Generally speaking, when a person does something wrong, he must have a guilty conscience, and he is afraid of being discovered by others, and he is even more reluctant to face the punishment that he may face after the incident.
Therefore, their mood is very complicated. Although they are lucky on the one hand, they are also worried and fearful from the details. So, do men also have such a mentality when they are cheating? What does
think of his wife in such a situation? The three men below spoke the truth.
Mr. Tan: I feel guilty, but I can't stop my love for my lover.
40-year-old Mr. Tan has a very calm attitude towards his extramarital affairs.
He said that although he also feels guilty about his wife, this kind of guilt usually arises when he goes home to face her after he has done something wrong.
And when I get along with my lover, impulse, enthusiasm and desire completely take over, and all people and things that have nothing to do with it are left behind.
"I know that I am sorry for my wife, and she has done nothing wrong.
But between men and women, we really can't use responsibility and the like as a criterion for judging, I can only say that I may not be a good man in the first place. , weak-willed.
But in any case, these can't stop my yearning and pursuit of fresh love outside marriage and fresh feelings between lovers.
Every time I go home from a tryst outside, I face my wife's meeting. If you feel guilty, you will often buy some gifts or the like as a kind of compensation.
She has kept it in the dark until now, and she does not know how she will react if she is discovered one day in the future?
I didn't think about getting a divorce, and I was afraid of losing her, but now I can't control the situation, and I feel sad when I think about it!
Mr. Pang: a little more tired
Compared with the above gentleman, Mr. Pang is much less concerned about the question and answer!
He admitted that he also has a lover outside of marriage, and the feeling of being with each other is very pleasant, which makes him feel that he truly has love and happiness.
As for his wife, he said that he was only tired of facing each other, and he was too lazy to pay more attention to her before, and now he does not want to pay more attention to her.
Mr. Pang said that the reason why he cheated was not entirely new, but that his wife had become more and more rude and fierce since she got married...
It's not a problem if she has completely changed, and she is not sloppy. The fatter he grows, the more hideous he looks. Whether it is appearance or personality, men are not interested.
Also, the more contradictions the two of them cross, the less and less they want to stay at home and spend a long time with each other.
He knew that cheating was wrong, but on the premise that he couldn't get a divorce because the children were still young, he couldn't find any other way to "treat" himself better than cheating.
Mr. Dai: I don't care what she thinks
htmlThe 243-year-old Mr. Dai has no change in expression. He also bluntly admitted that he had an extramarital affair, and until now he is still very happy with his extramarital lover.
Moreover, this situation didn't happen in recent years. He started showing mercy every few years after marriage, which means that he was not loyal to the marriage for a long time.
So when he is out with other women, will he feel sorry for his wife at home?
To this, he replied: "I have no feeling, I have never thought about this question. After all, I have been used to it for so many years. As far as I am concerned, I don't care about her views and thoughts.
She also It's not that I don't know, I've had troubles before, but I don't want to leave. I think the reason why she is willing to put up with me is not because of how much she loves me, nor for the sake of the children (because I said before that if she wants to leave, take the children with her) If I leave, I am willing to pay enough property for their mother and son to live.)
I want to have such a right to continue to own all my property.
If this is the case, then I have to accept this personal hobby of mine!" When
said these words, the corner of his mouth turned to one side, obviously with a little contempt.
Originally, he did something wrong, but it seemed that the other party was wrong. At least from his expression and words, it is such a view revealed.
Conclusion:
In fact, when a man chooses to cheat, when they make such a decision, they have already forgotten the feelings and dignity of the other half.
If he still cares about the other party, then this kind of behavior will definitely hurt the other party, and it must not be done easily.
Therefore, once men indulge their desires, no matter what reasons they give or what explanations they give, they cannot hide the fact that they no longer take their partners in their eyes and hearts.
The reason why some men feel guilty afterwards is a kind of pity for the women who have let them down after the passion has been released. Between desire and responsibility, which side has the upper hand, in fact, everyone has already understood.
As for those men who don't even have this kind of mentality, they are even more indifferent to marriage and partners! The reason why
has such an indifferent attitude is either because the quality of marriage is low and they no longer have any love and nostalgia for their wives;
In short, a woman has to understand that once a man cheats, as long as he has no idea to interrupt the extramarital affair, he will have no attachment and respect for you.
Don't have any illusions about the other party, and make all preparations in advance, so as not to be sad in the future, there is no way to protect your legitimate rights and interests.
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