Ambiguity is that the relationship is very close, but there is no relationship. This makes it easy for people to misunderstand. What is the meaning of being together like this?
I once fell into such an emotional state and was stupid for many years.
At that time, we did a lot of things together. We ate all kinds of delicacies in the streets of Beijing together, and our favorite food was stinky tofu. The two of us could eat a lot, and we ate next to each other. Let's climb Xiangshan together and go to the eight major places. When we were sick, we hugged each other and it felt like we were together. But in the end, we still have no relationship, just like the title of the song, the bride is married, the groom is not me, and the relationship is ultimately empty and regretful.
Now that I think about it carefully, in fact, the other party never intended to be with me from the bottom of my heart. It's just that I immersed myself in it wishfully and became a companion who filled the void of the other person's time. I feel like there is no one more stupid than myself in this world. It is said that a woman is stupid for three years once she is pregnant. In fact, falling in love with someone lasts longer than being "pregnant".
Why do some people like to have an affair with you, but won’t be with you? In fact, there are no more than three reasons.
First, you have wishful thinking, just like Zhou Yu hits the yellow cover, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer, and no one forces you to be a spare tire. If the other party does not have a clear relationship with you, you still want to entangle with the other party, and your heart Keep illusions. It can only be that the toad wants to eat swan meat, which is a beautiful idea.
Secondly, the other person just needs someone who is available to accompany him when he is bored. The other person is your whole world to you. But to the other person, you are just a "accompany". Who doesn’t want to have someone by his side who is always available. Since this person is willing, why not do it? There are many people like this in real life. You think that the other person is always with you, and you two have a good relationship. As everyone knows, in the eyes of the other party, you are just a person who can be manipulated. What you think is an intimate relationship is sometimes not what you think it is.
Third, there is a problem with character. I like to flirt with you, but I won’t be with you. They are often selfish and greedy in character. Such people are good at scheming, or they may use your feelings as if they are free. He will not abandon or reject any member of the opposite sex who treats him well. Such greed and selfishness come at the expense of others' sincerity. Even sometimes, one spends one's youth and time without ever having a good relationship. Time is so precious, but some people occupy it selfishly, and they occupy a person's sincerity for so many years.
