"Wife, I won't be back tonight, I will sleep at your buddy's house" "Coincidentally, I will also sleep at your buddy's house tonight"

Marriage is based on mutual trust. Once betrayal or deception occurs, it will not only bring harm to yourself, but also hurt the person you love most. Derailment is the same as domestic violence. There are only zero and countless times. For whatever reason, betrayal is betrayal, and deception is deception. In a relationship, the most unbearable thing is betrayal and deception. We are not so confident. After experiencing betrayal and deception, the relationship can still be as good as before.

No matter which party is in the marriage, after marriage, the relationship should be treated seriously. The couple should live well and strive to create a better life. However, there will always be some people who feel that their marriage is too boring or have lost their freshness to their husbands or wives after they get married, and have done something wrong step by step.

Netizen He Lin encountered her husband cheating and cheating herself. Since she has married as a husband and wife, betrayal is already a great harm, so why can't you be honest, why cheat? Let us take a look at the story of netizen He Lin.

Because of their love

, they are both college classmates after graduation. It has been four or five years, and both parents are very satisfied, so the marriage of the two was quickly settled.

Zhijun’s parents have already prepared a wedding room for his son and daughter-in-law.He Lin felt that she was very happy, a happy marriage, the support of her parents, and a considerate in-laws.

After getting married, He Lin single-mindedly wanted to live a good life, but she found that some of the bad things Zhijun had done before had not changed. Not only did they not change, but they were even more excessive.

Before getting married, Zhijun often went out to play with a bunch of friends and friends, and sometimes even came back in the middle of the night. He was often drunk and unconscious every time he came back.

is now married. He Lin originally thought he would constrain, but he didn't expect to get worse. Not only did he come back after drinking until midnight, sometimes there was a smell of perfume on his body. He Lin never used perfume herself. Zhijun was like this, He Lin was a little unhappy.

Every time after Zhijun wakes up from alcohol, He Lin complains about her dissatisfaction, but Zhijun always socializes with work and has no way to stop Ho. Lin's mouth.

Finally, after Zhijun drank and quarreled with He Lin when he beat He Lin, He Lin really couldn't bear it and was so angry that she returned to her family's home. Under pressure from his parents, Zhijun couldn't help but went to He Lin's home to beg He Lin to come back, and promised He Lin's parents that he would be restrained in the future. The parents-in-law also said good things to He Lin, saying that Zhijun would change this time, and I beg He Lin to forgive him again.

He Lin didn’t want her parents to worry about herself. Moreover, her parents-in-law treated her like her own daughter. He Lin couldn’t refute their face and promised to give Zhijun another chance as long as he could. Live your life well and don't care about it anymore.

In the period after that, Zhijun did what he said, and on the surface he was more settled, but his heart was not as honest as he was on the surface. He is waiting for the opportunity.

Zhijun also felt wronged in his heart. Originally, Zhijun was not a person who was willing to stay at home honestly. In addition to drinking and socializing, he felt that He Lin not only did not understand him and did not understand him, but instead I also tried to find fault with him, because I made a big quarrel with him because of a small matter. Didn’t I go home late, didn’t I just drank some wine, it was not to make money? As for this, I made myself a big man There is no face at all.

Zhijun got more and more angry. Taking advantage of He Lin's return to her family, he called his good brother Liu Qing to drink secretly.

was aggrieved in his heart, coupled with the effect of alcohol, in a place like a bar, Zhijun couldn't hold back and cheated on his marriage. Although he regretted it afterwards, when he thought of the comfort he could not get from He Lin, an outside girl could comfort him. Zhijun still felt warm in his heart. In this way, Zhijun began to start with this young girl. It was a date, and a sneaky extramarital affair began.

At first, Zhijun only dared to date that girl secretly.Until one day I was planning to spend the night, I made up a reason to deceive He Lin, "My wife, I won't go back tonight. Tomorrow weekend, I will have dinner at Liu Qing's house tonight and have a drink. It's too late and I won't go back."

"You sleep at Liu Qing's house. Where is his wife Liu Qing?" He Lin asked. Although Zhijun was drunk every time before, he could find his home every time. It was the first time to spend the night outside. He Lin had to ask carefully.

"Wife Liu Qing is back to her natal house. Today, I will be home with him. Don't worry." Zhijun had already thought of an excuse.

Zhijun said that, He Lin couldn't disagree, after all, Zhijun did well during this period, so he went with him.

However, in the days to come, it seems that Zhijun does not come back at night more and more times.

I either drank with Liu Qing at night and slept at Liu Qing’s house, or played games with Liu Qing’s all night. In a month, I went home very few times at night.

He Lin didn't care too much at the beginning. After all, Liu Qing is not an outsider, but their university classmates. Liu Qing and her husband are also very iron brothers, but her husband always stays with others. It’s not an issue at home, I also talked about it with Zhijun.Zhijun said that he is usually under pressure at work, and he finds friends to drink, chat, and relax by playing games. He Lin is really hard to say.

It was a coincidence that when He Lin was visiting the supermarket, she happened to ran into Liu Qing’s wife. After greeting each other, He Lin talked about Zhijun’s staying at Liu Qing’s house during this time, and Playing games is to eat and sleep again, I am embarrassed.

Unexpectedly, Liu Qing’s wife looked puzzled and said, “Your family loyalists must have not been to my house for a long time. Liu Qing has been on business for several months. Who will play games for the volunteers? "

He Lin immediately reacted, and smiled awkwardly: "That should be my memory. You see that you took so many things. I'll help you send them back together, just like me. It's been a long time since I went to your house."

He Lin came to Liu Qing's house.

He Lin received a call from her husband Zhijun as soon as she sat down. Zhijun said, "My wife, I am not going home tonight. I live with my buddy Liu Qing's house." After listening to Zhijun's words , He Lin smiled and said: "Coincidentally, I am also staying at your buddy's house tonight."He hesitated and said: "Wife, what are you kidding?" "I didn't make a joke with you, Liu Qing has been abroad for several months, I don't think you know."

listen At this point, Zhijun on the other end of the phone didn't say anything. Knowing that his secret had been discovered by He Lin, he hurriedly hung up the phone and went home.

After Zhijun returned home, his parents and He Lin's parents were looking at Zhijun with disappointed eyes. He Lin sat aside, and Zhijun approached and took a look. The divorce agreement on the table was very eye-catching. Now, regret is no longer useful.

Zhijun didn’t want to ruin his marriage, he just wanted to find something new outside of marriage. Maybe one day, he knew he was going home after he had enough play, but he ignored it. He Lin would not stand in place and wait for her. A normal woman, if she were to accept repeated betrayals and deceptions, even though he regretted it afterwards, he had known it for a long time, so why bother in the first place.

In a marriage, no matter what the last resort, cheating is unforgivable. Once there is betrayal and deception, the relationship will not last. Whether it is regret or atonement, the harm brought to the other party is irreparable.

Marriage is loyal. Two people who love each other have gone hand in hand for the rest of their lives in the blessing of many relatives and friends. Since they have promised, why can’t they do it?Even if you don't love it in the end, don't hurt it. It hurts the person closest to you. In the end, it hurts yourself.

Today's topic:

If you were Lin He, what would you do if you faced the betrayal and deception of your husband?

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