Marriage requires loyalty and requires two people to be responsible for the marriage. If only one person is working hard, and the other person only wants to enjoy or even deceive, then how can the marriage continue, and finally it can only come to an end.
However, some people don’t understand this truth, and they always feel that marriage is a choice. Whether they choose to be loyal to marriage or unfaithful to marriage, it is all based on their own minds. But marriage must be treated seriously, because this is a choice that concerns one's life events, and in this life event, there is another person's participation.
It is precisely because of this that we have to keep marriage in our hearts, and if we choose marriage, we must take on the responsibilities in the marriage. Couples are considerate and understanding each other is one aspect. Keeping the duty of marriage and keeping the bottom line of being a wife or husband is always the foundation of marriage. If you can't do both of these things, then don't choose to get married and don't hurt others.
Netizen Xue Qin chose to cheat because of loneliness. Although he returned to his family later, the mistakes he made were there, and a late-night circle of friends also turned all this out and was finally ruined. The marriage of Xue Qin. Let's take a look at her story.
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was also a hometown of Xue Qin in the university.An excellent person in his own right. So when two people came together, everyone around them was blessed.
After graduating from university, Chen Yang proposed to Xue Qin. The scene of the proposal was completely arranged according to Xue Qin’s wishes. It was as romantic as a fairy tale. Xue Qin received the blessings of the people around him. After Chen Yang's ring, she became Chen Yang's fiancee.
Later, Chen Yang's family also accepted all the marriage conditions of Xue Qin, bought a wedding house worth 2 million yuan, added Xue Qin's name, and gave 300,000 yuan as a gift. It is reasonable to be treated so solemnly, Xue Qin should be completely satisfied, and live with Chen Yang in peace.
However, after getting married, Xue Qin still only thinks of herself, because Xue Qin has always been surrounded by many people. So after marriage, Xue Qin only enjoys Chen Yang's thoughtfulness. He doesn't go out to work and has a nanny to do all the things at home. Xue Qin only enjoys leisure, and takes the living expenses given by Chen Yang to go out extravagantly every few days.
But in this way, Chen Yang must work harder to support Xue Qin to lead such a luxurious life. After all, Chen Yang cannot always reach out and ask his parents for money. However, as soon as he was busy with work, there was less time to accompany Xue Qin, and Xue Qin was also dissatisfied.
However, things always have priorities. For the sake of life, Chen Yang can only leave his wife at home. Xue Qin is unbearable and lonely. If Chen Yang does not accompany her, Xue Qin goes out to find his friends and classmates, and some wealthy second-generation generations who have pursued Xue Qin still can't forget her.
slowly,A wave of people surrounded Xue Qin. They knew that Xue Qin was already married, but since Xue Qin didn't say anything, they certainly wouldn't mention it. The people around him were so attentive and staying by his side regardless of time. Under the double contrast, the balance in Xue Qin's heart gradually tilted.
In the end, Xue Qin did not withstand the temptation and fell into the arms of a rich second-generation handsome guy.
almost returned to the family after being found out
two people often go out with Chen Yang on their backs, because the rich second generation is also very satisfied with the financial conditions. Qin's vanity. In this way, Xue Qin felt that not only was there someone to accompany him, but he also saved Chen Yang a lot of money.
The two have been together for a year. When Chen Yang is not at home, Xue Qin can't wait to let the rich second generation pick him up. She felt that this was a brave pursuit of her own feelings, and she didn't want to divorce Chen Yang, which was not considered cheating.
But after all, paper can’t hold the fire. Xue Qin, who used to spend a lot of money, can now save money. Although most people think that his wife is sensible, Chen Yang knows Xue Qin is not such a person. After observing for a period of time, Chen Yang was even more surprised to find that although the money he gave to Xue Qin did not change, the luxury goods that Xue Qin took home were not missing.
Chen Yang is not stupid. Naturally, he will think about people outside Xue Qin.And Chen Yang didn't want to have a showdown with Xue Qin directly, he wanted to investigate silently.
