married or "jumped" marriage? Nearly half of people in first-tier cities get married cost = 3 years of disposable income "naked marriage" is just a fairy tale! The survey shows: Only 1.42% of people in first-tier cities get married without spending money How stressful is it to get married in first-tier cities? Forty percent of Shanghainese said: Only buying a house locally can you get married. Is a marriage house a necessity? Nearly half of people in the first-tier cities agree that female white-collar workers frankly say that there is a house to have a home. Twenty percent of the interviewees said that it would cost more than 100,000
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"It's too difficult. When I think of buying a wedding house in Beijing, my head is big." After graduating in Beijing for five years, Mr. Li is used to this. The fast pace of this city, "I want to make my home in Beijing, and I have talked with my partner for almost four years, and have always wanted to get married, but her family requires that they have to buy a house in Beijing, and the cost is too high."
Indeed, buying a house, buying a car, Dowry, wedding photography, honeymoon vacations, wedding banquets, etc., for young people who have just achieved economic independence, it is not easy to bear the economic cost of marriage. Especially in first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, the high housing prices have discouraged many young people who want to enter the palace of marriage. According to data from the National Bureau of Statistics and the Ministry of Civil Affairs, from a nationwide perspective, the marriage rate in 2018 was only 7.2‰, a record low in the past 10 years. Among them, the more developed the economy, the lower the marriage rate, and the lowest in Shanghai is only 4.4‰. Behind the continued decline in the marriage rate in first-tier cities, in addition to the changes in young people's love and marriage concepts brought about by rapid economic development, it is also the excessive economic pressure on young people from the cost of marriage.
A few days ago, Rong360 "Dimensions" released a questionnaire survey on the cost of marriage in first-tier cities. The results showed that 47.39% of the respondents indicated that their marriage consumption expenditure was more than 200,000 yuan, which is equivalent to more than three times the per capita annual disposable income in first-tier cities. Only 1.42% support complete "naked marriage".
Shanghai ranks first in first-tier cities in terms of marriage costs. Nearly 60% of the respondents spend more than 200,000 yuan.
Rong360 "Dimensions" survey data shows that 31.58% of unmarried people expect to spend 100,000 yuan on the cost of getting married in first-tier cities~ Among the 200,000 yuan, 17.76% of the respondents expected it to be between 200,000 yuan and 500,000 yuan, and 15.13% of the respondents believed that the total consumption expenditure was more than 500,000 yuan.
Actual consumption expenditure is much higher than expected. Rong360's "Dimension" surveyed married people and people who are planning to get married in first-tier cities and found that only 17.54% of the respondents indicated that their consumption expenditure was 100,000 yuan~ Between 200,000 yuan, 30.81% of the interviewees said that it is between 200,000 yuan and 500,000 yuan, which is just the opposite of the expected result of unmarried groups. The proportion of respondents whose marriage consumption expenditure is more than 500,000 yuan accounts for 16.59%, which is in line with the expected result.
According to data released by the National Bureau of Statistics, among the four first-tier cities in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, Shanghai has the highest per capita disposable income, which was 64183 yuan in 2018. Using this income level as a reference, 47.39% of the interviewees said that marriage consumption expenditure was more than 200,000 yuan, which is equivalent to more than three times the per capita annual disposable income.
Despite this, many people still feel that 200,000 yuan is not enough. Ms. Ye from Beijing spent 200,000 yuan when she got married. She felt that it was far from meeting expectations. “The wedding was done so-so. No diamond ring was bought, but a pair of rings were bought. The wedding dress was borrowed from relatives for free. It didn’t come true. The main thing was that they didn’t have much savings.” The
survey found that 45.45% of respondents in Beijing had a marriage consumption expenditure of more than 200,000 yuan, 57.14% in Shanghai, 52.5% in Guangzhou, and 28.57% in Shenzhen. . This shows that the cost of marriage in the four first-tier cities in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen is quite different. The cost of marriage in Shanghai is generally higher, Shenzhen is lower, and Beijing and Guangzhou are in the middle.
