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I don’t know if you have a goal you are heading for at this moment? Or, at least in the past, you have steadfastly pursued a goal. Maybe through hard work, I got the desired result, maybe, the result is not satisfactory.
As the saying goes: "The unsatisfactory life is almost impossible." Everyone has experienced unsatisfactory things. Although common, it is not universal. No matter how many times it has been experienced, it always brings troubles to people. The troubles are revealed from the ups and downs.
When you are in good times, you are often not obsessed with distinguishing between the "good" and the "bad" of things; and once you become unwilling to a certain "unsuccessful", you will be attracted to the "bad". Obsessed with "why".
The "why" that we cherish is our "can't ask for it".
"Unable to ask" things bring us many regrets, especially after all the efforts have been made, but in exchange for nothing. At that time, rational analysis often did not work, and the negative emotions that could not be obtained were more affected by the inner situation.
At that time, you don't need some truth to recognize reality, it's just emotionally unacceptable. After all, you have ever made the act of seeking, it is the use and loss of mental energy.
However, are you really attrition? Before you have understood the "laws of the universe" and "how to get it right", let's put aside your old knowledge and come to understand the truth of "unquestionable" with me.
The law of the universe
There is a saying in "Easy Travel": " has no one else,Gods are ineffective, saints are nameless . "
This sentence is about people who live to the extreme, conform to nature and surpass themselves; gods do not pursue meritorious services; saints do not seek fame.
These three kinds of people are the most cultivated and perfect in Zhuangzi's ideals. A moral person. While praising the noble moral character, he is actually telling us the wisdom of letting go.
Those who are noble, can let go of the fame and fortune that we think about day and night, they admire not only It is the sacred character that transcends the secular, which is "water is good for all things without fighting", but truly understands the laws of nature, and understands that "to release" is to "take" , and "to give up" is to "get"
"The Tao Te Ching" says: " The Way of Heaven, there is more damage but not enough ." Heaven will not tolerate the existence of more or less, TA is a balance, always follow the balance The law of operation. When you lose something, one day, that loss will give you another face . People who are caring will definitely be aware of this.
In past life situations, what you have experienced is the so-called "Good things" and "bad things" always appear alternately. At most, there will be more good things in a period of time, and more bad things in another period of time. You will never experience good or bad things all the time. This is the curve of life development.
Our lives follow There is a rhythmical fluctuation trajectory running up and down, just like an electrocardiogram, moving forward rhythmically. If you map it to the "gains" and "losses" that occur in your life, then the upward fluctuations are your "gains." , The downward fluctuation is your “loss.” In the end, your gains and losses will cancel each other, and you will be on the horizontal line between the two fluctuations, maintaining a balance.
Whether it is in the biological world or in the natural world Whatever,They all operate in such a unified rhythm while interacting with each other, that is, around the balance of "one", doing work cyclically. Zhuangzi called this ", heaven and earth live side by side with me, and everything is one with me ". means "I" and everything in nature are in a unified relationship.
This view is also the core of the Taoist " harmony between man and nature ".
When you realize that "I" and everything in the world are "one", you will understand that you have never lost something, and all you have given will always remain in that "one". The way the heaven and the earth work is to go round and round.
is the so-called "". The existence, difficulty, and length are all complementary and mutually transforming relationships. "Good" and "bad" are also in constant transformation. They correspond to each other, namely "yin" and "yang".
"Yin and Yang" constitute the "duality" of this world. The duality transforms and moves with each other at all times, forming a cyclical operation mode of things (rotating Tai Chi diagram).
is like a closed circle you draw on paper. This circle is the uniform appearance of the universe, which is "one". You are the little dot that is almost invisible in this circle. No matter what kind of thoughts or behaviors you make, you can't escape the "one" in this circle. Your thoughts and actions will be continuously transmitted to the outside world, carried, relayed, and rotated in the circle by other media, and finally returned to yourself when the time is right.
This is the operating mechanism of the balance of the heavens and the law of the universe.
If you understand this law, you will know that is not absolutely "good", and there is no absolute "bad".They can be transformed into each other, and they are all feedbacks of your thoughts and actions in a certain period of time in the moment, not complete truth. Including the persistent "pleasure" in your heart.
How to correctly obtain
People think that they are in this world and are very small. I think that even without you, the world is still functioning normally, and my influence on the world is very low. No matter how much wealth, prestige, and happy or painful life you have in front of you, you will be "empty" after death. The flesh is turned into ashes and returned to the dust, which means that "life does not bring death and does not take it away."
In a sense, this understanding is an interpretation of "letting go", that is, a person does not have to be attached to anything in his life, because he can take nothing with him after death. But it is completely negative.
Many people simply give up the idea of striving and fall into the quagmire of repeated misses, and their lives are in a mess; or they think that it is wrong to have "seeking" in their hearts, because they are producing attachments and failing to follow nature. This is great misunderstanding.
As we said above, there is no absolute in everything. The action of "seeking" is not absolutely good or bad. It is like saying that a sword is not safe and dangerous. The good and the bad, the safety and the danger, all depend on how people use it.
Is wealth itself bad? Why does it become bad in the hands of some people?
The recent incident of Zhao Wei being blocked by the entire network once again revealed the speculation crimes she once committed in the capital circle. Behind this is the evil result of greed.
