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First, there are three kinds of people in this world!
The first kind of person is born without learning, and is born with nature! It's hard to find, it's beyond the reach of manpower, and there is no need to envy it.
Liu Bang has a bold personality, does not like to read, is open-minded, does not like farming, and only likes to call friends. Seeing Qin Shihuang traveling, Liu Bang said, "Well, it's the same as a man!"
Liu Bang started his business at the age of 46 and became the CEO of the Han Dynasty at the age of 54. At the age of 65, he wrote "The Song of the Great Wind", "The wind is rising, the clouds are flying, the Wiga and the mainland are returning to their hometown, and the warriors are guarding the square."
Zhu Yuanzhang's father, grandfather and great-grandfather are all taxpayers who are in arrears and hide debts everywhere. He worked as a tenant for the landlord. In his childhood, due to the poverty of his family, he could not study, so he could only herd cattle for the landlord in the village. I finally became a monk, because there was no one on it, and I was sent to the temple to travel for alms. He started his business at the age of 25 and became the CEO of Ming Dynasty at the age of 40. Inaugurated the stereotyped selection of talents, a stable form of imperial examination and selection of talents, and gave ordinary people an opportunity to "counterattack".
The second type of people account for the majority of the social population. It requires the joint efforts of parents and the society, repeated corrections, and under the influence of the environment, they will move towards the palace of success. The most famous figure of
is Zeng Guofan. His grandfather lost the lawsuit because he could not read and decided to let his children and grandchildren study. Zeng Guofan has the highest IQ among his children and grandchildren. Participated in the county exam at the age of 14, took the exam 7 times, and was admitted as a scholar at the age of 23. Because his teacher, his father Zeng Linshu, took the exam 17 times in a row. At the age of 43, he was the second-to-last in the exam. Zeng Guofan decided to follow a famous teacher and study hard. After working hard three times, he became Gongsheng. 27-year-old Zeng Guofan Zhong Jinshi, top three and forty-two. Zeng Guofan is good at self-examination, and his evaluation is just one word, "clumsy." However, this person was out of the realm. He was promoted seven times in 10 years, and he was promoted to 10th level in a row, and he became a second-rank senior. During the period of returning to the hometown of Ding You, the Hunan army was formed, scholars led the army, relying on "strengthening the stronghold and fighting in a dull war", it consumed the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, built the foundation of the Hunan army system, laid out the history, and made battalions step by step, letting the Manchu and Qing imperial family out.
The third kind of people, no matter how hard the parents and the society work hard, they will fall out of ranks, walk a long way in life, and walk around in style. It is more common in the wanderers of various countries, self-exile, no one can stop it.
Today, I only talk about the growth and nurturing process of the second kind of people, the most practical value!
Some people say that the development of society will accelerate in the future, and the demand for professional positions will change, and society will redefine talents.
Actually, this is nothing.
From a historical perspective, a country has a three-hundred-year limit. It is 100 years to grow, 100 years to live, and 100 years to fail. This is the inherent law of social operation. Every era is the same and can only be adapted.
Only when the society is surging, can you have the opportunity to master the situation. Everyone is in the same era, and there is no problem of inequality. The ancients pay attention to farming and studying heirlooms, and their mentality is very clear: "If you are poor, you will be good for yourself, and if you are rich, you will benefit the world!"
explained the principles of family culture construction.
nobles are not developed in one generation!
needs the efforts of several generations to accumulate the cultural foundation of children's growth, mainly targeted, and solve several major problems.
The first question is how to complete the education plan for the child. The starting point is to help the child develop good living habits.
The second question is how to help children smoothly get through the troubles of growth. These troubles are the perplexities that everyone grows up to, including many physical and psychological problems of all ages.
The third question is the communication between parents and children. Give an effective suggestion. Parents should keep calm.
The fourth question is how to help students develop good study habits, avoid eager for quick success and quick gains, be greedy for quickness, and not be cautious.
Fifth question, how to complete the child's personality shaping, writing to express the way, the most precious quality of life is independent personality and self-reliance. Remember, it is better to have no books than to write.
The sixth question, how to cultivate children's core literacy: sound mental quotient, moral quotient, volunteer quotient, IQ, emotional quotient, adverse quotient, comprehension quotient, financial quotient, health quotient!
1. IQ is expressed as the degree of mastery of knowledge, which determines a person's ability to analyze and solve problems, and is a person's basic survival ability.
2. Emotional intelligence is manifested in the ability to manage one's emotions and deal with interpersonal relationships. No matter what business you do, it is essentially dealing with people.
3. Adversity quotient is expressed as the ability to withstand pressure in the face of adversity, or the ability to withstand failure and setbacks. Life is like an adversity, and I am also a pedestrian. Life is alive, unsatisfactory, nine out of ten. Adversity is the most important thing. The foundation of success in any business is that you are still struggling.
4, German business performance is the level of virtue or moral personality. Society prefers people who are considerate, respectful, tolerant, forgiving, honest, responsible, peaceful, loyal, polite, and humorous.
5. Gallant performance is a measure of courage, courage, and courage, which embodies a spirit of adventure. Any extraordinary success requires extraordinary courage and courage.
6. Financial quotient manifests financial management ability, especially investment income ability. It is a common social phenomenon that most industrious people cannot get rich. The reason is that the basic basis for the distribution of wealth is the ability of capital to operate.
7. Mental quotient is expressed as the ability to maintain mental health, adjust psychological pressure, and maintain a good mental state and vitality. People with high IQ are more likely to be depressed, the Internet is developed, and the information channels are unobstructed, which brings a more real difference between the rich and the poor. There is no need to worry about inequality, and this is human nature. A normal heart is more important than anything, at least Live peacefully.
8. Zhi quotient is expressed as a person's level of will quality, including tenacity, purpose, decisiveness, self-control, etc. Any achievement stems from dreams, and anyone's achievement starts from determination.
9. Spiritual quotient is manifested as inspiration for the essence of things, insight ability and intuitive thinking ability. Success comes from 99% of sweat and 1% of inspiration. Inspiration is more precious than sweat. Being able to break the inherent thinking mode is the most precious quality of life for pioneers.
10. Health Quotient is expressed as a person's health awareness, health knowledge and health ability. Without health, everything is zero.
Family culture pays attention to orderly inheritance. In essence, in order to have a happy life for the next generation, each generation of parents must recognize a reality. Parents need to lead by example, through words and deeds, to carry out meticulous education for their children. The most noble inheritance of
is the inheritance of soul and spiritual power. The reality tells us that the best education is to fight father!
Some parents find all kinds of excuses, no time, no energy, and completely push their children's education process to society or school.
Unless your child is the first type of person, your child will not achieve much. In the process of growing up, it is not bad to be able to maintain the social position of the parents without losing the hierarchy. Any achievement of
comes from self-discipline, self-disciplined parents and self-disciplined children.
can be said that those excellent people win at the starting line. Behind them, there are excellent parents who are good at guiding and educating children. The essence of
education is that one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul calls another soul. Parents' high level of thinking, resources provided, pattern of vision, and training methods are all subtly affecting the growth of children. Under such a family culture environment, children who grow up will not be bad.
To be honest, if you want to cultivate good children, parents must first become good parents. Fighting father in the educational context of
is the resource environment that parents can create, including concepts, lifestyles, ways of thinking, and ways of life.
gives parents a piece of advice, in any case, we must give their children a happy and loving family environment!
