There is a saying in the old saying: The relationship is born from the heart.
The general idea is that the overall external image of a person, such as appearance, temperament, habits, etc., are, in the final analysis, the product of inner activities. This is actually the principle that people often say "coming from the heart".
Furthermore, the so-called "phase" not only refers to the overall image of a person, but also refers to all things we can be aware of, as Wang Yangming said " "There is nothing outside of your heart", that is:
"When you look at this flower in the future, this flower and your heart will be in silence. When you look at this flower, when you understand the color of this flower, you will know that this flower is not outside of your heart."
It can be seen that the ancients said that "coming from the heart" itself contains rich connotations, but many times it is ignored by us.
But in real life, we often hear the opposite statement-hearts are born from each other.
The so-called "hearts regenerate from each other" emphasizes that our inner heart will be drawn and affected by all changes in the outside world, and change for it.
For example, people’s appearance is sometimes hereditary, and it is difficult to change, but people’s personality and conduct are acquired-in fact, a good person, if he is He may also become bad if he is in a bad environment for a long time. Conversely, if a bad person is in a good environment for a long time, then he may also become a good person.This is the principle of "the one who is near Zhu is red, and the one who is near ink is black".
Therefore, from this point of view, all external changes may indeed cause a change in the person's inner heart-the heart grows from each other.
So, as mentioned above, is it born from the heart or from the heart?
In fact, there are many reasonable points whether "phase is born from the heart" or "heart is born from each other".
The implication is that the two are not right or wrong, but they differ from person to person. For some people, "being born from the heart" is more in line with their view of everything. For others, it is easier to explain their words and deeds and the way they know everything.
Why do you say that?
We will continue to discuss from the following two aspects, namely:
1. Phase is born from the heart
The so-called "phase is born from the heart" is actually for those who can get rid of the outside For people who are drawn and influenced by things, such as Wang Yangming in the Ming Dynasty, he advocated that "the law of nature" is in the heart, and there is nothing outside of the heart-we have the function or ability to perceive everything outside before the inside, and everything outside can be presented. Come out and be known to us.
And this is why some people are more suitable for "being born from the heart".
2. The heart is born from each other
Compared with "the heart is born from each other","Hearts from each other" is more in line with the needs of other people.
Because their hearts often change with all changes in the outside world, which leads to many emotions and is deeply disturbed and influenced by them.
So, for such a person, it is "the heart grows from each other".
It can be seen that these two concepts are just concepts, and the difference is people-it is different people that will experience different concepts.
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The information in this article is mainly quoted from "The Analects", "Zhuangzi", "Tanjing", " Daodejing", " Temporary Sitting", "Dream of Red Mansions", "Abandoned Capital", " Life Alone" span Philosophy Records, "Plato Says This", " Shiji", " Wang Yangming Complete Works", " University", " Book of Rites", "Heaven's Way", "Sun Tzu Art of War", "Wang Bi" "Book of Changes"
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