After countless nights where you were coaxing your child to sleep, you could just squeeze out a little time to breathe. Can you remember those days when you once longed to be a mother, remembering you once fantasized about how you love your child, and how happy you are yourself?
That is the original intention of us to have a child. Just because of the arrival of the child, we can be deeply satisfied.
We have also been satisfied, but soon, we were embarrassed by the continuous situation. We never slept for a few more peaceful sleeps. The heavy housework and financial pressure... We began to live like a coolie, only knowing to work hard, and never having many smiles anymore.
Is raising children only a chore for us?
Richard Taple, known as the growth mentor, provides new ideas for us who are eager to get happiness and satisfaction from parenting. Release our own strengths by repeating the happy moments of parent-child, and at the same time learn to communicate effectively... to keep us happy frequently and easily and satisfied in the process of accompanying our children.
- Repeat and the happy moment between children
As parents, we have all had sweet interactions with our children, and in the interaction, we and our children have gained deep satisfaction with each other. For example, before going to bed, hold your child and tell stories; for example, accompany your child to watch a TV program that both of you like; for example, go to the park together to fly kites in spring and pick up fallen leaves in autumn....
Try to increase these happy times, and you will find that the happiness of your disappearance will be recovered bit by bit, and accumulate, and you will inevitably experience the beauty of being a parent, and thus return to your original intention: having children is a happiness that belongs to you alone.
- Release your own advantages
Each of us can find our own advantages. For example, if you like reading books, then when you are raising children, you can tell your children many stories in the books, and this is your advantage. For example, if you like exercise, then you can help your child learn more about the exercise you know so as to motivate him.
releases your advantages. It can not only benefit your children, but also allow you to immerse yourself in this enjoyment for a longer time. While giving you more free and happy time, it will enhance the intimate relationship between parents and children.
What’s important is that you won’t have any psychological burden, you will only feel that raising a baby is also good, and you are very happy.
- Communicate effectively from time to time
Any family member, you can express your emotions, your needs, and your grievances in any way. Many times, only by speaking out can you let go, get help, and let others understand your situation.
When your situation is deeply understood by the other party, love will follow. As a mother, you often have to pay overload, and the love in your heart is almost exhausted. You also need to be loved, and such love comes from understanding, respect and gratitude.
So, try to communicate more with family members, open up channels of love, and reap your own love.
Raising children is not a chore, but something that makes us feel happy. As long as we repeat the happy moments with our children, use and enjoy our own advantages, and at the same time gain love through communication, our life of raising children can also be very beautiful!
This book is close to life, easy to understand, and it makes people suddenly enlightened when reading it. If you also want to raise children more easily, why not read this book!