If people's greed for money has no bottom line and no moral standards to regulate and restrain, people will have delusions. Once the sweetness of an adventure is gained, he will continue to take risks, repeatedly taking risks, recklessly, and eventually accumulating into a great evil, and the ship capsized is just a matter of moments.
"Seeing him getting up a tall building, seeing him banqueting guests, seeing his building collapsed". In this real world, our thoughts and behaviors, whether for good or bad, are more ferocious and swift, and the faster they will be fulfilled back to ourselves. The reason why Zhao Wei has come to this end is the rapid formation of greed.
Her greed is unrestrained pursuit. Intemperance is evil, and feedback to herself is evil.
Only by using the correct method of seeking can we realize the wishes in our hearts and obtain good results. That's what I mentioned above, following the laws of the universe. As long as you conform to this law, you will be able to realize your wish.
To do this, there is a very important premise, which is to get rid of obsessions and delusions.
In the process of seeking for people, the biggest problem is obsession and delusion. These two thoughts are powerful evil thoughts, which derive strong negative psychology and emotions such as control, possession, greed, hatred, destruction, pain, and so on.
After some people have suffered major setbacks, such as love-breaking betrayal, family changes, company bankruptcy, etc., because they can't bear the painful emotions and anger for a while, they have strong obsessions and delusions.
For example, a girlfriend who has been in love for many years runs away with a rich boss. He is sad and painful. He feels betrayed because he has no money. What to do then, he vowed to become a rich man, to live a better life, and to make the other party regret it. Since then, he has worked hard to make money with the desire to make the other party regret and embarrassment.
Or someone else’s company went bankrupt due to mismanagement, and began to resent, thinking, why does the company I manage go bankrupt, and Wang Er’s company is going smoothly? God, why is it so unfair? From now on he will fight with this kind of strong resentment. Hatred has become the driving force for his career development.
If the above two people fail to change their minds in time and create a positive motivation, they can clearly foresee that they will inevitably be hindered in the process of moving forward.why? Because they don't understand the laws of the operation of things and fail to follow the laws of the universe to operate their lives. No matter how positive their behavior in the future looks, because they are actually sending out evil thoughts, what they give back to themselves is always evil, and the specific manifestations are full of difficulties.
Because they don't realize that what they are pursuing is not the good wishes of wealth accumulation and career development, but the evil thoughts of revenge and hatred. Struggling with such evil thoughts, even if they have other positive forces to offset them (the law of cosmic balance), it will be difficult to maintain long-term stable development. You may make money for a while, or encounter new opportunities and expand new customers, but you will soon be lost by evil thoughts.
We see those people who became rich overnight, or who have been rich for many years, but their wealth disappeared in a flash, it is because of this that they become impoverished.
The ups and downs of life, few people want to experience, everyone wants a smooth and stable life, but it always fluctuates in the ups and downs. Most of us live in such fluctuations.
Thoughts large and small appear and operate in our minds. There are good thoughts and bad thoughts, as well as many distracting thoughts. The greater the gap between these thoughts that cancel each other out, the more extreme events that correspond to the experiences that appear in life.
To remove obsessions and delusions is actually to reduce those extreme events and make life stable and smooth. This process is also a process of learning to let go. Only by knowing how to let go can we get better.
To let go is not to give up, but not to deliberately seek for gains, not to cling to the immediate pros and cons, but to move towards "doing nothing."
The so-called " do nothing but do nothing" tell us that you are doing nothing if you do nothing. This is the way of nature revealed by the laws of the universe.
Many people think that this view of Lao Tzu is a passive escape from the world in order to seek personal (ego) peace.This is a huge misunderstanding. In fact, "wuwei" also has the premise, that is, we ourselves need to feel that we are in a sufficiently complete state ("the harmony between man and nature").
Only when you feel the fullness of your individual life inside, you can truly get all the abundance you want.
Because you are aware of your completeness, and there is no sense of want, there is no desire to ask for it. You no longer focus on seeking out the outside world, but concentrate on feeling the abundance of the individual. The thoughts you send out are continuous, encompassing the abundance and happiness of all things in the world.
Under the influence of this kind of abundance thought, everything you do is also abundance. What the world gives back to you will also be a life of abundance, fulfillment and happiness that echoes with your inner world.
Summarize the content of this part. The correct way of seeking is to get rid of obsessions and delusions, and follow the way of nature. This process is the process of letting go. Letting go refers to "inaction", and the premise of inaction is inner completion.
can be summed up in one sentence: The correct way to seek is to pursue inner perfection.
Looking back at the topic we shared today, "What you can't ask for is what you have", this sentence is true and true.
Those "unquestionable" you think are all manifestations of inner scarcity. When you feel that you are in a state of deprivation, your thoughts are deficient, and your actions are deficient, and the external environment will give back to you the deprivation. This lack is what you have.
On the other hand, everything you "cannot ask for" actually belongs to you. Because your life is one with all things, you are already Consummation. Consummated you, give out the energy to reach Consummation, make Consummation behaviors, and the same Consummation will give back to you, and you will be able to have everything you want.
So where does Consummation come from? In the coming time, I will share the mysteries with you one by one, and work with you towards the fulfillment and prosperity of life.
【Open inner wisdom,Achieving a fulfilled life]
I am Xiaoyan, and I am a partner who completes the journey of returning home with everyone and realizes the fulfillment of life. Thank you for reading, and welcome to share your thoughts and opinions so that we can grow together.
Wen丨Zhang Shuoyan
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