One day Chen Yang cancelled the original overtime work, but when he returned home, he found that Xue Qin was not there. Chen Yang called Xue Qin directly. After a long time, Xue Qin picked it up.
"Why aren't you at home? I won't work overtime today, where are you?"
Chen Yang frowned as if he heard Xue Qin's deaf voice. A man was talking to Xue Qin.
"You won't work overtime, but I made an appointment with my girlfriend to the bar today. I may not go back tonight. You can go to bed earlier."
img3span p0span1 Xue Qin quickly hung up the phone, which made Chen Yang even more suspicious. Because Xue Qin bought his mobile phone, Chen Yang went online to check the location of Xue Qin's mobile phone and drove directly to the bar.
But because of Chen Yang's phone call, Xue Qin really called his girlfriend, and Chen Yang found nothing in the end. However, Chen Yang frightened Xue Qin this time. Xue Qin didn't dare to mess around anymore, and hurriedly broke contact with the rich second generation and began to stay at home with peace of mind.
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Xue Qin returned to the family in time,Afterwards, Chen Yang's investigation found nothing, and he gradually settled down, thinking that Xue Qin might have just received a few gifts from friends, so he didn't think much about it.
But this suffered Xue Qin. The marriage was preserved, but the days went back to the past. In addition, Xue Qin did not dare to go out at night, sometimes staying at home. I feel very boring.
Chen Yang also reflected on himself and tried to minimize work with Xue Qin, but it was not effective. In addition, Chen Yang was promoted, not only had to work overtime, but also had to travel frequently. Although he had to comfort Xue Qin before leaving, Xue Qin was obviously still unhappy.
This time Chen Yang went on a business trip again. Xue Qin was tossing and turning on the bed alone, thinking about his happy days, but he didn't dare to commit it again. Later, I really couldn't sleep, so I took out my phone and posted a circle of friends.
"My husband is on a business trip, and I'm scared to be alone."
Actually Xue Qin was just bored and didn't think so much at all, so he slowly fell asleep after posting.
When she woke up the next day and looked again, Xue Qin was stunned. Because the Moments of Friends did not block anyone, so my lover Fu Erdai commented below.
"Baby,Come to me if you are afraid! "
And what made Xue Qin desperate was that Chen Yang sent himself a WeChat message in the early morning. It was a photo of divorce agreement . Xue Qin immediately called Chen Yang, no All were hung up with one exception.
Xue Qin could only sit at home and wait for Chen Yang to come back, but all he waited for was Chen Yang’s divorce. Xue Qin still wanted to struggle. However, what I did this time was to really do what I had derailed, and everything was gone.
When he got married, Xue Qin didn't get anything out of it. After a divorce lawsuit, Xue Qin got nothing. The eight-year marriage was buried in vain by himself, and Xue Qin was helpless even if he regretted it.
In fact, as long as Xue Qin pays attention to himself and keeps the bottom line of marriage, he can always have a happy married life. However, Xue Qin Even after getting married, even if you have a husband and marriage that others envy, you still choose to cheat because of your momentary loneliness. If you make a mistake, you can’t be erased, and you will lose your marriage after all.
Derailment can never be forgiven, and it can never be forgiven. There are always people who feel that as long as they insist on not divorcing, there is definitely room for recovery. However, the betrayed people have long lost their feelings in their hearts, except for divorce. , They don’t think about anything else. Because they are the ones who are hurt, and no one can stand someone who is unfaithful to them.
Marriage is never a trivial matter.Although life after marriage is not necessarily like a fairy tale, it is still necessary to let people abide by the rules and keep the bottom line! If you simply pursue yourself and pursue true love, you can throw away the responsibilities in marriage. What is the meaning of marriage? Choosing to form a family with a person should be loyal to him and loyal to marriage, so that he can keep his happiness for the rest of his life.
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Do you have someone like Xue Qin by your side?
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