First of all, I would like to ask everyone a question, what do you think of a full-time wife?
Speaking of full-time wives, I think of the writer Beauvoir once commented on full-time wives in "Second Sex": "There is hardly any hard work, which can be compared to the forever repetitive housework belt. Coming torture-clean things become dirty, dirty things are cleaned again. Day after day, week after week."
day after day doing boring and intractable housework, just as full-time One disadvantage of the wife. In fact, the biggest disadvantage of being a full-time wife is that when there is a change in your marriage, you may not be able to afford it, and you may fall into a dilemma.
You want to leave, but you don’t want to continue, but how do you feed yourself? Haven't entered the workplace for many years, have you found a job? Is it competent for the job?
You want to fight for custody. You don't want your children to follow your unreliable father, and you don't want your children. But how do you support your children?
The writer Tang Zhifeng once said: “Behind the fearlessness of a person in a marriage, it must be another person’s constant humbleness without dignity.”
, if a woman has no financial ability, she might be strong 15. It will give men a feeling of "I'm sorry for her, anyway, she can't support herself, she must not dare to divorce" feeling, and encourage them to live up to your arrogance.
What's wrong? There is a kind of divorce! Just because you look like a yellow-faced woman and you don't have a job, I will definitely starve to death if you leave. When the time comes, don't come and beg me. "After being discovered by his wife that he had extra-marital love, Mr. Luo not only didn't feel ashamed, but humiliated his wife justly, just because his wife is a full-time wife.
01. There is a yellow face at home. , I don’t want to go home more and more;
Ten years ago, under the introduction of relatives, Mr. Luo met his wife, Ms. Hu. After getting along for half a year, the two people feel good about each other, coupled with the matchmaking of both parents, It became a husband and wife. In the third year of marriage, Ms. Hu gave birth to a daughter for Mr. Luo.
Due to the serious traditional concept of parents, in-laws do not approve of daughter-in-law to go out to work, so Ms. Hu, who originally worked in the city, married After that, I gave up the idea of continuing to work, and lived a life of being a husband and a child, and serving in-laws at home.
"The reason why I don't want to divorce is because she is quite capable of work and cannot be separated from her at home. When my parents were sick, she served them. While taking care of my parents in the hospital, she cooked for me and my daughter when she went home.
However, with the passage of time, Ms. Hu, who needs to take care of the housework and the elderly, has no time and energy to dress up and maintain, becomes a yellow-faced woman, who looks more than a dozen older than Mr. Luo Years old, this made Mr. Luo less and less interested in his wife.
"5 years ago, my wife gave me another son. Although my parents wished to have a grandson, her appearance was even better. Crotch, as long as I see her, I have no appetite and don't want to go home. "
02. "It's okay, she dare not leave you",Because of these words, I took the step of betraying the marriage;
Before taking the step of betraying the marriage, Mr. Luo had hesitated because he did not want to lose his current family.
"Daughter is 7 years old, well-behaved, sensible, smart and lovely, very caring, son is naughty, very lively, relatives and friends saw that I have such a lovely pair of children, there is such a filial and hardworking and capable My wife, I really envy me, and I don’t want to lose my family. Otherwise, who will do the housework? Who will take care of my parents? What should I do with my children?" The colleague cheered him up: "My wife has a job, I am not afraid, what are you afraid of?"
The reason why this colleague is not afraid of his wife turning his face is because he believes that his wife is reluctant to let her son become a child of a single-parent family. The son is his wife's weakness and his confidence. Compared to him, Mr. Luo has more confidence that "he will starve to death if his wife leaves him".
Finally, Mr. Luo took this step and stabbed the virtuous wife in the back. However, he did not hide it for too long and was discovered by his wife, so the matter got serious.
03. She would rather give up the custody of the two children, rather than fulfill my dream;
"I am just playing with her, looking for excitement, and not taking it seriously, you care about it. Don’t worry, you will always be my only wife."
Faced with his wife’s crying, Mr. Luo first assured him that he would not get divorced and would not want his wife. Seeing that Ms. Hu still refused to give up, Mr. Luo felt I got bored, stopped talking to Ms. Hu, and continued to fool around outside.
What Mr. Luo didn't expect was that Huang Lian Po, who could not support herself in his own eyes, actually proposed for divorce.
"You haven't gone out to work for ten years, and you left me. Where did you get the money to support yourself? You wait to starve to death!"
"I am alive or not, it's none of your business." , Staying next to a man who betrayed me, I’m better than dead."
"If you get a divorce, you should get out of it alone. Don’t want to get custody of your children." The husband threatened his wife with the custody of his children. The wife was silent for a while, and finally said: "Okay, I can give up the custody of my children."
Mr. Luo's threats didn't work. My wife does not want to divorce. Give him a chance. Ms. Hu asked him indifferently: "My lover accompanies you to eat, drink and have fun. I serve 4 people at home. Your dreams are really good. You want to sit and enjoy the blessing of all people, but unfortunately, you I don't have this life, and I won't be with you."
Since Ms. Hu has evidence in hand, Mr. Luo was afraid that she would make the matter worse, so he had to agree to a divorce. Now, more than three months have passed since their divorce. According to people around, Ms. Hu became a babysitter when she entered the city, and she did not "starve to death" as Mr. Luo said.
As for Mr. Luo, the days of good wives and young children are gone forever. Parents need him to take care of them, and their children need him to support them. The life is very sad.
"I want to remarry her. I promise that I won't be in trouble again. I only ask her to give me a chance. She should come back even if it is for my children!"
Mr. Luo How to find Ms. Hu, I don’t know, but I want to say that since Ms. Hu would rather give up the custody of her children and divorce her ex-husband, how could she agree to remarry? Jump in the same fire pit again, which woman would be so stupid?
04. The most stupid behavior of a woman is to give up work for the family.
Sophie Marceau once said: "The saddest thing about a woman is not getting old, but the self-lost in marriage and flat life. Women can get old, but they must be old enough to be graceful, and never let marriage turn a woman. Pass away and lose its luster."
As the saying goes, a scholar dies for a confidant, and a woman is a pleasing one. Lechery is the nature of a man. Even if your husband loves you very much and is not a good woman, you want to see it. You dress up nicely to give him a bit of face.
Besides, women can also tolerate themselves! Dress yourself up better and you will feel more comfortable.
Yishu also said: "Never underestimate the coldness of men when they break up. The stupidest thing for women is to give up work for the so-called family. If you want to be independent, you must first be financially independent, at least At the end of the song, you still have the ability to support yourself and let yourself continue to live with dignity!"
Remember,Don't give him the illusion that you can't live without me, and don't give him a chance to humiliate you. Money is our lifeblood and something we must have to live. Therefore, no matter how much love you have, don't give your lifeblood to others.
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Today’s topic: Do you think Ms. Hu will agree to remarry? Welcome to share your views in the comments section.
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