but he was worried that he would be rude when eating when Xiaoyue arrived, so he endured it. Wei Yuan was a gentleman, but he knew that Yue had gone to eat after answering the call from his best friend, and he felt uncomfortable. Looking at Xiao Yue's beautiful appearance, he comforted himself that Xiao Yue and his best friend might have something else to do. Wei Yuan convinced himself in his heart that he still planned to chat with Xiao Yue, but the subsequent chat completely subverted all Wei Yuan's expectations and affection for Xiao Yue.

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Xiaoyue is honest enough: "A beautiful girl like me needs to have a good figure and good looks, so don't expect me to wash and cook for you after you get married. Also, I don't want to Give birth to a child too early to prevent me from becoming ugly and out of shape." To put it bluntly, Xiaoyue is a spoiled girl who relies on her parents for washing and cooking. Even if she rents a house outside, she will not learn to clean up the house and rely on her for food. Takeaway solution. Immediately afterwards, Xiaoyue talked about betrothal gifts, houses, and things like how difficult it was for her parents to support her. These words were contradictory. She didn't do housework, so how could she understand the hardships of her parents? It had only been ten minutes, but Xiaoyue's image in Wei Yuan's mind had completely fallen to the ground. Also, because the waiter served the wrong drink, Xiaoyue accused her of completely distorting her beautiful image with her attitude. "No wonder I can only do this kind of job. I really look poor." The waiter didn't dare to say anything, but this sentence kept lingering in Wei Yuan's ears, so he pretended to answer the phone, paid the bill and left.

In fact, Wei Yuan's conditions can meet Xiaoyue's marriage conditions, but after seeing Xiaoyue's beautiful face, Wei Yuan was really disappointed. He felt that if he was with Xiaoyue, he would definitely be very unhappy. About a week later, Wei Yuan made an appointment with another girl, Lili. This time he was not excited because Lili's appearance did not meet his criteria for choosing a mate, but after experiencing a loss, he still decided to meet Lili. Of course Wei Yuan likes beautiful girls, but when he saw Lili, his eyes lit up. Lili was indeed not as beautiful as Xiaoyue, but she exuded a temperament that Xiaoyue did not have. Wei Yuan exclaimed in his heart that she It's the girl next door.What made Wei Yuan even more relieved was that Lili was not late, and the two of them arrived at the same time. When chatting, Lili was not only polite, but also knowledgeable and had unique insights into many issues. For two whole hours, Wei Yuan chatted happily with Lili. When he was leaving, he exchanged contact information with her and said, "It's very comfortable chatting with you."

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In fact, the best love is not Do you feel comfortable with the other person? Wei Yuan quickly established a relationship with Lili. He felt that Lili was like a poem. When he thought he understood Lili thoroughly, he had a new feeling when they communicated again. In addition, The two were well matched and soon got married.