Specifically, the cost of marriage in Shanghai is more concentrated between 200,000 and 500,000, and nearly 40% of Shanghai respondents choose this range; Beijing is more concentrated in 200,000Between RMB 500,000 and RMB 50,000 and RMB 100,000, accounting for 27.27% and 25.76% respectively; the consumer spending is more concentrated between RMB 50,000 and RMB 100,000, with 38.1% Respondents said so; in Guangzhou, 20% of respondents said that marriage consumption expenditures are less than 50,000 yuan.
From the perspective of age group, the post-80s and post-90s are the majority of the marriageable population. 40.26% of the post-80s marriage consumption expenditures are between 200,000 yuan and 500,000 yuan, and the proportion of consumption expenditures above 500,000 yuan also reaches 22.08%, which is much higher than other age groups. The distribution of post-90s consumption expenditures is relatively balanced. 31.43% of the interviewees indicated that their marriage consumption expenditures ranged from 50,000 to 100,000, choosing between 100,000 to 200,000 and 200,000 to 500,000. The proportion of visitors is also around 20%. The
survey results show that 43.14% of those born in the 60s and 70s account for more than 200,000 yuan in marriage consumption, 62.34% after the 80s, 32.86% after the 90s, and 53.85% after the 95s. The marriage consumption expenditure of the post-95s generation is higher than that of the post-90s and 70s.
Wedding photography has become the first choice for marriage consumption. Post-80s and post-90s are more keen to buy a house
For marriageable people in first-tier cities, what consumption expenditures are necessary items for marriage? Rong360’s “Dimension” survey found that wedding photography is the first choice for newcomers. 79.17% of the respondents believe that wedding photography is a necessary consumer expenditure item; they think that wedding banquets, wedding jewelry, and betrothal gifts/dowry are the recipients of necessary consumer expenditure items. More than 70% of the interviewees also; for the concern about buying a house or a car, survey data shows that the proportion of buying a house is 46.43% and the proportion of buying a car is 33.33%.
"If you get married, you can have no car, but you must have a house." Beijing white-collar Miss Wang believes that the house is a symbol of home, no matter where you get married, you must have your own house. "Even after another 30 years, I will I can remember that in the night of late November in Beijing, sitting on the back seat of the house agent’s motorcycle, looking around for rented houses, shivering in the cold wind!” People of different age groups also have big differences in consumption concepts. In the eyes of those born in the 60s and 70s, buying wedding banquets and dowry/dowry are the most important expenses for marriage, followed by wedding jewelry and wedding photography. Only 12.5% of respondents believe that buying a house is a necessary expenditure for marriage; In the eyes of the post-90s and post-95s generations, 50%, 43.42% and 53.57% of the items that think buying a house are necessary for marriage have reached 50%, 43.42% and 53.57% respectively.
44.74% of the respondents said that buying a house is the most expensive item of all consumer expenditure items; another 21.71% of the respondents believe that the cost of buying a wedding banquet is the highest, and 13.16 respondents said that the cost of wedding gifts/dowry highest.
Under the high housing prices, 40% of Shanghainese still require local buyers to buy a house to get married.
Although nearly half of the interviewees believe that marriage requires buying a house, due to the high housing prices in first-tier cities, the proportion of people who require buying a house in their city to get married is not high. Rong360's "Dimension" survey found that only 17.76% of respondents in first-tier cities said that they must buy a house in their city to get married. 33.55% of the interviewees said that they can accept renting a house for the time being, but they must buy a house after marriage; 23.03% of the interviewees think it is necessary to buy a house, but they can accept buying a house from another place; those who think they can rent a house for a long time without compulsory purchase Those accounted for 16.45%. In addition, only 9.21% said that they have arranged a wedding house at home and do not need to buy a new house by themselves.
In the survey, 20% of male respondents said that “you must buy a house in this city to get married.” The proportion of female respondents who also hold this view is 16.49%, slightly lower than that of males; 23.64% of male respondents It is acceptable to buy a house after marriage, and the proportion of women is 39.18%.
Regarding the acceptance of long-term renting, 17.53% of female respondents said it was acceptable, 14.55% of men said it was acceptable, and women’s acceptance was higher than that of men. However, inOnly 18.56% of women agreed with the acceptance of having a house in another place, while 30.91% of men agreed.
