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Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe said: "The insensitivity that is not shaken by trivial matters is the most basic ability in people's lives."
Insensitivity is a kind of ability that allows people to The talent blossoms and bears fruit, and the power is carried forward.
Insensitive power can lead to a brilliant career!
Insensitive power is a happy ability!
Insensitivity can be literally translated as the power of insensitivity; it can also be understood as: the ability to not be too sensitive to things around you. means to calmly face the setbacks and bruises in life and move forward persistently in your own direction. It is the means and wisdom to obtain a better life.
Insensitivity is an indispensable quality in life. Everything should be flexibly thought from the positive side, and the power of dullness is the driving force of this way of thinking. Everyone's energy is limited. If we are overly sensitive and care too much about trivial matters, it will only make us exhausted and it will be difficult for us to have the energy to feel those beautiful things.
So, learn to be "slow" about life. When you have the ability to be insensitive, you can truly enjoy a free and happy life and discover the more pure and beautiful things in life.
Junichi Watanabe said in the book "Insensitive Power":
"I am not so sensitive to other people's evaluation and ridicule, even a little slow. Others' evaluation of me has little impact. I only care about whether I have made progress. ."
Insensitivity does not mean slowness, nor clumsiness, nor indifference, but rather emphasizes the survival wisdom of not being overly sensitive to the things around you, staying calm, not arrogant, concentrating your strength, and focusing on your goals, which is the most important thing in life. kind of ability.
Insensitivity is a kind of cultivation, a kind of character, and a kind of strength.
If you feel that being smart is too tiring, try being "slow". Let you be blown by the wind and waves, I will remain unmoved.
It allows us to reduce internal friction, reduce external interference and disputes, focus on ourselves, make interpersonal relationships harmonious, and make it easier for us to gain happiness and become more outstanding.
So, when you feel that you are becoming slow, don’t worry, this is not a bad thing, it just means that you have a bigger picture.
The competition in modern society is getting bigger and bigger. In this war without gunpowder, "battles" between people are inevitable, and survival of the fittest has become the norm. It is necessary to maintain a certain degree of sensitivity, but what is more important is to be able to remain calm, eliminate all distractions, and persevere for success. It is precisely because of this seemingly slow and strong will that we have overcome many obstacles and moved forward step by step.
If sensitivity is an external insight, then insensitivity is an internal persistence. Relative to insight and perseverance, it is a more durable endurance and explosive power.
Zhou Guoping once said: "If it hurts, it's just because you care. The more you care, the more painful it will be. As long as you don't care, not a hair can be hurt."
Many times, the source of our pain is not others, but the overly sensitive person. Own.
People who are overly sensitive and delicate are easily affected by their emotions. They may appear to be smart, but in fact they do not live clearly enough. Obsessing over trivial matters will make them miss big things. They often like to use other people's mistakes to punish themselves. The slightest disturbance from the outside world will cause them to become chaotic.
Insensitiveness is a kind of wisdom in life, a skill and ability to obtain happiness.
In life, if you want to balance various interpersonal relationships, you can learn and use the power of insensitivity to solve many complicated problems.
When your mind becomes open, things will naturally become smaller, and these small things will naturally not trouble you. Over and over again, your insensitivity will naturally increase.
In marriage, the way husband and wife get along is the same. If you respect me a foot, I will naturally respect you a foot. Mutual understanding and tolerance can make a marriage happy.
Don't be swayed by emotions, learn to control your emotions and improve your sensitivity. You will find that there is nothing difficult to deal with in life, and happiness will come unexpectedly.
In the workplace, sensitive people may resent criticism from their superiors, which will inevitably affect their mentality and thus their work. People with strong self-esteem may even resign and leave.
People with strong insensitivity do not refute accusations and criticisms, nor do they take it too seriously, nor do they feel aggrieved. Instead, they respond with a simple "yes" with a smile. This is the most advanced way of responding.
If we can all be more emotional, less sensitive, and put on the armor of emotion for our dreams, we will be able to reduce a lot of distracting thoughts and worries, and be able to devote more energy to work, thereby creating better things. Achievements!
I hope that we can all be slower, filter out impurities, enjoy beauty, calmly face the ups and downs of life, and be leisurely and free.
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