Wen丨Xixiang Youqing
Time is not long, I hope you will see each other in my words!
Some people say: "Love is a dish, mature love is a delicious delicacy, and immature love is a hot food that pierces the throat."
In my opinion , Not only love, but the person in love is actually a dish. A person who truly loves you is a plate of delicacy; and a person who is falsely insincere is a plate of hot delicacy.
However, most people can’t tell the person in front of them and what kind of dish it is before they have a good taste. They either love the wrong person or miss the person.
In fact, it is not as difficult as you think to find the correct answer for you in the multiple choice questions of love. As long as you feel it with your heart, you can draw conclusions.
When chatting with readers, some readers confided to me: "I am thirty years old this year and I really want to get married, but I am not sure if he really loves me? I am very anxious now, afraid of choosing the wrong person, and also afraid Miss him."
I think many people should have this anxiety, especially before making major decisions, people will suffer from gains and losses, and they are afraid that people around them don't really love themselves.
In fact, if a person really loves you, is it your delicacy, you don’t need to hesitate in your heart. Love is an emotion that cannot be concealed. If you love you, every word and deed are love.
Ximei hopes that you can master the ability to distinguish love, and understand that these three manifestations of people have deep affection for you.
Performance 1: Not only minds you get along with other opposite sexes, but also restrains to give you freedom
Love is an emotion that cannot be shared with others. For someone who loves you like the sea, he will treat you Have a strong possessive desire.
So,In the process of getting along, he very much minds you getting along with other people of the opposite sex. You will find that he always asks who the other party is and what is the relationship with you.
If you go out alone with the opposite sex, he will definitely be angry. He hopes that you can allocate more energy and time to him, fearing that you will be taken away by the opposite sex.
In addition, he is especially sensitive to your ex. If you still contact your ex, or if you keep things from your ex, he will be very jealous and even get angry with you.
But he does not control you unreasonably.
It is said that love is presumptuous, and love is restraint. He has a deep love for you, so he will not ask you to completely cut off contact with the opposite sex, but will give you appropriate freedom.
For example, if you need to contact a certain opposite sex frequently due to work reasons, he will not clamor for you to contact you, but will give you space and swear his sovereignty appropriately.
This is how love goes deep into your bones. When a person has deep affection for you, he will be both jealous and restrained towards you. He will not make you uncomfortable, but will only make you feel his deep love for you.
Performance 2: I always feel that I don’t have enough love for you
"People who love you are afraid of not giving you enough; people who don’t love you are afraid that you want too much."
In a relationship , If the other person has a deep love for you, then he will blatantly favor you, always thinking about how to make you happier and how to help you.
He does not count whether he paid more or you paid more in this relationship. In short, in his eyes, no matter how much love and care he gives you, it is not enough.
You are the most delicate rose in his eyes. He is willing to give everything to provide you with a steady stream of sunshine and nourishment.The happier and prouder he will be to see you drive more beautifully and grow stronger.
You will find that whatever he has delicious, he will leave it to you; if you have spare money at home, you should buy what you need first, and then sell what he needs.
is like a true story I once saw:
men dote on women very much. When the year-end bonus was given, he bought two pieces of clothes. He bought more than 1,000 famous brands for his wife and five for himself. Sixty floor stalls.
When his wife asked him about the price of the clothes, in order to relieve his wife, he did not tell the truth, but said that both clothes were bought in the mall.
It is obvious that a man loves women deeply and deeply. Although his ability is limited, he strives to give women everything he can within his ability.
This is actually the highest state of love. If I love you, I want to give you the best.
Performance 3: Record your experiences with pen and paper
Wang Xiaobo once wrote a book "Love You Like Love Life" for his beloved wife Li Yinhe. The book is full of love poems written by Wang Xiaobo for his lover.
There is a poem like this:
"I am a tacky person. I see the mountains as the mountains, the sea as the sea, and the flowers as the flower. I only see you, the sea of clouds. It began to surge, the river began to surging, the insect’s tiny tentacles scratched the world’s itching. You don’t need to speak, and I and the world and everything rush towards you."
The love of the two of them is the love that many people long for.
After all, in this fast-paced era, it is hard to find a partner who is willing to use pen and paper to record the story between two people and express their love through poetry.
In a relationship, many people don’t want to bother to record their favorite things on their mobile phones.What is the most annoying thing, let alone record it with pen and paper.
This is because very few people are serious about dating a relationship, carefully reviewing the past years of the two people. Most people care about their own needs, but don't give innocent love.
So in a relationship, if a person can treat you so hard, write poems for you, or record your love, record your preferences, it means that he has a deep love for you.
He does not simply need you, but an unforgettable love. You are his soul mate, and every cell of his is trembling for you.
Concluding remarks:
"It is not that there are too few beautiful things in the world, but people lack the eyes to discover beauty."
The same is true for love. Many times, a person has already appeared next to you. People who love you like life, but unfortunately you still don't know that the other person has deep roots in you.
In a lifetime, there are actually only a few people who love themselves deeply. If you miss every time, or don't cherish it, maybe in the end you really can only die alone.
Therefore, in life, we must learn to keep our eyes open and see who is the one who loves you sincerely and whose love is only on the surface.
Remember, your life will be sweet only if you find your plate of delicacies.
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