Different age groups have different views on buying a house to get married. Only 4.55% of post-80s agree with the fact that “you must buy a house in this city to get married.” The proportion of post-90s and post-95s reached 20.55% respectively. And 16.36%; 31.82% of the post-80s generation agreed with the acceptance of buying a house from another place, and 20.55% and 23.64% of the post-90s and post-95s generations.
When it comes to accepting long-term renting, the post-80s generation’s sense of identity is higher than that of the post-90s and post-95s. 22.73% of the post-80s said they accept it. The post-90s and post-95s who said they accepted 17.81% and 12.73% respectively; On accepting "temporary renting, you must buy a house after marriage", post-90s and post-95s have a higher degree of recognition than post-80s. 32.88% of post-90s and 40% post-95s said they accept it, and the proportion of post-80s is 22.73%.
Although the housing prices in the four first-tier cities remain high, people living in these four cities have different views on buying a house and getting married due to their respective geographic characteristics. Among them, Shanghainese are more keen to buy wedding houses locally. As many as 40.74% of Shanghai respondents said that “you must buy a house in this city to get married”, compared with only 9.09% of respondents in Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. 14.29% and 15.09% think so. Z16z
Ms. Gao, who has worked in Shanghai for many years, met her current boyfriend through introduction the previous year. Both of them have met each other’s parents. Her parents are also satisfied with her boyfriend, so she has to buy a house in Shanghai. "Actually, parents of many friends around me will have this requirement. The city center can't afford it, so we went to the suburbs to see. We also just saw a small two-bedroom in the suburbs, with a down payment of more than 800,000, gritted our teeth and prepared to settle. Corresponding to
, only 7.41% of Shanghai respondents agree that long-term rentals are possible, while the proportions of Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen that agree with long-term rentals are 18.18%, 21.43% and 16.98%. Regarding the acceptance of buying a house from another place, Guangzhou was at the bottom with 7.14%, Beijing and Shanghai were 25% and 14.81% respectively, and Shenzhen had the highest acceptance, reaching 33.96%.
should the man be responsible for the marriage room? Men’s recognition is twice as high as women’s
As for who will bear the cost of the wedding room, the Rong360 "Dimension" survey results show that 38.05% of the respondents said that both men and women should bear it independently; 37.17% of the respondents It is believed that the family of both men and women should provide support; 24.78% of the interviewees believe that the family of the man should be responsible; none of the respondents believe that the family of the woman should be responsible.
is different from the general perception that 39.02% of male respondents believe that the male’s family should be responsible, but only 16.67% of female respondents think so; 45.83% of female respondents believe that the cost of the wedding room Should be undertaken independently by both men and women, only 24.39% of the respondents think so.
believes that the man’s family should be responsible for the highest proportion of the wedding room expenses. The proportion of Shanghai respondents holding this view is 45.83%, which is much higher than the 21.88%, 11.76% and 20% in Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen; The highest proportion of people in Guangzhou who believe that both men and women should bear the responsibility independently is the Guangzhou people. 58.82% of the Guangzhou respondents think so, while the Shanghainese have the lowest sense of identity. Only 12.5% of the Shanghai respondents said that both men and women should bear the responsibility independently. .
From the perspective of age group, the post-80s generation believes that the man’s family should be responsible for the highest proportion of the marriage room expenses. 46.15% of the post-80s respondents think so, the proportion of the post-90s and post-95s respondents is 24.07 % And 15.91%; the post-90s generation with the highest proportion of support should be provided by both families, accounting for 42.59%, while only 15.38% of the post-80s respondents think so.
The payout is expensive! TwoAccording to the traditional Chinese wedding customs, the dowry and dowry are essential consumer expenditure items. Rong360's "Dimension" survey found that beauties in first-tier cities are still a very expensive expense. 21.67% of the respondents indicated that the cost of the beauties was between 20,000 and 50,000 yuan, and 38.33% of the respondents indicated that the cost of the beauties Between 50,000 and 100,000 yuan, the proportion of respondents with a bride price between 100,000 and 200,000 yuan also reached 20%. Only 11.67% of the respondents said that they did not prepare the bride price, and only 8.33% had the bride price below 20,000 yuan. "When we got married, we spent 200,000 yuan, of which 100,000 yuan was a betrothal gift. Other wedding items can only be operated on the principle that the less money the better. This is one reason why the wedding ultimately failed to meet expectations. "Ms. Ye said.
