Interpretation of emotional topics will take you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional reliever, but you must know how to let yourself go! Article | Original by Feng Ding Ye Bo · Plagiarism must be investigated by smart people. The more they care about a relati

interpretation of emotional topics will take you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional reliever, but you must know how to let yourself go!

article | Feng Ding Ye Mo

original · Plagiarism must be investigated

Smart people, the more they care about the relationship, the more they will know how to use "effective" ways of getting along to meet the necessary conditions for "treasuring".

Living in this stressful moment, the act of relieving stress by choosing the right lover is undoubtedly something that many people agree with.

Before identifying the object of affection, people need to repeatedly confirm this reality:

Feelings are only a part of life, not the whole of life. Choosing the right people and using the right effective business methods are indispensable.

In the relationship between men and women, if emotional management has no value, it is "ineffective" management.

In countless "emotional guidance", we will see countless people telling women:

To get along with men, you must use reasonable means.

In fact, the so-called "reasonable" means also have a necessary prerequisite: the man really loves you.

You must know that all the tricks a woman uses will only work on the man who loves her.

So, if a woman meets a man who loves her and uses routines, will she eventually get her various needs in the relationship?

Actually, not necessarily. The

routine is necessary. However, your routine is "valuable" only if it is effective and coexists with a man who truly loves you.

Why do some men really love the woman in front of them very deeply at the beginning, but then "stop loving" them?

On the one hand, pleasure at first sight is on the one hand, and on the other hand, women’s behavior of paying for love makes men feel “cheap”.

When facing feelings, women who know how to "restrain" will generally be able to avoid the phenomenon of cheapening themselves.

For example:

A smart woman, when she misses a man, she will cleverly use some means to convey information, so that the man will be happy for her "missing" and can't help but take the initiative.

But some women are not! As long as you are deeply in love, you should always stick together and never think about it for a moment. When we are together, our eyes are opposite each other and they chatter endlessly. When we can’t see each other, we keep making videos and WeChat messages...

Men are more direct when it comes to feelings than women.

Compared with women who don’t know how to restrain their enthusiasm and initiative, men are more willing to meet when they want to see and contact when they want to contact.

For men, he does not want to be "imprisoned" all the time. Moreover, he will be bored because he is "imprisoned" by excessive enthusiasm.

If a woman thinks that her deep affection will make a man extremely moved, she is wrong.

Men, not only will not be moved, but will think that women's excessive enthusiasm is "cheap".

This is also the main reason why some men care about women at first, then become indifferent, and finally choose to withdraw or look for novelty.

Men have a desire to conquer and possessiveness in their relationships. And women's excessive enthusiasm makes men extremely practical. How can a man who has completely lost his "challenge" mentality cherish women too much?

Relationships between men and women: Women, don’t do such cheap behavior!

No matter how deeply you love someone, you still have to control the degree! If you have more contact and passion for a long time, a man's feelings for you will fade away. And all your efforts are nothing more than a kind of self-impression.

If you want to keep a man's heart for a long time, you don't necessarily need to be very nice to him. You just need to keep the freshness of making him want to conquer you at all times, and you will win.

When facing men, you must know how to have reservations.Although treating each other with sincerity is a kind of respect for the emotional relationship, it does not mean that a man loses all his "desire to explore."

When facing a man, it doesn’t matter how enthusiastic you are, you will get a reciprocal response. Many times, men don’t need what you think is “good”.

A relationship in which a woman is too active and passionate is not real. Overly active and passionate love is a woman's wishful thinking and is inconsistent with reality.

When two people are together, the passion will inevitably fade. We cannot prevent the arrival of dullness, but we can use better methods to extend the period of passion.

advises women not to be too proactive and enthusiastic when it comes to relationships, it is not a good thing! No matter how deeply you love someone, you must also know how to "restrain"! It is really beneficial, if you don’t believe it, take a look:

First: Relaxation and relaxation, a wise move

For men, they cannot be imprisoned all the time, nor can they be completely free-range. You should act coquettishly and show weakness appropriately when interacting, and you should "disappear" appropriately when you are separated.

When dealing with each other face to face, use suggestions instead of orders and express requests in a humorous way.

When you are separated for a short time, you will "disappear" on your own, causing the man to feel flustered from time to time, and he will "imprison" you in reverse.

Some women, when they get along face to face, always criticize and command men to show their status. After a brief separation, random "post inspections" began.

As everyone knows, such behavior will one day disgust men.

When a woman asks a man, "What's wrong with me? I love you so much, why are you so indifferent to me?", the man will answer in a particularly perfunctory manner:

You are very good, but we are not suitable!

Look, how much does your affection weigh?

Women should arouse men’s desire to have a sense of presence from time to time. Only in this way will the relationship between you be balanced in your coming and going.

Second: A woman’s excessive enthusiasm and initiative are a cheap beginning

No matter how deeply you love someone, you must abide by the most basic rules of emotional relationships-two-way business and mutual pursuit.

Women often have flashbacks in relationships!

In the initial stage, when men send messages or share something, women always show "delayed response". However, as habits develop and feelings deepen, women begin to actively respond to men's "selective" passion at all times.

Even some women's enthusiasm and initiative are replaced by men's superimposed indifference.

Think about it, a man's temporary enthusiasm for you will be exchanged for your active enthusiasm for the rest of your life. Calculated based on the length of time, it is also the man who will get "bored".

In any case, women must understand:

Your excessive initiative and enthusiasm for love is ultimately a sign of lowering your worth.

When facing relationships, when a woman is too proactive and enthusiastic, the relationship between the two people has already entered an "unbalanced state".

And the desire to share and share between each other has become one-way expectation and one-way rejection.

No matter how deeply you love a man, you must know how to grasp the "measurement". Love that has lost its sense of proportion is love that thinks the other person will like and respond.

Emotional relationship must have the distance it deserves. Heart-to-heart sincerity, transparency, and intimacy have nothing to do with a reasonable distance in perception.

Many women’s affection is betrayed simply because they forget to grasp the right balance, and instead use the wrong “excess” to spoil their men.

In a relationship, you are most afraid of feeling good about yourself.

When you feel the other person's indifference, you must reflect in time and use appropriate methods to stimulate his desire to protect, explore, and conquer.

Otherwise, don’t be filled with tears after losing, wondering where you went wrong.

You are good, but the method is wrong!

—End—

Love is the purgatory of man in this world. Be it love or friendship, only when you meet the right person at the right time can you achieve success!

Topic Discussion: Are you a person who knows how to "restrain" yourself reasonably in relationships? Leave your true words in the comment area below.