Introduction
Today I am discussing for you a 50-year-old aunt who remarried a 30-year-old young guy. The aunt told me: "With this guy, I have a very happy life, and what he did makes me feel very much. Surprise, so I like to be with him very much.”
In principle, an older woman can’t be happy with a younger woman, but why does this aunt think she is very happy? Let’s Let's take a look at her story, maybe after reading it, we will understand everything.
Aunt Yang/50 years old
I am 50 years old this year. I originally had a marriage, but then I really couldn’t stand the unmotivated look of my ex-husband, so I chose to end the marriage. After the divorce, I finally got free. I don't need to raise his parents anymore and I don't have to make money to gamble with him every day, so divorce is the most correct choice for me.
Actually, I didn’t want to marry him at the beginning, but my parents were very patriarchal and greedy for money. For those thousands of dollars, they sold me to him. I was very angry at the time, although there were a lot of them back then. Even if you marry a daughter, you don’t have to pay a bride price. Even if it costs you a few hundred yuan, if someone is willing to pay a few thousand yuan to marry a wife, that person is really generous.
So my parents cruelly married me to such a man in order to get those thousands of dollars to marry my brother.
After getting married, I thought this man was rich and motivated. I also wanted to try to accept him, but I didn't expect that he was a gambler and he was particularly unmotivated. Those thousands of dollars, He won the bet. If his parents hadn't urged him to marry, he wouldn't necessarily marry his wife, so he had no choice but to marry me.
After getting married, he immediately asked me to have children. At that time, I didn’t want to. He saw me being so stubborn and couldn’t do anything about me. Later, after living for a few years, he saw that his in-laws urged us every day. The child, in desperation, I had to give birth to a son in their family. After having a son, I was very stressed, and then I had to leave the child with my in-laws.Go out to work to earn money.
As a result, I didn’t expect that at this time, my in-laws were sick, and they had to pay a lot of medical expenses every month. I didn’t want to care about them, but my husband was not self-motivated, so I had to work hard to make money to raise children and treat my in-laws. sick.
In order to earn more money, I was exhausted every day to pay, but I was alone in earning money every day, and I was also very tired. After several years of persistence, I really couldn’t keep going. I felt that I The pressure is too much, and the whole body is much worse, and the days are still so long. If I keep going like this, I will really go crazy, so I really don’t want to do it anymore.
Then I chose to divorce. After the divorce, I lived a life as a person. Since I was single, I have never been so wronged and the pressure is not that great.
At that time, I also heard about my career and my life became better and better, so I don’t have to worry about having no money to support my children.
Later, as time passed by, at this time, I had reached middle age, and my children had grown up, so I no longer need to worry about their affairs.
And it’s time for me to lighten my work and enjoy life, but I find that since I’m not so busy, I’ve been bored every day, and every night, I’m very lonely, and then I go on a blind date. , Want to find a soul mate.
But I found out that during the blind date, I didn’t meet a suitable person, and then I dispelled the idea. At this time, a male neighbor moved in next door to me. He was only 30 years old. This man is special. She is attentive and always greets me when she sees me going out.
Later slowly, the two of us are also familiar with each other and understand that he lives alone, and every time I make something delicious, I will share it with him, treating him like a younger brother treat.
But what I didn’t expect was that after getting along, he developed feelings for me and took good care of me. Sometimes he would come to my house to help me with the housework. I was very touched to see this man giving so much.But I don't like him because he is too young to be my son, and he is not the type I like. Although he is very handsome, I can't accept a man at such a young age.
But he has been pestering me and hinted to me several times that he wanted me to be with him, but I ignored him. In order to prevent him from thinking about me, I avoided him several times.
But then something happened and I was directly with him. I came back from work that day and I just wanted to open the door and fainted.
When I woke up, I found that I was already in the hospital, and the person taking care of me was the young guy. I was very moved because this guy saved me, in order to thank him After he recovered from his illness, I also invited him to a meal.
Then he confessed to me again while I invited him to the meal. At that moment, I did not refuse him again, but chose to be with him.
After being together, he treats me very well and takes good care of me. No matter what I am sick or whatever, he will not despise me, he will always treat me, even though he met a young man together for the first time. Nope, I was said not to be serious by others, but he really loves me.
No matter what I do, I will take into account my feelings. It does not come with a purpose for me. I treat my heart and lungs every day. I am particularly moved by his behavior. I also feel that meeting her is a very important thing. Happy things.
And every holiday he will make me some small surprises, and then after we were together for half a year, the two of them also received a certificate of remarriage.
After receiving the certificate, he held a wedding for me without my knowledge. At that time, I was very moved. Moreover, the things we two were together were on the news and got a lot of people. Although there are many people who disagree with us being together, I think it doesn’t matter how old the two people are as long as they are in love. Life will be at ease.
Many people ask me how it feels to be with him? I want to say very happy,It was also pleasantly surprised. Although we were very inappropriate, for me, I felt very happy.
Concluding remarks
Here I also wish all the elderly can find their love, but I still hope that the elderly should not find a husband who is too young, because not everyone is so lucky, so still Find people of the same age and stay together a little better, so that you can avoid being made irresponsible remarks, and you can live the happiness yourself.
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