Compared with the bride price, the dowry expenses are much less. The Rong360 "Dimension" survey found that 14.58% of the respondents said that they did not prepare a dowry during the marriage process, and 10.42% of the dowry spent less than 20,000 yuan; 37.5% of the respondents said that the dowry cost was 20,000 yuan~ Among the 50,000 yuan, 22.92% of the respondents said that the dowry cost was between 50,000 and 100,000 yuan, and only 12.5% had the dowry cost between 100,000 and 200,000 yuan.
Shanghai people are the most embarrassed to get married and set the table! Sixty percent of the interviewees said that the budget for each table starting at 3,000 yuan
is the standard for many people to hold weddings. The Rong360 "Dimension" survey found that the scale of wedding banquets is also very concerned in first-tier cities. 41.98% of respondents said that the size of the wedding banquet should be between 10 and 20 tables. The respondents who believed that the wedding banquet should be between 20 and 30 tables also reached 27.16%. Only 2.47% of the respondents said that the wedding banquet should be arranged at Below 5 tables.
However, in actual interviews, many young people said that they are not keen on holding wedding banquets. "Actually, I'd rather host a party and invite my family and friends over to play together. I don't want to have a wedding banquet. It is too cumbersome to do what the parents say." Ms. Wang said. Ms. Ye also said that the banquet is mainly held for the elders of the family, and she doesn't really care.
In terms of wedding banquet budget, Shanghai people are most willing to pay for it. 30% of Shanghai respondents said that the budget for each wedding banquet is between 5,000 yuan and 10,000 yuan, and those whose budget is between 3,000 yuan and 5,000 yuan. Also reached 30%. In comparison, the proportions of wedding banquet budgets in Beijing, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen that are below 3,000 yuan are 80.95%, 92.86% and 90.9%, respectively.
Less than 20% of the interviewees can afford the cost of marriage. Men are still the main bearer.
Are the cost of marriage in first-tier cities beyond the range of young people today? The Rong360 "Dimension" survey found that only 15.56% of the respondents said that they could afford all the marriage expenses financially.
Judging from the age group, the younger the group, the more they are unable to afford all the marriage expenses. The survey results show that 30.19% of the respondents of the post-60s and 70s said they could bear all the expenses, 13.83% of the post-80s said they could afford it, 15.32% of the post-90s said they could afford it, and only the post-95s 5.26% said they can afford it.
Regarding the degree of support that can be provided to the family, 20.32% of the respondents said that the family can help bear all expenditures. From the perspective of age group, 24.53% of the respondents of the post-60s and 70s said that their families can afford all expenditures. The proportions of the post-80s, post-90s and post-95s who hold the same attitude are 22.34% and 22.52. % And 8.77%, the post-95s generation is pessimistic about whether the family can afford marriage expenses.
Regarding who should bear the consumption expenditure on marriage, Rong360's "Dimension" survey found that men are still the main bearers of consumption expenditure on marriage. 57.14% of the interviewees believe that it should be “the man is mainly responsible, and the woman supports part of it as the case may be”, and the proportion of respondents who think that “both men and women pay half” is 20.32%, 5.08% of the interviewees think that “all the man’s responsibility should be the responsibility”, and none of the interviewees think that “the woman is mainly responsible, and the man supports part of it as the case may be” and “all the woman is responsible”.
What is interesting is that men agree that the man should bear the cost of marriage. Among the male respondents, the percentages of “all the man’s responsibility” and “the man’s main responsibility, and the woman supports part of it as appropriate” were 8.4% and 62.6% respectively, which were higher than female respondents (2.72% and 53.26% respectively) ); 25% of female respondents believe that "both men and women should pay half", while the proportion of male respondents is 13.74%.
Generally speaking, in the first-tier cities, fewer and fewer young people say they can afford the cost of marriage; men are still the main bearers of marriage costs, but the support of women is increasing, and it is no longer a contract for men alone. Situation. (This article comes from Rong 360 "Dimensions")
