Illustration: Stills from the TV series "Love in the Fallen City"
Anyone who has read Zhang Ailing's works knows that her heroines rarely have a successful ending. They are more of a tragic perspective to tell people some profound truths, so that people can use this to alert, reflect and manage their lives more objectively and rationally.
However, the heroine "Bai Liusu" in the short story "Love in the Allure" is an accident. As Zhang Ailing’s most famous masterpiece, this novel gives us not only love and marriage as simple as love, but also body Under the torrent of the times, how women find themselves and live out themselves.
Bai Liusu, as a victim of the old women, did not compromise and fate, but resolutely awakened after suffering various violent attacks, and then relied on his own strength to dominate life. She told us that if there is someone who can make you confess your fate, that person can only be yourself.
Otherwise, no one is qualified to deny all the enthusiasm of your life, no one can tell you: You can't, your life can only be like this.
Bai Liusu is a divorced 28-year-old woman. At that time, she was no longer young, so no one looked at her. They thought her life was over. Can only be an old girl who depends on her natal family.
She has been living in her natal family after the divorce, and she has been ridiculed by her brother-in-law, but these did not obliterate her will, but gave her hope in life. She finally married Fan Liuyuan, a wealthy son who had returned from the UK, and became a wealthy wife. She breathed a sigh of relief. Although the process was very twists and turns, fortunately, the ending came to a happy ending.
Bai Tassel's temperament is from the inside out, she is not a real beauty, but her charm cannot be replaced. If she only relied on her outstanding appearance, she would not be able to easily capture Fan Liuyuan's heart.
After all, Fan Liuyuan has never lacked beautiful women. The reason why he can see the difference of white tassels after reading countless people must be because her temperament gave him a rare sense of surprise, and then stimulated his desire for challenge. , So approach her step by step.
This "Love in the Allure" was later remade into a TV series,Actress Chen Shu plays the heroine Bai Liusu. When she is wearing a cheongsam sitting at the desk and drinking coffee elegantly, many people can’t help feeling: she is the Bai Liusu that came out of the book. Her image is in line with the readers’ perception of the original work. All imagination.
And Chen Shu herself is also a typical representative of a "temperament woman". She not only has superb acting skills, but also has extremely high demands on herself. Years of self-discipline has gradually turned her into a woman who is both internal and external.
There is no shortage of beautiful women in this world. What is really lacking is women with temperament. Whether it is the white tassels described by Zhang Ailing or the actor Chen Shu in real life, they all give us the same enlightenment: being beautiful is only a bonus, and living beautiful is the most important thing.
Regarding temperament, the writer Yishu said this: A lady with a real temperament never shows off everything she has, she will not tell others what books she has read, where she has been, and how many clothes she has , Have bought any jewelry, because she has no sense of inferiority.
Indeed, the true temperament comes from inner abundance, abundance, fulfillment and calmness. They don't need to show off, don't need to show off, even if they just stand quietly in the crowd, they will feel sparkly. This is given by time and experience, and it will not be obliterated no matter how the world beats it.
Whether a woman has temperament can be judged from three places. The more obvious the characteristics of these places, the more outstanding the temperament.
One: In terms of mentality, be unafraid of age and always remain calm
The white tassels in Zhang Ailing’s "Love in the Fallen City" are not without anxiety because of age, but this is just a momentary thing. She knows that the passage of time cannot be changed, and only by changing her mentality can she live more calmly.
Are you young? It doesn't matter, you will be old after two years, and youth is not rare here.
This is Zhang Ailing's description of "age". It aims to tell us that youth and beauty are not a woman's eternal capital. If you happen to have it, it is a kind of luck. If you don't have it, you don't need to be sad.
only without fear of age,Only by keeping calm can you live a truly elegant life.
2: Externally, highly self-disciplined, not allowed to improvise easily
Bai Liusu was never a person who allowed himself to improvise easily. Before meeting Fan Liuyuan, someone introduced her to her. But she didn't like it, so she didn't agree. She doesn't think that she has been divorced. When she is old, she is no longer expensive. She thinks that marriage is a lifelong matter.
In addition, she is told to be self-disciplined, her dress is elegant and decent, makeup is exquisite and generous, whether she goes out to meet people, or is at home alone, she does not allow herself to be any sloppy.
Women tidy themselves up beautifully, not to please anyone, but to be worthy of themselves. Who wants to waste in the best years? A woman is a person who pleases herself, if no one is watching, she will be beautiful for herself, and it is worthy of exquisiteness to treat herself as an audience.
"Little Women" by Louisa May Alcott is a master of temperament women. Not all the girls in the book are outstanding in appearance, but they can definitely be regarded as real ladies, especially older sisters. Meg March, she is a delicate girl.
When attending the dance party, even if one of the gloves is dirty, it is absolutely unacceptable to her. In her view, it is not only disrespect for others, but also irresponsibility for herself.
Many people may think this is unnecessary, but each detail represents your attitude towards life, and life attitude directly affects the development of your inner temperament.
3: In terms of the value of life, you are loyal to yourself and will not easily change your principles
A woman without principles is like a circle without edges and corners. Anyone can easily push you down without any fuss Li, this is also the reason why many women are always unhappy in love or marriage.
They feel that they have given enough to touch each other,In exchange for the respect of the other party. As everyone knows, when you gradually lose yourself, along with the other party's respect for you is also lost.
Really temperamental women are always loyal to their hearts. They know what they want and will not easily change themselves because of external voices or the denial of others. They have their own judgments and will accept what they are good to. If you are bad for yourself, forget it.
The most rare thing for women is to live out of themselves. When your personal value is in your hands, others cannot shake you. Being loyal to yourself is also the source of your temperament.
To judge whether a woman has temperament, it can be judged from three aspects: internal, external and self-worth. If she is always loyal to herself, she will not easily change for others, and always maintain a high degree of self-discipline, regardless of external Inwardly, she will strive to live exquisitely, so her charm must radiate from the inside to the outside, which no one else can take away. No matter what kind of situation he encounters, he can remain elegant and calm.
is just like the white tassels written by Zhang Ailing, no matter what kind of injustice fate gives, flowers can bloom within a kilometer, especially because of her luck, rather than ability.
Her counterattack undoubtedly taught women a lesson, telling us: No matter how much hardship you endure in love, how many detours you take, as long as you always live awake, live transparently, and always maintain your own temperament, then Sooner or later, someone will fall for you, appreciate you and affirm you, and fall in love with you because of this.
Remember, self-love is the prerequisite for being loved. When you are good, the whole world will become gentle.
Take advantage of your free time to walk into Zhang Ailing’s world and experience the true charm of her character Apocalypse of female happiness.
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