Peng Hui is the eldest of the family, and there is a 4-year-old younger brother Peng Huahua below. Although the two are not very different in age, the excessive spoiling of Peng Huahua from childhood to eldest made Peng Hui become sensible and introverted.
But even if Peng Hui is sensible, even if he has good academic performance, he has never received a single sentence of praise or recognition from his parents. On the contrary, Peng Huahua, who has been naughty, can always be taken care of by his parents. Sometimes, when my mother finds that Peng Hui is wronged because she and her brother are treated unfairly at home, she always says "Xiaohui, you are the eldest of the family, Huahua is the youngest, and even your younger brother." So, you have to fulfill the responsibility of being a elder brother, and take care of your younger brother more often. You can't even care about such trivial things with him."
The young Peng Hui listened completely. When he entered his mother, he felt that his parents did not love him, but since he became an older brother, he should have the responsibility and responsibility of his older brother. Since then, the sensible Peng Hui has been like a little adult, sharing the burden for his parents, and he has shown infinite tolerance and humility to his younger brother Peng Huahua.
Later, Peng Hui grew up and met a gentle and kind girl Qiaoqiao. They were heart-stricken and considerate to each other, and basically there was no quarrel during the time they were in love together. Later, Qiaoqiao learned that the steady and good-tempered man in front of her grew up in a family environment where his father didn't hurt, his mother didn't love, and his younger brother had to be bullied. At that moment, some unspeakable distressed.
After more than two years of getting along, two people who loved each other decided to join hands in marriage. Qiao Qiao's parents, who only want to make their daughter happy, don't have too much demand for this. They only hope that Peng Hui can treat Qiao Qiao well. On the other hand, Peng Hui's parents found various excuses to say that there were some financial problems in the family recently, so the eldest son Peng Hui could only take out 1,000 yuan as a gift to marry his wife. Qiao Qiao, who wanted to marry Peng Hui, didn't care about such details.
In desperation, Qiao Qiao's parents did not express too much opinion. They could only take one hundred thousand yuan in private as the pretty private money, so that they could marry their daughter with confidence.
After marriage,Qiao Qiao lives with her husband Peng Hui, her uncle Peng Huahua, and her parents-in-law. Therefore, occasional small frictions and bickering are common occurrences. Fortunately, Peng Hui will stand on Qiaoqiao's side to speak for her anyway. But then, the longer they lived together, the conflict between Qiaoqiao and her mother-in-law began to arouse slowly. It was really unacceptable, so I could only move out with Peng Hui after discussing it with Peng Hui, and when the economic conditions improved, I would buy a house with a down payment.
After moving out, although the two people's living standards are not as good as before, but fortunately, the relationship between Peng Hui and Qiaoqiao has not been affected by this. They still feel distressed, tolerant and considerate to each other as always. After another two years, the money in their hands was finally able to pay the down payment, so they went to their favorite real estate and bought a house together. They only wrote the name of Qiao Qiao, and they also notarized whether they belonged to it. Qiao Qiao is owned by one person alone.
is such a sense of security, which makes pretty parents feel very pleased. Therefore, they used another 200,000 yuan from their savings as the renovation money for the young couple's new home. In order to make himself as rich as possible, Peng Hui still planned to go home and seek some support from his parents, but they found a grand excuse and dealt with it. Therefore, they still didn't pay a cent for buying a house for renovation this time.
There is no way, the parents' inconsideration can only make Peng Hui work harder. Fortunately, Qiaoqiao and Peng Hui have a good relationship, so the problems of life are not a problem before their eyes. The two supported each other and encouraged each other, and life finally got better. Two years later, Peng Huahua also talked with his girlfriend for several years considering marriage. What's very different from the previous ones is that this time their parents seem to pay special attention to them. They just prepared a full-fledged house, with a gift of 180,000 yuan, and the decoration is all in accordance with the standards of a little daughter-in-law.
This incident made Peng Hui feel even more sorry for Qiao Qiao, but he had no choice but to do with his parents' ideas, so he had to work hard and treat her better. Fortunately, I was full of Peng Hui's pretty, and she didn't mind about it, because she felt that she was only married to this good and responsible man in front of her, and other things weren't important.
the days of the family,After a few years of peace and harmony, no matter how much money and effort the in-laws gave to Peng Huahua's family, Qiao Qiao always had reasons to let Peng Hui feel relieved. But after the death of the father-in-law, the mother-in-law, who lived alone, wanted to follow a son to provide for the elderly, which completely broke everyone's peaceful life.
What Peng Hui and Qiao Qiao can't think of is that Peng Huahua, who has been taken care of by so many parents since he was a child, does not want to take up the responsibility of supporting his mother at this time. There is no way, as the boss of the family, Peng Hui can only bear more. For this reason, he is very worried that Qiaoqiao will be angry because of this. Fortunately, the empathetic Qiaoqiao understands all this very well. They took their mother from the old house to the new house, and Qiaoqiao packed her clothes for her mother in the house. But what they saw next made their young couple feel chilled.
Seeing that it was written in the will, 100% of the inheritance of the old house will be inherited by the youngest son Peng Huahua after the mother-in-law is a hundred years later. At that moment, the empathetic Qiaoqiao couldn't calm down anymore. She didn't know exactly what her husband Peng Hui did wrong to make her parents so partial. So she sobbed and asked, "Mom, how has Peng Hui done to you for so many years? Did you really not feel it at all? Okay, even if we didn't feel it, why are both of you both your biological sons? , You will treat it so differently."
The elderly mother has not realized that she has been wrong for a lifetime. She did not rush to explain, "Dear daughter-in-law, I know you have followed Peng these years Hui suffers. But there is no way. He is the elder brother and he is also the elder brother. Naturally, he has to be more affectionate to his younger brother. Of grievances. After repeatedly discussing with Qiaoqiao, they sent her mother to Peng Huahua's house together.
Peng Huahua, who has always been pampered, saw that he was unwilling to support his mother this time, so he yelled at his elder brother Peng Hui, "You have no conscience. Fortunately, parents always praise you for being sensible and obedient. But you don’t want to take care of your mother. Tell me, are you filial?"
Faced with such accusations, Peng Hui was unusually calm in his heart. He smiled and replied, "With the feelings and reason, this time I will provide for the old mother. The task is your duty of filial piety."
is a parent,The most taboo thing is to treat two children not to be equal. Just like the parents of Peng Hui and Peng Huahua mentioned in the article, they are kind to their younger son. As everyone knows, these behaviors have already chilled his other child.
Today’s topic:
Have you ever been treated differently by your parents?
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