Zhang Ailing once said: "You can use whatever method you want to get love, but keeping love requires wisdom."
agrees.
It is very easy to want someone to love you, but it is not easy to want someone to love you all the time. In other words, it is not easy to maintain a relationship.
Falling in love is easy and difficult to stay together. In the world of love, maintaining a relationship is the most difficult thing. If you are not careful, the heart that stays for you may leave you forever.
all say that women’s hearts are needles in the bottom of the sea. In the eyes of men, women are always elusive. They can’t understand each other’s thoughts and cannot guess the other’s intentions. For this reason, many men feel that as long as they take the initiative, they can make A woman can never do without him.
Taking the initiative is not a bad thing, but many unruly initiatives will make women bored with you.
Not only men, but women also need freshness, some untimely initiative, once the initial touch is lost, what is left is bored, leaving will become something that will happen sooner or later.
In fact, as long as you master certain skills in anything, you can get twice the result with half the effort. In the world of emotions, if you can achieve these two points, it is difficult for a woman to leave you.
01: Keep improving yourself
As the saying goes, only if you have the ability to love yourself, you have the capacity to love others.
Not to mention whether you will fall in love with others, but what is certain is that when you are shining, there will be many people who will love you.
Whether a person is loved or not, the key lies in whether you are worthy of being loved, and when you become better and better in the eyes of others, you will only be more and more worthy of being loved.
However, many people after harvesting a love,You will fall into love, unable to extricate yourself in a romantic and sweet life, and put many meaningful things aside.
The once high-spirited boy never returned, replaced by a boy who was trapped by love.
It is not a bad thing to have a vigorous love when I was young, and it is not a bad thing to become a boy trapped by love, but those who are trapped by love often don't know where there is a problem with that relationship.
In fact, after the love period, the passion fades and only the bleak reality is left. Both parties will re-examine the relationship and think about the future direction of the relationship. If a woman can't see the appearance that you made her heart touched, Then there will be a huge psychological gap, thinking about whether this relationship is necessary to go on.
For women, men who work hard and motivated are always extraordinarily attractive, and being with him will make them feel at ease, but if a man no longer improves himself, he will just stand still, and the woman will no longer do it for him. Heartbeat, waiting to save enough to be disappointed, leaving is inevitable.
If you can constantly improve yourself and maintain your gleaming image in the heart of the other person, it is difficult for a woman to leave you. Although she is not riding a white horse, she is still the prince in her heart.
02: Keep a certain distance
Men have a strong possessive desire for things they love, but in many cases, the reason why women leave men is the man’s possessive desire. , Being forced by a man too tightly.
Lovers, although they are the most intimate relationship in the world, everyone needs their own space. If you don’t leave any space for the other person, what the other person can feel is often not love, but oppression. It's a resistance eager to escape.
Appropriate possessiveness will make women happy because men care about them. Excessive possessiveness will only backfire. Women will treat men’s love as selfish and only seek for their own enjoyment, without taking into consideration the other’s feelings. .
keep a certain distance,It's not because you don't love, but because you love too much, that you are willing to put the other person's happiness in an important position. How can such affectionate people not see it?
In this world, no matter what, prosperity must decline is an inevitable process, even if you dig out your heart and lungs for a person, you can’t wait to hold all your sincerity in front of the other , but in a relationship it is pressing step by step. , Ignoring the feelings of the other party, ignoring the true needs of the other party, feelings will only decrease instead of increasing.
No matter how close the relationship is, people should also know how to keep a certain distance, otherwise, excessive caring can easily become pressure and make the other person feel depressed and uneasy.
If you can keep a certain distance, you can not only let a woman see your affection, but also let a woman feel your understanding for her, it is difficult for a woman to leave you.
How to make it difficult for a woman to leave you is how to maintain a relationship. Do the above two points to be .
When running a relationship, you can’t just focus on your own feelings, in the name of "love you", but not do what your lover should do.
If you can let a woman see your deep affection for her, see what you have done for her, and see your compromise with her, she will feel that she did not choose the wrong person, she will feel at ease, and it will be difficult to leave you over time.
Of course, is willing to feel your love attentively, and is willing to stay by your side for this, because you have you in their hearts, and those who really want to leave you, no matter how you express their love, it will not help, letting go the best choice.
I am Aya, the writer of heart-warming emotions, how lucky it is to meet you in this life! Pay attention, let's grow knowledge together!
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